and youre gonna try to change it?
>>34767923Being an incel means that it's outside of your control, so no
youre still young
>>3476794225 isn't young, only 3% of people are still virgins at that age, and that includes many who do it for religious reasons
Stop looking at yourself as an incel. Most people don't care. Those that do are chronically on the internet. You just had bad luck and you haven't found the right one yet, okay?
youre religious as in you cant do anything till marriage? im sorry if i take long to reply, ts captcha thing is killing me
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zoh61Pn61_k
>>34767951That doesn't do anything though, it's like telling a person with no legs to stop looking at themselves as disabled
>>34767955I'm not religious. I'm short, ugly, poor and boring
man icl if i met sum1 that is 25 yo and its a virgin i wouldnt care. ppl dont rlly care, yk?
>>34767956I will give this video a watch. I've seen plenty of videos like these made by ex-virgins and it always wait either because they didn't try enough, or they were visibly very autistic
>>34767967I know they don't care, but I care. I don't want to be an incel, capische?
>>34767958I want you take this with a grain of salt, but you need to get blocked more often by hot girls until you find the right one that lets you in. If you do that in a humble manner you should be fine.
js worry about yourself. whatever u do, do it for u. its not like you NEED to be with someone. ah, and in order to make someone love you, first u need to love yourself
>>34767992What do you mean by blocked, like I should start messaging random girls on instagram. I don't live in the US, I don't know If people do that here
I had sex for the first time when I was 26.
>>34767947Nothing will change once you have sex.
>>34768001Yes you need to open yourself up to more women. Yes horrible consequences can happen, but it is what it is. We're not talking a shortcut, we are talking a journey anon.
>>34767963You're literally me. Lmao.>>34767992There is an endless horde of simps and other undesirables doing that to ALL women. Adding one more will do nothing for OP but waste his time.
>>34767900>35 years old, going on 36.>never had sex>literally living in my parents basement.>ChatGPT keeps asking me if I'm suicidal.>On the other hand, at my age, everybody assumes I did have sex.>I even go around on social media telling people that I'm a serial adulterer and they believe me.>my ragebait is unmatched.>Now, if only I had a good reason to think highly of myself like a script to a movie that people will love for decades and academics will revere for centuries.>Too bad, I hate my life and everyone in it.>I blame my parents and I spit in their shampoo whenever they're not home as retaliation for spanking me when I was kid.Try not to end up like me. That's what another 35 year old told me when I was 25 years old, myself.
>>34768474I know anon. That's almost all of us. But you lack faith in yourself. You keep looking at life as a limitation. That's stupid. What I want you to do anon, is challenge everything and learn from challenging everything as yourself. If the animals outside thought challenging things was a horrible idea, then why would they live?
>>34768513stop talking to chatgt
>>34768520I've got nobody else to talk to except for the stupid assholes infesting the city I've always wanted to move away from but could never afford to do.Literally nobody understands me as well as it.
>>34768524OP like wants a sexy prostitute now without having to pay for one. This is ridiculous and he claims to have an IQ of 120. OP just watch some fucking porn or some shit like that. You want a real woman you have to be yourself and be willing to take risks and learn from them, period.
>>3476790028 and incel. I still believe it can happen before 38, but it's slippery territory the more time passes.Every time I sit alone in the office, all the gossipy guys and girls keep chatting about their most mundane relationship chores, and hearing it every day actually makes me somewhat relieved I'm not putting up with the slop they whinge about every time.It's not that bad to not love, just to not be loved is all
god damn dude just go have sex you guys don't realize how easy it is. literally leave the house go to a bar or a club and just be normal for a few hours and you can hook up with someone omfg
>>34769041Damn, you make it sound easy.I will copy and paste what I posted in this other thread >>34769027I was in the gifted program in highschool and am apparently goodlooking according to older women and some girls, my first girlfriend ever approached me after classes back when I was in highschool. I am also fit if you must know.The thing is, I am now in my early 20s and am a virgin, even though I have had many chances to get laid. One chick even put my hands on her breasts without any effort on my part.The thing is, I am afraid of intimacy or something, I don't know how to explain it.I believed in god growing up, have always had fear of STDs, and am a strange combination of cold/anxious when I am in an intimate situation where I am alone with a girl.I am not asexual and I am not gay, I do not know what my problem is, I really do desire to go further.I tried to force myself to get it over with many months ago and ended up chickening out for the final time, now I barely leave the house and get really depressed whenever a beautiful woman/girl smiles at me or tries to talk to me, with recent encounters ending in me being overcome with panic and avoiding their gazes and walking away quickly.I never had this problem in highschool, I was a normal boy and could flirt with no problem, I genuinely don't understand what happened.I hope you end up seeing this and taking my enquiry seriously since this sounds like a joke and there seems to be no name for my condition whenever I attempt to look it up online.tl;dr: I have a mental block or aversion of some sort o going to last base.
>>34769054i might have been too harsh, i respect ur self reflection.i lost my virginity at 19 after being terrified of intimacy and of trusting another person, and it took me years of learning to trust and love myself.i'm sorry that you have a mental block, i think that goes for a lot of incels, at least the ones who don't hate women. therapy is most likely the best option for you, but i genuinely wish you luck and hope for the best.you're gonna get through this, i know i did. and love is best thing on earth we can experience, once you feel it you know that it's true.good luck <3
>>34767931How convenient.So why even make thread at all, if that's what you truly believe?
>>34769041I’m tall and white. Worst combo you can have.plus white females that aren’t old or fat are hard to find.
>>34769086To look for ways to cope with inceldom of course
>>34767900I'm also a 25 year old incel, what keeps me alive is the love of my mother, my friends and copes like video games, movies and exercising. Sadly there's no escape from inceldom if you're bad looking and/or short.
>>34767900https://youtu.be/lqZehFAwoTM?t=32It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.Whether you're 25 or 45 it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.. nothing less.
>>34767900im 32 and an incel, i've only fucked 15 women and the last time i got laid was may
>>34767931That is an interesting take on the definition of involuntary. It may be helplessness but it could be a lack of volunteering.
