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On Saturday during night out I accidentally met a girl from work. She tells me she got into a fight with her bf so she and her friend went to party a bit. We went together for a night out and got pretty wasted. Anyway, I wake up laying next to her in her bed hugging her. I doubt we fucked because I had all my clothing on and doubt my dick worked on all that booze. She woke up 30 mins later and told me it's time to get out. As stated above, we work together and she does have a bf. I noticed she barely interacts with me now and tries to leave the room as soon as she sees I'm there. Should I try to ease it down or keep distance. I'm really confused how to behave from here on.
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>>34769931
Do your job professionally and politely and act like it never happened, until next time it does.
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>>34769996
>until next time it does.
You implying I'm now her plan B anytime things go south with bf?
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>>34769996
as someone whose had a similar experience, I second this.
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>>34770001
unfortunately this is just how all women are. it's kind of a bummer, but it's just survival. keep your materialistic instinct.
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>>34770008
So her acting distant, keeping interactions short and formal and acting kinda ignorant is her way of protecting her relationship or her character or what?
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>>34770011
She got into a fight with her BF and probably used you as a cope for her emotional whim. It's hard to judge as I was not there and did not see the full thing boil down, but more than likely she just used you. this does not necessarily mean you're a cuck or anything. Anyway, she's being formal and keeping interactions short because she knows what she did and this is how she'll survive in the modern workplace. If she isn't gossiping or reporting you to higher ups then you're doing something right. Just return the favor and be calm, respectful and polite to her back.
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>>34769996
Fpbp
>>34769931
She almost had sex with you as she was pissed at off at her bf as revenge, but didn't go through with it. Now shes worried about you not getting it and hounding her for pussy, so she goes out of her way to avoid you.

>>34770001
Most likely not. You were just there in that moment.



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