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like the losers that die in silence that cant connect with anyone is another subculture of humans, others are "shitty" people who has the perfect amount of vindictiveness and sociopathy to not care about anyone
what the fuck separates us from eachother
why dont i feel like i belong anywhere


my main problem is when u scroll on wtv, you find two prominent kinds of people ones who get attention and "likes" and the others who sound retarded and out of their mind with 5 likes

and why tf do i care, who tf thinks about this bs why cant i care about normal shit
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>>34770182
I feel you anon, you're either a normie or not, nothing you can do about it.
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God I wish I was normal. I honestly feel subhuman at this point. Like I'm not even an actual human being. Just an imposter pretending to be human while everyone else has a soul and is living life, having human experiences. It's not just the lack of sex, it's everything
t. 35 year old virgin
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>>34770324
dam it, idk idc now i think i get hyper focused and hung up on weird topics for an hour then get bored


Realistically speaking
its not just a normie or not, i think people and cultures branch into multiple shit, even the normie subculture has degrees to it same goes for being "edgy" or different

i do think you can change if you forced your way into different environments for relatively long periods of time
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Fear. We are all slaves.
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>>34770384
i feel the same desu i do smell a troll from the way u type but maybe im paranoid

i have 2 questions dont be offended
1-are u ugly and if yes, say the worst thing about u
2- why did you use the word "subhuman" its weird
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>>34770413
i love this answer, to whatever its, everyone is a slave to "it"
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>>34770182
You're in control of what you care about, no one else is saddled with that responsibility. You should limit your care to the things that are within your control and which can make your life better. Renounce care for other people's views and remind yourself every day that it's a waste of energy to dwell on things that fall outside of your control.
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>>34770182
the thing that makes people normies is oversocialisation.

oversocialisation is the process at which people are trained to act and think as society demands.

considering in the modern world our society is now monstrously big and powerful, most normies are hyper conditioned to fit in with the conditions of society, and those who fail to be conditioned enough by society end up here.
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>>34770182
Everyone's different. Most of the in-group / out-group dynamic is about confidence and winning the pecking order game. There's always a pecking order, even if it's extremely subtle. Your outcasts are usually people who've given up on the pecking order and accepted they're not a part of X group.
Sometimes this is the correct strategy. Knowing when to abandon a social circle is an extremely valuable skill and something almost everyone has to do at least a few times in their lives.
But other times, it's more valuable to hold your ground and play the game. Especially if it's at a job you don't plan on leaving, or some other environment where you're confined with the same group.
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Because people couldn't fight for their inner rockstar throughout life. I recently discovered it back before I could have thrown it away and become a disgusting boomer. It's a combination of the potential of losing family and friends. People don't realize that families look past aggressive moments and see the person at heart. The point is you need your inner rockstar... But without the douchebag cocaine addict.
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>>34770384
You will never be normal. You have no fluent social skills, you have no developmental milestones, you have no teenage memories. You are a neurodivergent social reject twisted by self improovement memes and copium into a disgusting mockery of nature's perfection. All the “validation” you get is two-faced and half-hearted. Behind your back people mock you. Your parents are disgusted and ashamed of you, your “friends” laugh at your autistic speech patterns behind closed doors.

Women are utterly repulsed by you. Thousands of years of evolution have allowed women to sniff out social rejects with incredible efficiency. Even outcasts who “looksmaxxed” behave uncanny and unnatural to a man. Your forced eye contact is a dead giveaway. And even if you manage to get a drunk girl home with you, she’ll turn tail and bolt the second she gets a whiff of your shy, inexperienced aura.

You will never be happy. You wrench out a fake smile every single morning and tell yourself you just need to "grind more", but deep inside you feel the depression creeping up like a weed, ready to crush you under the unbearable weight.

Eventually it’ll be too much to bear - you’ll buy a rope, tie a noose, put it around your neck, and plunge into the cold abyss. Your parents will find you, heartbroken but relieved that they no longer have to live with the unbearable shame and disappointment. They’ll bury you during a funeral with less than 50 people, and every passerby for the rest of eternity will know a mentally ill loner is buried there. Your body will decay and go back to the dust, and all that will remain of your legacy is a skeleton that will unmistakably forgotten after your parents die.

This is your fate. This is what you chose. There is no turning back.
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>>34770409
>even the normie subculture has degrees to it same goes for being "edgy" or different

But the core of it, they're still normies, aren't they? It's nothing more than a costume for them. Being weird ist their choice and they can also stop being weird at any given/chosen moment.
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>>34770182
Anyone else not retarded, hateful or deformed, but still can’t fit in with either normies and geeks? I rarely boast or try to put a focus on my life in a conversation, because I’m scared I’ll be called a narcissist.



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