I'm constantly living under my dad's oppressive control and it's really wearing me down at this point. I attempted suicide 4 years ago, so I guess he just doesn't trust me anymore. I just want to go out and hang with my friends, but he doesn't let me do that either. Honestly, I barely have a social circle left. I don't have many friends, but sometimes I just want to go out by myself. He won't allow that either. I'm 21 years old. The only way I can get out is by pretending to go to work with my mom. I just stay outside by myself until her shift is over (around 5 PM)."
Do you think you will ever move out.
>>34770750Either talk to your father and make it clear to him that you're old enough to go out on your own, or just move out of your parents' house. I don't know what your work experience is like, but you could gain more experience or look for a stable job that pays enough for you to afford an apartment somewhere far away from there.
>>34770750
OP is a really cute person.
>>34771476Thank you. I'm still in school and finding a job isn't really possible for me right now. I only come to my family during the summer holidays.
>>34771348I don't know
>>34771508Thank you
>>34770750Live in his house, play by his rules.Don't like that? Get a job, save your pennies, and move out.
rape him to assert dominance and he will leave you alone
Job not doable because you're only visiting on breaks?Go find a volunteer position. Hit up your local food bank, soup kitchen, women's rescue program, hell even public works. They wont give a fuck that youre fucking back off to school in a month or two. Youll get away from your loser father, do something constructive with your time, and probably meet some cool people. Staff will be down to be a character reference in the future which is huge for getting away from shitty family.Once youre going out to volunteer a few times a week you could probably slip in a fake shift and have leisure time outside. If you really befriend people at your volunteer slots, they'd probably even be your alibi. Dont give up
