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Why do I become a dickhead retard every time I have a chance with a woman? Seriously. Oh my fucking god.
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What did you do
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>>34770875
Self-sabotage is a strategy employed by your brain to prevent you from facing (emotional) pain.
>H-how do I stop??!!
By paying more attention and try to catch yourself in the act of doing it (being a dickhead) and adjust your behavior as you seen fit (maybe not being a dickhead)
>B-but what if I do it again???!!!
You probably will. Behavioral change is uncomfortable, painful even, and feels counterintuitive
>T-that's it. I give up. I guess I'm meant to die alone!
Sage goes in all fields.
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>>34770875
Reroll your character
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>>34770903
>Self-sabotage is a strategy employed by your brain to prevent you from facing (emotional) pain.
>>H-how do I stop??!!
>By paying more attention and try to catch yourself in the act of doing it (being a dickhead) and adjust your behavior as you seen fit (maybe not being a dickhead)
>>B-but what if I do it again???!!!
>You probably will. Behavioral change is uncomfortable, painful even, and feels counterintuitive
Fuck you, this is all accurate. Fuck you!



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