My girlfriend recently admitted to me that her bodycount is 8. We are both in our mid 20s, hitting late 20s now, and also admitted that after her breakup with one of her exes, she felt lonely and wanted to have sex and used a dating app for that. That added 3 to her bodycount. So 3 times sex with basically strangers because she craved it. Now I don't feel morally superior at all, because about 2 years ago, I also installed a dating app with the intention of finding women to just have sex with, even though I was officially still in a relationship with my ex girlfriend, but was feeling very unhappy in it. I didn't actually end up meeting anyone. I still wanted it. But I still find it hard to accept what my girlfriend did (2.5 years ago) but she says she wants to be honest and says it's a thing of the past. I still feel very disgusted and I keep thinking about it, especially since it came a shock and I didn't really expect it from her. I took my ex girlfriends virginity and was her only partner for years, now I'm my girlfriends 9th guy. I just can't fucking believe it. But like I said, if I actually had met up with the women from those dating apps, I would have fucked them, but it didn't happen. How do I cope with this all? I considered secretly meeting up with women for sex now in secret to make it even for myself but is that really a good idea... It will only remind me how twisted and sick modern relationships really are and that I made my contribution to that
My girlfriend admitted to me a few months ago that her body count was around 120. I wish it was only 8.
Haha nice joke anons. Women can't count.
>>34771484Not funny
>>34771468If it bothers you then just leave. Why should you cope? It's so fucking simple.
>>34771493We're planning on having children soon. I don't want to give up on that now and spend a long time finding someone else again.
>>34771499Yeah well good luck
>>34771499The only thing that makes me somewhat cope with it is that she told me, even before she admitted her bodycount, that I'm the only person that could make her cum with just fucking her. Regardless, I still feel disgusted yet not morally superior because I would have done the same if I could.
>>34771468that's rookie numbers in this economy. You won't do better than this. Leave her if you're truly ready to stay single forever
>>34771468Did you make the fatal mistake of asking her? I don't see why a woman would ever volunteer that info unless asked. There will never be an answer to that question you will like. I've never asked my fiance because the number will be higher than mine. Everyone's number is higher than mine because I was a fucking loser in my early 20s. My point is there's never a good reason to know the answer to that question.
>>34771478I don't think the town bicycle would be dating an animefag but assuming you aren't lying, you're dating a prostitute lmao.
>>34771561>>34771567I'm aware that her bodycount is unfortunately average in this day and age, but the biggest thing that's bothering me is that she used a dating app 3 tines just to find someone to have sex with. I did too, but never met up with anyone. I keep thinking about it and it disgusts me. Yesterday I told her that she should never again give away her body to someone she doesn't truly love. It disgusts and bothers me so hard but it was 2.5 years ago and she told me she would never do such a thing again...
>>34771610Sounds like you actually just want to cheat and are using her superior bodycount to justify it.
>>34771468I mean... all copes regarding that topic have already been repeated ad nauseam. If that's what you want, just pick one and roll with it. Problem is, that is literally lying to yourself, and that is mental illness inducing.Now, if you want me to suggest a particular cope, I suggest the "no-cope cope". Instead of a more direct lie, just tell yourself that her mileage is just another defect that she has, like her second toe being longer than her big toe. That is less mentally taxing, I think.
>>34771610You're just upset she got dick and you got no pussy using the apps. I get it, I'm bitter about the fact I didn't fuck more women but that's really a me problem. Same with you, it's a you problem that you wanted pussy and didn't get any. You can leave her and try to make up for it if you really want but is your life really gonna change with additional varieties of pussy juice on your cock?
>>34771468People really are too honest with each other. Some truths are too much for people to handle. Especially in matters like this.
>>34771468That's not bad. Some women have slept with hundreds.>>34771561he shouldnt leave her, but, he wouldnt be single forever if he did>>34771645stfu>>34771717this is kinda stupid>>34771740Wrong. You should be honest about this.
Man. I need to start racking up my own body count. No way in hell am I marrying one with more than me.
>>34771468You have a morally dubious past. She has a morally dubious past. What's the problem?
>>34772063what did OP do that was bad?if i want to rob a bank but dont actually rob it does that make me just as bad as someone who ACTUALLY robbed a bank 3 times?OPs girlfriend is a whoremind you, that's only what she admitted toher total count is triple that
I don't understand why women keep telling on themselves like this. Most men would rather not know, and you don't even have to ask, they'll just come up one day and say shit like "honey, did you know I have a double digit bodycount?"Are they getting psyoped into making their partners imagine them getting fucked by strangers? My ex once prefaced this revelation by telling me she once heard that it's good to let your partner know these things (lol).Can any foids weight in? Why do you keep doing this?
>>34772199It started when we were walking on the beach and she asked me if I ever wondered something about her but didn't ask, then I asked how many partners she had. She said 5, then later she went like "actually..." and told me about the sex dates when she was single. I'm glad she's honest about it, but again, I'm still disgusted and I do think about her differently now
>>34772091>if i want to rob a bank but dont actually rob it does that make me just as bad as someone who ACTUALLY robbed a bank 3 times?Yes, if you persist in the desire and nurture it. You only lose your guilt when you lose the desire.
>>34772279You're not disgusted, you're just insecure.
>>34772308Not him, but if she told him she had sex with an ugly dude, 5'3'', micropeen, balding, and he didn't like it, is this insecurity or disgust?What if it was a dog? Is he insecure of the dog's penis size?"You're insecure" is such a cope for getting away with whore behavior lol. Either this or women are legitimately incapable of understanding feelings of sexual disgust
>>34772279You're a retard for asking.
>>34772363I think since he said he would have done the same thing if he could it is insecurity. Otherwise, it’s certainly disgust for more purposefully chaste men
>>34772363>"You're insecure" is such a cope for getting away with whore behavior lolYou would have fucked a dozen women had they all jumped on your dick. Stop pretending your failures are virtues.
>>34772379It really doesn't matter if he's chaste or not, but sure, it is a moral double standard that we treat this matter differently based on whether it's a man or a womanThe only thing that would compare to this is when a bisexual man admits to his gf he had sex with a guy, he let another dude cum in his asshole, and she immediately feels disgust and dumps him. This can't possibly be about be about feeling insecure over not having a dick, just like most dudes are not really insecure about the fact their gfs had 10+ dicks inside them, it's really more like "holy shit, the woman i loved is actually a whore and polluted by a bunch of penises, how can I marry this woman now?"Especially since men really do not care if it's just something casual. We're not really worried our penises could be smaller the bigger the number or that an ex could be better at sex, although I guess some are, sometimes. But most of the time this is irrelevant.
>>34772401Irrelevant
>>34772363If it was either of those things, then the correct response would be pity. But OP isn't strictly against promiscuity, so it's not disgust. He would have made the same choice given the opportunity, so what he's feeling is either insecurity or envy and not disgust. It can only be disgust if it's a response to something he would never do.
>>34771468Wow, one body a year on average. What a fucking whore, dump her
>>34772402Why can’t it possibly be insecurity about losing your man to a man?
>>34772402If you admit that you're operating off of a double standard, then you're also admitting to being wrong. Only impartiality can lead you to a correct viewpoint.
>>34772407>>34772402Disgust as a result of insecurity/envy is possible too, it’s not like humans can only have one emotion at a time.That concept comes up all the time with the ultra wealthy
>>34772422True, but properly speaking that would be disgust with self and not disgust with other. Or in other words, it's a problem he has to solve internally by meditating on his own failings and not something he can solve by blaming or leaving his partner. You can also feel disgust with somebody through anger or jealousy, but that just highlights the role that anger and jealousy are playing and shifts all of the blame onto the one feeling those negative emotions.
