I achieved a pretty good physique and it has led to more attention. but i notice i get more attention from people i dont want. like sleazy women with kids or rocky marriages, or gay men that pretend they want to be friends. i dont really mind people that are socially aware enough to just look but every now and then i encounter an obvious red flag with no impulse control and it makes me feel really uncomfortable. i dont care for hooking up at all, just a relationship. im not sure how to deal with this kind of attention at all. i still like the feeling of being bigger and will continue working out side note, i kinda understand what women mean now when they say they dress up for themselves not to be hit on
>>34771844what are your body stats
>>34771844The only thing you can really do is be firm with those people. Don’t give them an inch, they’ll take a mile kind of shit. Being icy/rude feels bad desu, but it’s usually effective too. Just be careful around people who seem crazy, no one likes a scene