>>34773982
Dude, don't even bother talking to boomers about modern dating and romance. Truly, they just don't get it.
Back in their time, "free love" was the greatest thing that ever happened to them. Women did not have THE FUCKING PHONE which is filled with hundreds of options. Back then, women truly did just grab the closest guy they could stand.
>I’m gonna be the cuck who takes a divorced woman with kids or something worse?
You have to understand boomers are so sex crazed and braindead that they actually see this as a positive outcome.

>>34774002
I appreciate the support but I’m still struggling heavily to get a girl interested in me. The problem is I have zero problems talking to girls and can be funny, but they’re just not interested in dating me. Every time I’ve ever had sex or a short term gf was through blind luck and friends basically setting me up with a girl.

>>34773982
I wouldn't blackpill as your only 25 but I def wouldn't wait too long. Do what you can. I'm a successful student with a future in law ahead of me and women wont even bother because i'm 5'7, and yes i'm very social. Anyway I wouldn't just take any woman available, even if there's no other option. Focus on yourself and improve social life.

>>34773982
>Is this really what I have to look forward to?
Why the ACTUAL fuck would you believe anything a boomer says?

>>34773982
For women who are still single when they’re 40, a man who is
>also single
>has a job
>has no children
>has all his teeth/limbs
>lives on his own

Will be the crème de la crème.

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>>34773982
Wrong, that‘s bullshit. World changed a lot, like the other anon described. I‘m 46. Luckily married with kids, but I go on business trips frequently. The only women approaching me are hookers. All other women are either married too (and happy) or, if single, for a reason: Crazy, stupid, ugly, fat as fuck, whatever else = you wouldn‘t date these. And the freshly-divorced/separated are all so fucked of in their mind that you also can‘t want these too —> forget it.

>>34774643
>Wrong that's bullshit
>I am the age the guy said
>I am married and get approached by whores all the time

Thanks for proving the old man's advice you retard

>>34774353
>Why the ACTUAL fuck would you believe anything a boomer says?
Nta but maybe because they have life experience and have evidence to show for it instead of plucking wet farts out of their mind to pass it off as insight?

If I want to know how to catch a fish, I ask a fisherman. I do not ask the nerdy limp sperg who only read about it one time yet never caught a single fucking fish.

>>34773982
The old man's advice is solid. It's because by the time you're 40 you will have typically achieved two things:
1) Abundance (money, a home (rented or not), a job or career, some form of transport like a car, health insurances, etc. etc.

2) Emotional maturity, reputation for said maturity. You'll have shaken off annoying sex craven wet dream fantasies, you'll have instead focused your attention to people besides women, either other established men or your community and have become a part of that either through business or higher socializing. You become a community staple whether playing a minor part or a major either one is solid.

And then girls notice that and if they see you are single, they think "free security/guarantee of stability" and they line up in droves and you can take your pick. When you pick one, all of the others will start screeching "POWER ABUUUUUUUUUUUUSE" and having the adult equivalent of a crying fit

>>34774659
Kek. Nice cope and straw(wo)man. If a man is somehow still single by 40 he’s also discarded leftovers. He just has more options since women are desperate by this point. If you’re going to imply that a 40 year old man should be going for 25 year old women, then you’ve completely destroyed your #2 argument.

>>34774676
That's not an argument that's a tried and true observation I will not be diving into theoretical what-ifisms in a sperg debate. Either take the experienced man's advice or don't

Charitable interpretation; you become an moderate successful 40yr failed normie & grab some inexperience femoid yearning for mature(wealthy) men.
Or if you stay or bound to be a loser, you'll betabux for some 400lb mother of five, as stated previous

>>34774694
>grab some inexperience femoid yearning for mature(wealthy) men.
"Power abuuuuuuuse"

>>34774700
If you actually had emotional maturity at 40, dating 20-something year olds would be basically like dating a retard. You’d be unable to relate. So again, your #2 “observation” is completely disingenuous.

>>34773982
>I’m gonna be the cuck who takes a divorced woman with kids or something worse?
I started dating my wife when I was 33 and she was 19. Young women, especially young women with daddy issues, absolutely love an older man who has his shit together.

This assumes, of course, that you have your shit together and have been staying fit and making money and all that.

>>34774712
<20 foids are retarded
They don't make good wives so you're setting yourself up in the higher divorce rate bracket. Brilliant start at 40.

>>34774704
>If you actually had emotional maturity at 40, dating 20-something year olds would be basically like dating a retard. You’d be unable to relate. So again, your #2 “observation” is completely disingenuous.

There's a reason you say "would be", it's because you have no idea what you're talking about.

>>34774712
>started dating my wife when I was 33 and she was 19. Young women, especially young women with daddy issues, absolutely love an older man who has his shit together.

It's not just young women, it's all women. That's the reason why older women don't fuck with younger men unless they're BPD sluts. For normal every day women even older women prefer older men. It's because women's sexuality seeking behaviours is paired to seek security. It's not a daddy issues thing it's women are the passive sex and seek protector providers kind of thing. The only reason why modern people forget this is because of gay retard feminism or progressive shit. Just a few decades of ideology cannot erase 300,000 years of truth. It's understandable that women throw a fit over it, they can't help but feel insecure it's whatever. But when men adopt the fake pussy whipped rhetoric to talk other men down out of what is essentially just basic sex dynamics, it's the weakest gayest thing imaginable. Ignore any men who try to talk you out of it

>>34774730
Unlike you, I actually interact with women on a regular basis. Twenty-somethings are hot but the gap in maturity, interests, life experience, and stage in life are too far for me to want to ever date seriously. Incels defend age gaps since bagging a 19-year-old with daddy issues is their only realistic chance of being with an attractive woman. Are you telling me if you met some 21 year old and she just got out of a relationship with someone who was 50 that’d be heckin based and reflect positively on her character?

>>34774012
>e. Every time I’ve ever had sex or a short term gf was through blind luck and friends basically setting me up with a girl.

Then literally just go and continue doing that. Clearly something in your attempts are working.

>>34774809
Wow big achievement you interact with women on the regular. The fact you have to mention dude c'mon. That's just called being "normal". No i'm not an incel, and my opinion of what a 21 year old girl dates is irrelevant, I got my own wife and kids to worry about. I'm just saying a 21 year old woman isn't a child, that's a grown adult woman and if you think it's "father issues" you'd be dead wrong. Women famously chase after older, precisely because they seek emotional or financial or social security and rarely do men their own age provide that. Their men at their age spend most days jerking off and playing videogames. That's not me taking shit that's just the facts

>>34773982
Some guys grow into their looks and their personalities. As a woman I find George Clooney today FAR sexier than in his movies 20 years ago, and among older stars grey Paul Newman is far more attractive than young hunk Paul Newman

>>34775021
I don’t want to wait. I don’t want to be someone who experiences actual love for the first time when they’re 40 years old.

>>34774912
extreme age gaps are a porn addicted boomer fantasy. the only time that ever happens is when youre exploiting a girl from the third world who has no prospects of a better life besides marrying an expat. women do date older but not crazy age gaps like that

>>34773982
Anon, I don't mean to be depressing but if you don't have the looks as a young man you will be alone unless you find a smart woman who wants to invest in you and thinks you have a future but that also requires you to be skilled socially enough to be able to communicate this to her and to also actually be doing something with your life.
Anyway this is how life has been since the sexual market got revolutionized in the early 1900s, the attractive and strong banging the chicks and the average guys just picking up the scraps.

>>34774736
>typing all these words to defend pedophilia (sorry, ephebophilia) and predatory age gaps

Sorry champ, still no women having sex with you. Stay alpha though