so close family wants to "babysit" their dogs for a whilebut its a pain in the ass, 1 dog "attacks" the other and another just barks at me for some reason, and the other kinda bits me (but playfully).so i dont want it, but all i do is sit in my room doing nothing rnso i cant refuse it even tho i want it. if i do my family would mock mebut i care less and less about them day by day. soo should i accept it or not? +info:i did this for 2 weeks before and other family members already refused to doit when i did it for 2 weeks.(now ik why)also they didnt do anything bad to me, and the relateonship is more like neutral imo.
>>34775678sounds like you got a cabbage patch of bigger problems than the dog. its either fix your own life and get a job or become the dog bitch because someones paying for you to sloth.did i miss anything?
>>34775683its true, but i did a part time job last month, i actively help my parrents. also i cant get a long term job since im apliing to college in a different town.and id rather hear them mocking me for months than to do this again. honestly i fear that this wont be my choice too.but thanks for the oppinion
>>34775678Fulfill your destiny
>>34775698my what?
>>34775678no, say no to them. i've had to do this and the reason your family will mock you is because they're mad you aren't being a pushover. be polite and firm over your boundary. these people will mock you no matter what you choose in life most likely, so might as well stick to what you want
>>34775678This board is a Indian shit hole
>>34775678Only if they pay you well for it. That would be significantly more tham minimum wage.
>>34776085this isn't a bad point, but you should have some excuse lined up. i initially thought they were just taking care of a manchild in hiding in which case you owe them.>>34775697get your shit in order if you wanna go the no route. make yourself busy and unavailable.you just sound a little entitled like a bottom feeder, so prove you're not.
>>34776166i dont get paid for it
>>34775678"No"
>>34776230well i cant make myself busy or un avaliable in a normal way, or they will find me a way to do it.and i dont want to prove anything i almost never said no to anyone in theese cases. (i guess thats why im in this situation).>>34776085Also i dont want to bite the hand that feeds me. so idk
