is there a safe way to try this? should i even try it?i dont usually like engaging with people but this the only urge i wanna try proceeding forward withofc it should be consensual i wanna try psychological torture too, but i prefer physical first idk how to startshould i try on men first or that would be ironically "gay"
okay i forgot to add, the thing i wanna try is physically torturing people by myself and seeing how it goesi would prefer face2face so much rather than just online, i want to actually force them to be hurt (within consensual terms)maybe someone subservient online can do the trick but eh
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isn't there some fetish exhibitionist website you can sign up for and go to events?https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=fetlife
>>34776589i thought fetlife was only a thing in the USbut will give it a try, maybe i can get her to travel or something idk
Torture how
>>34776528Google "BDSM for beginners" and learn, among other things, that BDSM is ALL about play-harm, not real harm; play-danger not real danger.Then google "BDSM [city]" for clubs or chatgroups where you might meet people.
