No that is just called being human. I really dislike my ex for dumping me at the lowest point in my life and immediately moving on but I still feel a longing for her when I have a dream about her. Just don't act on it lol.

>>34778241
Yeah, I just don't get how you're considered childish for having an experience that mattered in your life at some point. For having feelings and memories. It's not like you can erase them from your mind.

>>34778178
No. It took time , but I love my ex way more than my current bf. I'm working in a exit strategy now

>>34778270
>exit strategy
I need me one of those so I can get the fuck outta my job and be financially free

I'd say it's mature being able to do that, if anything

>>34778178
That's what actually moving on looks like.

>>34778178
I only remember the lost potential because of how she fucked it up several times and I had hopes for her.

>>34778403
There's no such thing as lost potential when it comes to relationships. If she fucked up, it's because she is a fuck up. Which is to say that the problem was on your end for expecting her to be better than she actually was. If that "potential" never becomes "actual", then it's your illusion of that person and not the reality of who that person truly is. If a relationship fails, then it was always going to fail because the reasons for its failure were there since the beginning and you just didn't have the eyes to see it at the time.

>>34778178
Profile pic in the first panel.

Is it bad if I do the same things with my new gf that I did with my ex to try to recreate the good times

>>34778178
Body in the reddit icon sussy

>>34778808
Trying to recreate a past relationship is bad, yes, but if all you’re doing is reusing date ideas then I don’t think you actually have anything to worry about.

>>34778178
Nah. I still occasionally look back fondly on times I spent with an ex who I haven’t seen or spoken to in over a decade.

>>34778178
>childish
gambino

>>34778808
Yes, not a good idea anon.