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My friend is making a huge mistake marrying this guy who got her pregnant. She's a lesbian, I can tell bc I'm a lesbian and we've had so many moments where we knew our friendship was more than just that. She's throwing it away to try to be 'normal' bc she's pregnant with this guy's baby.

I've been getting desperate trying to help her. I sent her info for local abortion clinics, and testimonies of people who married in her situation and ended up miserable, but she's still going forward with it.

How can I stop my friend from marrying this man she doesn't really love and having this baby she doesn't really want?
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>>34778795
What's the point of coming to the advice board and then just making up absurd stories? Half of this board is nothing but weak reply-bait.
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>>34778795
you're making a lot of conjecture on what they want, and it's obvious your wants are bleeding into it.
you're post is very biased, which means your sway on your friend is likely gonna be low on mana. it sounds like you're wanting to kill the baby so you can be with her, which makes you come across like a male bear.
are you 100% sure they love you, like romantically? at this point i'd say they're bi if they're spelunking with a man.
you might as well confess your love for them and risk losing the friendship if you don't want to be a bitch about it.

am i missing something?
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>>34778806
this place is an asylum and they're just another patient. it's standard protocol.
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>>34778795
Standard lesbian experience. You've fallen in love with a straight girl, it happend to the best of us. Just let her live her life and go date a different woman
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>>34778818
factory reset
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>>34778795
Lesbians aren't real.
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>>34778810
She's specifically trying to make herself be "normal" she does not like men she agrees with me that men are awful and we're better off without them but she wants to be straight to make her family happy but she's going to be miserable and I'm going to lose her and I don't want that to happen.
I'm buying us tickets to get out of town and have a trip and I'm hoping I can convince her not to go through with everything if she'll just come with me on a trip. I don't want to be third wheel to her marriage and have to deal with a man coming between us.
>>34778818
She's not straight, I know she's not straight and she knows it too even though she's trying to deny it now
>>34778945
Fuck you
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>>34779467
>she agrees with me that men are awful and we're better off without them
That's not a healthy perspective at all.
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>>34779551
Idgaf if it's healthy its true. I've lived it. I'm not going to lie and be gentle about it for the sake of men's feelings because fuck men's feelings, they get coddled constantly while they treat real human beings like shit.
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>>34779562
Well then for the sake of your "friend" leave her be as she's statistically less likely to face domestic violence with the guy than with you.
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>>34778795
You’re just an egocentric, let her be
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>>34779576
Those statistics are bullshit made up by homophobes to distort public perception. More women are abused my men than any other relationship.
>>34779612
I love her and she loves me! She thinks she has to do this for her family but her family doesn't deserve her they treat her terribly
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>>34778795
How did she get pregnant in the first place if she's lesbian as you claim?
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>>34779683
She allowed that asshole to do that to her because she felt like if she could enjoy sex with a man she might be able to become straight. She didn't like it, she told me so, but then she was pregnant and felt obligated to stay in the relationship.
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>>34779562
it's women who get coddled, maybe men aren't getting enough shit according to you. But nobody is coddling us.
You go die in a war you stupid cunt.

>men cause wars
And we were born humans, whos fault is that? Stop having children if you hate humans so much.
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>>34779467
so you have a plan in place? all you can do now is chance it and see what happens?
i think the odds are against you, but good luck and hope everyone gets the best outcome for all parties.
if you lose on your wager, you're going to need to forgive her and move on. are you ready for that?
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>>34779866
I'm never having kids bc I'm not risking bringing a man into this world when there are too many already. Men absolutely get coddled and they're so blind to it they get mad when you call them out for it.
>>34779883
I can't leave her to this. She's going to be miserable for the rest of her life if she goes through with it. The worst part is she tried to talk me into doing the same thing bc they've brainwashed her so much. If she doesn't go for it, idk what to do.
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>>34780044
you sound like the female version of a chud on shutter island
i think you're going to lose your friendship as well as the relationship you already lost. i hope you're aware of this, since you're not willing to accept results that disagree with your confirmation bias.
>idk what to do
try your plan. try not to sound schizo about it because you are asking her to kill her baby to be with you.
if it fails, accept the results, and cope. find new friends if you don't want to be the third wheel. if you're actually a woman and not a tranny, it probably won't be too hard to find other women out there.
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>>34778795
You should just fuck her with a strapon in front of the guy she's marrying and make her cum better than he can. He'll be so ashamed he lost to a plastic dick he'll bail and leave her to you
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>>34778795
She should abort the baby by hanging herself. Your underage female relatives deserve rape, you evil foid.
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>girl gets cummed in and likes it and wants for it to happen for the rest of her life while wanting to raise the man's child

>she should kill the baby and do hedonism and get fingered by me instead.. because... I SAID SO OKAY??!!
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>>34778795
You are not her friend. You are a jealous rival for her body
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Well OP you made me like Deltarune less so good job



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