>>34778812
Try providing positive encouragementz like "You would look so hot with big biceps" or whatever it is you want him to train. Then go crazy over him when he does work out

>>34778812
Just make him your gf

>>34778812
have you made any subtle hints, like seeing a ripped person on tv and making a comment on it to open a discussion?
if i had something gay like this i'd usually just cook dinner, make sure we weren't using electronics during dinner and discuss it matter of fact with them.
it sounds like you're not going to break up with them over it, but there's no way you're going to be able to say it without controlling his emotions and thought processes. if he thinks you're a superficial whore about it, that's a problem on his end that you will just need to confront so i'd have an answer ready if it gets brought up. you could just say you find it sexier rather than him looking like he has the body of a pre-pubescent woman.

>>34778812
If you want him to go to the gym, start easing him up to the idea of you two going together as a way to keep yourselves healthy and fit.
The only way to have your partner do something for you that involves improving their appearance/changing without seeming superficial/bitchy is wanting to do it as a couple, together.
Also, have him eat more.

>>34778812
Tell him you want to get fucked while he's holding you up. That should motivate him. If not then I guess he's a sissy.

Bad bait

>>34778812
That's a tough one, if the position were reversed and I had to ask my gf to lose fat, then I'd have trouble using the right words.
Anything that has to do with the other's body is kind of hard to approach, because it's so personal.
I think it has to come from him, it has to be something he truly wants, because it requires significant effort.
Also I don't think it makes you sound like a whore. Wanting your bf to be strong and beautiful isn't something a whore would do.
Do you cook for him? It's one of the most important variable in being fit.
I think talking about his current fitness and what you would like is a start. It's easier for him if it's precise. For example, biceps, shoulder, back, BMI, etc.
>>34778824
I agree, it has to be both of you, even if he has more work to do for his body.

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>>34778815
This sounds like a good strategy but he has said that he thinks that working out is "gay" and says that men who work out are coping.
>>34778823
>you could just say you find it sexier rather than him looking like he has the body of a pre-pubescent woman
I will try to say something like this but with other words. I have never compared him to other men on tv cuz that sounds rude as hell.
>>34778824
This is a fantastic idea but he has told me that he does not like women with muscles and probably would get jealous if I go to the gym because he has told me women that go to gym are whores looking for attention.
However i think this is probably the best way ngl...thanks everyone.
>>34778830
Thats one way to get a hard slap and maybe a punch no thanks

>>34778812
>My boyfriend is 5'3 103 pounds sometimes I wish I could tell him to go to the gym and get a more manly body but I don't wanna sound like a superficial whore.
Do it. Tell him that he would look hot for you.

How the fuck can he be so skinny? Does he even eat? Do you not get disgusted looking at his body?

>>34778845
>I have never compared him to other men on tv cuz that sounds rude as hell.
This is why he is like this. You never compared him, you always showed affection. He let go, he got that "she will love me no matter what" attitude.

>>34778845
>Thats one way to get a hard slap and maybe a punch no thanks
How you gonna get beat up by a lanky midget? Lmao I bet you could kick his ass.

>>34778861
This.
I'm pretty sure he would sit and cry if someone were to approach her xD

>>34778845
>he has said that he thinks that working out is "gay" and says that men who work out are coping
If you dumped his ass he would quickly realize no other woman would tolerate his skinnylet body and would be the first one to run to the gym the next day.

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>>34778845
your boyfriend sounds like he needs a wakeup call. tell him he looks like a sissy next time he say's it's gay.
i say working out is gay too so i know where he's coming from, but i work in the outdoors so I have a good exemption.
i'd skinny shame him (fat shaming statistically works, therefore), but the working out together is a nice wholesome idea if you can break down the barrier that he's unwilling to do anything to become fit.
you could also just start saying you're going to go to the gym solo if he isn't coming (and gonna be a sissy faggot), and there may be some ripped guys giving glances your way if he isn't there to protect you.
you going to the gym isn't going to lead to you looking like caitlyn jenner depending on your routine.

>>34778844
Yes in my opinion asking him to get fit would be the equivalent of a man telling his girlfriend to lose weight. Idk it just feels so abrasive and mean "please change your body for me to get more attracted to you".
>i think it has to come from him
It will never come from him he likes his body as it is.
>do you cook for him
Yes sometimes I do. I will try to tell him to be healthier.
>>34778855
I have no idea he eats junk food and other foods its not like he starves himself, he is like naturally skinny.
>do you not get disgusted looking at his body
Nope if anything I feel kinda jealous he has a petite figure he looks cute but it's not sexy for me, but I do get jealous.
I think model like bodies are gorgeous but i am not sexually attracted to them.
>>34778858
Ok so i have to evil bitch maxxing in order to make him become a better boyfriend?
>>34778861
I am shorter than him and im a woman, men tend to have more strenght.

>>34778873
Yes in my opinion asking him to get fit would be the equivalent of a man telling his girlfriend to lose weight. Idk it just feels so abrasive and mean "please change your body for me to get more attracted to you".
It's EXTREMELY NORMAL.
>Ok so i have to evil bitch maxxing in order to make him become a better boyfriend?
Yes. You have to tell him he is sissy and weak and cannot protect you.
>Ok so i have to evil bitch maxxing in order to make him become a better boyfriend?
Still pretty sure you can beat him up.

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>>34778873
a man should be able to tell his girlfriend to lose weight. this is where you're wrong.
he's willing to be abrasive in his language, so why are you creating rules for yourself that are not going to convince him? you need to speak his language.
he'd probably tell you to lose weight if you got fat.
make sure he eats more protein to build muscle also.
>evil bitch maxing
yes, this is a language he will understand. you can try it the nice way, but i bet you he won't listen based on how you described him already.

>>34778881
Bro, he's 5'3. He would need to get ripped as a professional bodybuilder to even have a chance at "protecting" her.

>>34778886
The height doesn't matter that much. Psychologically, yeah. But if he gets good at wrestling and builds muscles he has a chance.

>>34778886
Short people put on muscle more easily and he can always take a self defense class and/or concealed carry.

>>34778812
Pretty sure OP is a boy and this is another cuck fantasy thread in /adv/:

There are no men who wouldn't lift if their girlfriend asked them to.

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>>34778897
there's no other patients lining up for /adv/
the clinic is still open for a few hours on this glorious friday.
we can afford to take him in until other clientele arrive

>>34778873
>Ok so i have to evil bitch maxxing in order to make him become a better boyfriend?
Watch an Arnold Schwarzenegger movie like terminator and make it obvious that you find his buff body hot, that'll make him jealous and maybe he would get the message

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>>34778866
Well we have never been in a situarion like that so I have no idea what would happend, but he does not let me have male friends and gets angry if I talk to men.
>>34778867
But then he would get hot and leave me for a stacy I have to make him train while he is commited to me.
>>34778869
Your advice sounds great but if he thought about me having men rizzing me up in the gym he would give me the cold shoulder and be mean for me for like a week or something. I can not be that toxic ,Bantz.
>>34778881
Hypothethically we can lift eachother up, i can't carry him for a long period of time but I can carry him, so maybe I could beat him up but it wouldn't take long for him to overpower me, but honestly I have never seen him in a fight with another man so maybe he would lose.
>>34778884
He has told me if i ever got fat he would bully me and to be honest I DO NOT wanna get fat because it's not pretty.

Thanks everyone im going to try the gym option and motivate him to get fit with me, and if he refuses I will try the evil bitch maxxing thing.

>>34778922
>Well we have never been in a situarion like that so I have no idea what would happend, but he does not let me have male friends and gets angry if I talk to men.
HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHHAH. HE IS SCARED HE WOULD LOSE YOU BECAUSE HE KNOWS HOW SISSY HE IS.

>>34778922
>but he does not let me have male friends and gets angry if I talk to men.
What can he do with that skinny body and 160cm height? What will he do to stop you? Nothing. He is a cuck.

>>34778873
>It will never come from him he likes his body as it is.
Then I'm sorry but unless you pressure him he will never change. I'm saying this as a man that was overweight for decades and had a /fit/ epiphany. Consequences change behavior, not words.
>I will try to tell him to be healthier
Don't tell him, it's kind of useless. It would only stress him out for no benefit.
>>34778922
Good luck.

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>>34778922
your plan is sound, anon.
give us a progress report on what happens. we're all counting on you.
i'm sure everyone here would date you if your boyfriend turns out to be a faggot and gives you the cold shoulder.
you better make sure he's willing to put in some effort for you, or you might be dating a low-value individual.

>>34778958
>i'm sure everyone here would date you if your boyfriend turns out to be a faggot and gives you the cold shoulder.
Absolutely right. Can drop my instagram if she ever wants. I'm not a short sissy cuck like him as well.

>>34778845
Not every onen likes having muscles, might prefer his body right now. Won't you let him have that?

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>>34781080
op solved and left 12 hours ago. they're not coming back

>>34778845
You going to the gym with him, there will be a lot of muscular guys. Most likely you will chest unfortunately. Id love for you to prove me wrong. Btw weaning him off until you break up and immediately go to that guy is cheating because you left him.

>>34778812
Short guys with muscles are not attractive imo. I think it looks out of place and not right. Like it's major coping and insecurity issues.

>>34781098
%100
/thread

Just give him to me instead I’ll treat him right

>>34781979
Fake.

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>>34778812
I want to steal his girlfriend

>>34782036
Same. Unfortunately OP is gone.

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I don't wanna cheat on my boyfriend you guys are insane i just want him to look better am I not allowed to have standard anymore? He said if i got fat he would leave me so it's fair that I stay thin and I wish he had more sexual appeal.
>>34781979
If you are taller than him he would just reject you he likes skinny women who are shorter than him

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>>34782306
all the horny lonely anons want you for themself
you got the advice you wanted op
let the credits roll and the thread die
you dont need to see this

>>34778845
>thinks that working out is "gay"

Your little manlet bf is a insecure fag incel. This is the mentality of a 12 year old. I bet he thinks watching gay furry porn is masculine and cool. Garly, my condolences...

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>>34782470
>incel
he's getting laid by this faithful woman who's asking for advice to change him.
try again

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>>34778812
you do realise if he gets jacked he will leave you for a prettier girl?

>>34778845
>he thinks that working out is "gay" and says that men who work out are coping.
He's projecting his own cope.
Muscle is crucial for longevity. The main reason to work out is health and lifespan. Strong men live longer. The big nice muscles is a bonus. Everyone should work out, even you.
Honestly - and I'm sorry if this is mean - but I think he's a bit insecure. Going to the gym as a skeleton or fatty can be embarrassing. Speaking from experience. However it's 100% worth it.

>>34782306
>If you are taller than him he would just reject you he likes skinny women who are shorter than him
>He said if i got fat he would leave me so it's fair
HHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA.

>>34778812
>I don't wanna sound like a superficial whore
but
>I wish he got a more manly body
such a typical woman thing to do to acknowledge your own moral inadequacy (being shallow) but instead of challenging the feeling (you won't) you try and manipulate other people to get what you want but also not seem like a bad person for wanting to get it.
if you told him that you think he looks weak and you don't like it he would accept it and start going to the gym on his own (men can take criticism and apply it especially if it comes from someone they respect), but instead you think you're being clever with the whole "just come train with me it's gonna be so cool!!" manipulation. he's going to find out what you are doing sooner or later and feel manipulated by you.
this is such a retarded and female non-issue i can't believe someone would actually post a thing like this. it's literally all about protecting your ego and how people perceive you and about how to apply some cunning technique to get what you want rather than either dropping the feeling or just cutting down to the chase and admitting in front of him that you are indeed this "superficial whore" and you just want him to be bigger (and you are superficial to some extent, but there is nothing wrong with wanting a more masculine man)

i mean, love from kazakhstan

>>34778812
I thought women only liked men 6'3 and above?