So, it started years ago. I’ve been addicted to porn for years, and had constantly been cheated on by almost every single girlfriend I’ve had. One day, when I was with one of them, I couldn’t get hard (because of too much porn use) and she reacted very poorly. The relationship ended because of that night, and I felt so low about myself that I thought that the only thing I deserved was to watch pretty girls fuck other guys. That’s when it all started. I’ve since then done a lot of working on myself, and taken up tons of hobbies and got in shape. I’ve also had frequent relationships and hook ups that went very well, but for some reason, this fetish lingers. Do any of you guys know how I can get rid of it for good? I’ve had some streaks of good abstinence from porn, but still relapse occasionally. Is it even possible to get rid of a fetish so ingrained in my subconscious? I’m too embarrassed to ask for advice about this from anyone I know irl.
>>34779554Another cuck thread in /adv/. But at least OP asks for a way to get cured.>I’ve been addicted to porn for yearsThat's how cuck fetish starts.>been cheated on by almost every single girlfriend I’ve hadDid you think why?>and taken up tons of hobbies and got in shapeAh, good. Would recommend you to hit the gym. You already do.>but for some reason, this fetish lingersNo anon, It doesn't. ıt's the old sissy cuck you trying to drag you back. Do NOT listen to it. Continue banging girls, or bang other people's girls (become the bull).
>>34779567>did you think why? It differs for each of them. I was less experienced, and didn’t understand what drives women away at all. I guess I’d have to say that I was too needy and not much of a leader, or someone who would dominate them, so they found someone else to see if they would. >become the bull I’d fucking love to. I’m back on hinge, but it’s been giving me straight grey loot all week. Any ideas on where to find a cuck couple? I’m a 25 year old male from Houston
>>34779554girls aren't into blacks retard, and only middle schoolers think that. you're supposed to grow out of it
>>34779587>I’d fucking love to. I’m back on hinge, but it’s been giving me straight grey loot all week. Any ideas on where to find a cuck couple? I’m a 25 year old male from HoustonHonestly man, hit the jackpot. That's also a question I'm looking for. I guess you have to be an asshole and become extremely social with girls, especially ones who have boyfriends. If you are in shape and act confident (more than their boyfriend is), they'd eventually fall.Godspeed.
>>34779589Says white 5'2 cuck
>>34779592I am pretty social, but trying to meet women irl is hit or miss. All my hobbies are male-dominated, and the bars are mostly full of older people (35+) weirdly enough. That’s why I’m on dating apps now.
>>34779639>but trying to meet women irl is hit or missIt's how it is. You gotta use all your chances I think
>>34779589I knowwwww. SOME women like black guys, but it’s a lot rarer irl than it is in porn. Although, I’m ngl, my last 3 exes had been with black guys at some point before they were with me
it's pantied and sissified.....
>>34779690Yes, that’s part of what I’m trying to get rid of
Bump
>>34779891Why bumping? Haven't you got your answer?>No anon, It doesn't. ıt's the old sissy cuck you trying to drag you back. Do NOT listen to it.
>>34779589always watch mudsharks for their sign>>34779554stop using porn. delete all the accounts. use apps/programs to block the websites. set an alarm on your phone at night to wake up and put your phone away from bed so you're not peeking at night and it gets you out of bed in the morning to turn the alarm off so you dont get lost in a lust haze.are you willing to go this far or are you going to be a mangina and relapse?usually if 10 replies hasnt helped you, you're cooked and incapable of help.
>>34779948I’ve tried quitting, and I’m a lot better than I used to be, but sometimes I still slip back into old habits when I’m alone or stressed. It’s worse when I’m mid-dry spell
>>34780062if you make it harder to wank, you'll do it less and less often.avoid your bed except for sleeping. if you can't control yourself on the faptop or phone, take a step away from them as well. same diagnosis with alcoholism and other addictions. if you lack the discipline to control it, you need to stay away from it as much as possible.the question is how far you're willing to go. are you willing to get a dumb phone instead of a smartphone to avoid having a mobile porn device? or will the apps that block sites be sufficient?we've given solutions, but only you can test your self-discipline.
>>34780075I guess you’re right about that, but what about those times when I’m alone and there’s nothing stopping me at all? Just drive away for an hour?
>>34779554Why do cucks always like blacked shit? Black men aren't even masculine they have woman like facial features and they tend to be very retarded and short
>>34780299>>34780299>woman like facial features and they tend to be very retarded and shortI think you're just gay.
>>34780299It’s because the steroetype is that they’re hypermasculine, tall, and have huge dicks. Reality might not always show that, but that IS the stereotype.
>>34780309How am I gay for saying black men have feminine features? They have flat small noses and big ass lips thats feminine. White men look way more masculine.>>34780317They are not masculine because being agressive and overeactive is a female trait lmao
>>34779554larp because>i got in shape and got hobbies and then was successful with womenall lies
>>34780336When I say “successful” I just mean that I got laid occasionally. I’ve never had a healthy relationship with a woman that actually stuck around. As for being in shape, I’m still not at my goal physique, but it’s been noticed by other people in my life, and I even took up boxing and started competing
>>34780348thats more like it. im a loser alcoholic pot head and i still get laid sometimes. its not the hobbies, its just that you're putting yourself in more situations where you're likely to get laid. women are evil. fuck them when you want then get them to fuck BBC's then break up with them, its all they're good for and its all you really want.
>>34780221yeah. again think of it like being an alcoholic.i can state for a fact that some alcoholics can manage a beer or two if their wife is controlling how much they drink. there's some that can't even look at alcohol or have people drinking around them.it's up to you to figure out your limits. if it takes you driving away from home and using a dumb phone, then fuck it, you need to do it if you want to stop whacking off to bbc.ideally at some point you'd have a relationship so being with much less privacy helps you regulate your dilemma.there was a time i didn't want to play video games so i just bought an old thinkpad. its been a year and i think i could control myself playing vidya again now.from 2014-2019 i used a dumb phone. i had to have a smart phone for work, but i now have a sense of perspective and it bores me if im on it for longer than an hour now.so test your limits, see what variables work and dont. it helps your memory to journal it down though and act like someone applying the scientific method
>>34780360I don’t think I could actually go through with this kink irl. Getting cheated on hurts too much when you’re actually with someone.
>>34780366Makes sense. That’s actually how I’ve been treating it, but I haven’t been consistent with it. I go to church meetings that help guys with this issue, but haven’t been to one in months
Face your problems, but a 100 times worse.
What do I mean by this? Let's play through the scenario where she steals your stuff and throws you on the street. What next after that and keep going until you get your girlfriend.
>>34780317reality does show that. women and gays that fuck black guys concur. it's only straight white guys that disagree
>>34780980What the fuck are you rambling about
>>34780998Idk man, the only black guys I know irl are short and fat
>>34779554Most people don’t have racial preferences and not wanting a woman to yourself is low testosterone behavior
>>34782481doesn't matter. go on /gif/ even the ugliest, tubbiest, vegeta button up blerds are pounding their velma gfs pussy into double digit orgasms with their bbc. dude will come on sounding exactly like urkel and he's making girls beg for his python, talmabout my husband never did it like this before, it's insanely black pilling
>>34779554Lol I don't get hard sometimes and I don't even give a fuck. It's all about how u frame it. It happens to all of us sometimes if she doesn't like it it's her problem I got weed to smoke and Skyrim to mod bitch get out of my house nigga
>>34779554Don't ask me how or why but Ivr seen A LOT of black dicks and they are fucking average as shit even small it's actually does black dudes a disservice to have that fetish about them desu
>>34783089even when they are physically small they still know how to pump and fuck better than whites on average though
>>34783068>velma gfsJust say they look like Meg from Family Guy, anon
>>34783137What?
>>34783089>Don't ask me howNice grindr account, fag.
>tell date I like rap music >he tells me that he raps>expect the white person thing where they sing on beat>actually tries to rap>talentless
>>34780299While people unironically ruined cuck porn, like 80% of it is just catered to their racial anxiety.
>>34784182>While peopleWhite people
>>34780299>Black men aren't even masculine they have woman like facial featuresthat's the most retarded statement I have ever heard in my entire life
>>34784320Giant lips.Get called racist for a realistic description
>>34784429I'm black. I don't have "giant" lips.
>>34779589BBC isn't even a meme. >Be me earlier this evening >Standing in checkout line at grocery store>8/10 white QT is working register>Low key checking her out>Short manlet black guy comes up >Ayo what's up gurl!>White girl lights up like she just won the lottery>I just walked away dead silent>Sucks to be inferior
Yes. Listen to sissy hypno and troon.
>>34784602>BBC isn't even a meme.Dumb sissy white boi.
>>34784611>sticker collectionWhere tf would you even put these?
>>34784320I think you’re getting it mixed up- black WOMEN have masculine features
>>34784045Or maybe he works in the medical field, anon
>>34779554>>34779948>>34780075So these are the people that spam wojaks across every board now, huh?
>>34784611A white sissy man wrote this btw.
>>34785093Ah, okay, in that sense I do agree with that.