Let's say I have a very unfortunate looking friend who struggles finding a girlfriend and I am currently trying to help im getting one, so i showed him a fat virgin woman around his age I know and I am trying to make him do the first move. Am I a bad person for trying to set up an ugly man with a fat woman and a fat woman with an ugly man? I think they could work as a couple and he does not mind that she is very fat but she hasn't seen pictures of him yet. What should my friend do?
>>34780140is the woman picrel?if not, give us a rating of your friend and the woman in question?
>>34780150>is the woman picrelNo, I just picked this random fat e-girl from google images because I thought she would look good in OP pic>give us a rating of your friend He is like a 3/10 he is really unfortunate looking and has long fried hair like, but I kinda see potential on him and wish he followed my looksmaxing tips. >the woman She is facially mid I would say a 6/10 she is not model gorgeous but she is kinda cute, but she is borderline obese. She is a virgin and a good person tho.
If they are both looksmatched and they have ok personalities/no red flags then sure. Don't force it but give him the choice. Maybe have some kind of pre-check so they can sus anything out.
>>34780159sounds like you're doing your friend a favor then and being a good wingman.you should give your friend some feedback on his appearance. make sure his clothes fit, his beard doesn't look like pubes, and if he's balding, to cut it.if the woman seems like she's only gonna get fatter and he stays with her, you may have to be the good friend that suggests she loses weight or to your friend that they should 'both' go on a diet and change their health.
>>34780165I think they are looksmatched and have the same hobbies and interests and if they date it would destroy the concept of hypergamy, but the lady and him haven't talked yet and I think he is afraid of starting convo with her.>>34780169Thanks Im trying my best. I think the fat woman is also lonely in the romance department so it would be helping her as well.
>>34780176push him to talk to her. it's the weekend. time to make shit happen. if they are moderately aware of it. take his phone and write the first message for him and send it.problem solved.or just do it behind his back and he can thank you later. that's what friends are for.
>>34780206What if the chick friendzones him? I think he would be sad as fuck. How would u even aproach her? Btw they have some mutuals on instagram
>>34780216i dont use instagram so no idea what that means.do they live in the same city or is this gonna be some discord long distance bullshit?
>>34780176>3/10 man 6/10 woman>looksmatchedSomething isn't adding up here
>>34780216also gotta get ready to deal with loss. he doesn't even know the person so who cares about the results? he'll probably never see her again.idk for the message. just say she looks cute in a picture. if she responds say you both should meet up sometime and [insert something they both have in common].
>>34780220it's a good point. again, op should work on his friends appearance because he's prob balding fat as well has a neck beard or still wearing teenager outfits.
>>34780219They live in cities close to each other so meeting up could be very easy. >>34780220You forgot the part that she is obese>>34780227Ok that's true
>>34780236your friend is skinny then and a 3/10. something must be wrong with him.make sure you fix your friends appearance and having him upload a picture on instagram that doesn't make him look like a faggot. remove any old pictures that might make him look bad.he's your friend so you can be straight. then push him to message her. if he doesn't, then message her for him. like her post and say something sweet about it but ideally something she would respond to. don't write something like a pakistani does, of like "i'd donate 37 cows to marry you. be my bride." if she has an interest in the picture, you can use it as a prop and talk about how you like X also...if she responds, then you can focus on the next part. maybe mention in your friends instagram where he lives so if she looks at him she can put 2+2 together.
>>34780258Well he isn't the type to post pics of himself on instagram and he does not know how to take pics. In real life he looks very bad but if that woman is a good person she will overcome his apparence, but honestly I don't know if she is going to be attracted to him if he just sends a pic of himself. I was thinking of making them voice chat first rather than meeting up in real life too fast, he is very social akward so it does not help.
>>34780275this sounds direyou need to work on your friend. if the woman's a 6/10, you're more fucking her over than him.what does your friend post on his instagram?you can't control the variables if she will be unattracted and whether you like it or not appearance DOES matter in a relationship.you're not going to go to bed with someone that looks disgusting. we are genetically bred to look out for this shit to not procreate and have babies that will look like the son of the stephen hawking.
>>34780236>she is obeseAnd that should be reflected in her rating. If she's a 6 while obese he has no shot. If she's actually also a 3 but you neglected to take off points for fatness that's on you.
>>34780140https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TzAnOnVKwzk
>>34780275>he looks very badHow BAD does he look? It can't be that horrible
