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>be me, disabled light skinned black woman
>go on facebook dating and cute white/latino guy likes me
>omg
>start texting and eventually find out we have similar interests
>move to Instagram and we soon start flirting
>schedule a date to Round1
>we play project diva and street fighter together
>we go outside Round1 and he asks to hold my hand, i accept
>we visit a few stores like hot topic,
>feels nice
>we hug and then leave
>last text agreeing that he had fun
>few days later a no response
it's been months and I've felt completely broken. I've never felt so much affection from a male my age before and right as I fell in love he left because im retarded i guess
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>>34780754
Well if it makes you feel better, he might be dead
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>>34780754
you're black? from where?
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>>34780808
Los Angeles County area
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>>34780810
how did you get into my country?
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fine.
what advice do you want? why do you think it's your fault?
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>>34780754
>>34780810
i'll stop ribbing you.
why do you think it's your fault?
did you message him again or did it just stop after he said he had fun?
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it's my fault because i guess I got too attached with him
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>>34780961
did you message them back since?
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>>34780961
how disabled are you anon? like wheelchair?
i'm sure there's someone else out there for you, especially since you're a woman.
what're you looking for in a person?
have you tried a dating app? you could also use the 4chin dating app duolicious if you want to find other retarded chuds.
idk if the person you went out with was shy, but it seems like there wasn't much you could do. being in your position is going to make it slightly more of a challenge to find someone, but i doubt it's gonna be harder than 90% of the people here.
keep us updated please.
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>>34780971
my mom told me to wait for him to respond and to not look desperate but he never did
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>>34781029
im autistic and the dude was talkative i don't know what happened i responded to him normally I didn't try to insult him. I only tried Hiki and Hinge.
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>>34782652
just message him. at worst, you'll never talk to him again anyways so what is there to lose?
if he ghosts you or isn't interested, it will also give you closure and the ability to move on.
i know it's usually the guys job to initiate, but if you spent 10 minutes reading here, every "i want a gf" post starts out with "im shy and autistic. i dont know what to do."
standards have changed.

is there a flaw to the argument im making that you see?
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>>34782659
i don't know if internet causes autism, but there's a correlation that makes me think its contagious.
because everyone is terminally online as well as covid, people are a lot more socially retarded than they used to be. guys are scared to initiate. it's such a frequent theme here that it's the cliche roadblock.
who really knows whether he wants to take it to the next level? might as well ask. don't you want to move on past this? or are you just gonna give it time, since its already been weeks?

i don't think you did anything wrong from what im reading unless there's something you haven't said.
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>>34780754
Time to try again girl I dunno why you would get attached after meeting them once wait till you go through it 13 times and then get ghosted months into a relationship.
t. moid
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>>34780754
You can't "fall in love" after one date you stupid faggot.
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>>34783500
you can fall in love with a look



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