I've had vanilla sex with a girl multiple times and I want to do something different to spice things up. Any suggestions?
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>>34780884Impregnation
>>34780902There is something really unappealing about popular bdsm. Like I understand what they're going for, domination, bondage, orgasam denial etc but the entire aesthetic, the choice of clothing and tools, the environment, it all looks so damn ugly and lame. Only boomers could've come up with that shit.
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>>34780884If you don't have anything specific in mind already there's nothing new you need to try
put it up the butt
I usually just feed my girlfriend by hand and rub her belly while we fuck
>>34780884Start simply, with different positions. Ask her what she likes or fantasizes about. Do not just spring something weird on her without warning
>>34780884Try chocolate sex.
>>34780884bondage, outfits, massage, etc
>>34780884Eat her ass
>>34780884>Any suggestions?Yeah. Don't.I'm a big fan of BDSM, but it works for me because I already know exactly what I want before trying it. If you aren't already fantasising about doing something, don't try exploring it. It won't go well.