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Advice on pulling older women (in their 30s) as a 20yo college student?
Dating apps, where to meet etc.
Right now I'm back in the gym trying to get jacked after gaining some weight (quit the gym 6 months ago).
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Same as any other women rly
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I swear Gen Z isn’t obsessed with milfs and femboys so much as they are obsessed with easy sex. You’re 20 dude, that means you can hang out in places with young women. You’ll have plenty of time to fuck cougars when you’re their age. Get that young shit while you still can: go to clubs, swap numbers and fuck them within the first 3 days.
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>>34782052
*dates. Fucking autocorrect.

But it’s not any easier mate. Hot women always go for hot people, regardless of age. If you want to fuck more then drop your standards
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>>34782038
>>34782052
both these anons have a good point.
don't think much else needs to be said.
focus on just being attractive to women.
how do you rate out of 10?
do you have a pube beard? hairline? dress sense?
height and weight?
older women will feel a sense of shaming dating you and there's plenty in society that reinforces that. but as the man its your job to approach women so work on that confidence
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>>34782071
agree

face wise i'm like 4.5/10
very little facial hair and baby face (i've been told i have a babyface by a lot od girls)
i'm focusing on losing weight and building my physique
i'm bulky and have wide shoulders
i have good genetics and some muscle, but i'm also fat
180cm 90kg
i've been in and out of gym for the past 3 years
go for a year, get jacked then quit
so it's not a really big problem, i could get used to working out again pretty fast
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>>34782107
you're overweight but not obese, but you're in a land with higher standards than US.
idk if girls like a babyface, but if you don't want that, change your hair to something more masculine. usually facial hair can hide that.
im gonna assume you're young. facial hair is always slightly uncomfortable to start and doesn't feel or look right but since you're still trying to lose weight i'd experiment with growing it out and trying to shape it now. you have to look for bald spots and look up your face shape (heart, oval, etc) and see what works best to enhance your features.
you definitely don't want that jd vance fat flubber that has brought him ire.

id then join a group or club. yoga, hiking, church, whatever. people go to these events to socialize and they're usually desperate for new blood so they're more than accommodating. depending on where you live, many cities have clubs/groups for everything. just be a man, create a list and trial each for a laugh, and if it fails, you'll never see them again anyways



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