I am 26 and going to 27 and I have never experienced sex in my life and I am extremely curious to feel so and one of my problems is that I am not in a condition to hold a relationship rn. But, the biggest of my problems is that I see several people associating hiring a prostitute the same as rape.I see this discourse from colleges, to twitter, discord and reddit that hiring a sex worker is the same as raping her due to it being economic coercion and that the buyer is using their position in society to exploit vulnerable women. Asides of that I see several women saying men who hire sex workers are disgusting and unworthy of trust.Is sex work the same as rape? I need to confirm this to conclude if I should lose my virginity to a SW or not. I don't want to hurt or exploit any woman, I just wanna have sex
>>34782332>Is hiring a sex work analog to rape?Hiring a hooker might be degenerate, but it is definitely NOT analogous to rape.>I see this discourse from colleges, to twitter, discord and reddit Stop listening to retards, Anon.
>>34782332Don’t do it. I’m not saying this because I think it’s rape. It’s not. Sex between two consenting adults is not that. But you will regret it. I did it twice and I really wish I’d have stayed a virgin. I genuinely believe I can find someone at 29, but I’m going to have to confess to them at some point what I did and the thought of it everyday just fucking scares me
>>34782374>I’m going to have to confess to them at some pointYou literally don't have to. It's fine to keep things to yourself.
just keep your phone recording audio, use 2 if you need, every ho explains her tariff and the things you'll do, audio will be the only needed proof, even better if you also record through a spy watch, the only bad thing is that you will have to go to the same ho a few times for it to feel good, first time will be wild, exciting, but you will feel little, then you will feel more confident with her, I made the mistake to unleash the fun, went with 6 amazing escorts in 10 days, none of them got stuck in my memory, also yes here in first world europe even a 10/10 is cheap, they sure have more sex than the stacy into feminism that lives with 5 dogs, too bad here most of them "tour around" aka you don't always find them staying in the same area, so going to one you like and getting to a comfortable level until she's in the area it's the best, heard in the usa escorts are 500 dollars for some ugly trailer park meth addict in her 50s
>>34782434Yes but if I fall for someone which is what I want and I genuinely love them, then I want them to know who I am. There’s a difference between having a hookup and paying for sex. I have my reasons why it happened that way, not that it justifies it. But I have to own what I did. I wouldn’t be able to live with it if she didn’t know
>>34782468The stuff that happened in your past has nothing to do with who you are. Are you going to tell them about the people who bullied you in high school? Over-sharing carries nothing but downsides.
>>34782482But those two escort encounters were the worst things I ever did and the second one broke me completely. Like it was my lowest point. How could I not share it?
>>34782486Why would you share bad things that happened to you with a women? Women are disgusted by weak men and you will turn her off. Those are for your therapist, women want you to be a rock. They already have a pussy and don't need a second one.
>>34782491NtaBeing sincere in a relationship is a must the every man and woman
>>34782491So you don’t share things that happened to you or that matter to you with the person you love? I’m actually asking because I have no experience in this. I thought that’s how relationships worked. You’re telling me people just hide their past?
>>34782468Ur a goofy wtf is this idealism lol. Chill fuck a high end escort pay her extra if u feel bad. If you actually feel bad what you can do is like clean yourself clean as FUCK buy a really nice cologne and make sure ur as heygenic shaved and pleasent as possible. That will go a long way fr. Remember you live in capitalism so your Christ cucked idealism is really just a Jewish psyop to keep you a loser, peace
>>34782332>is working a job analog to slavery?
>>34782505Fuck no, love, it's two persons ideals of the fantasy they think the other person is clashing together. You don't have to say anything don't be a gay ass teenager who thinks that life is like a hbo mini series for teens dude
>>34782518Why is nothing pure in this world man. Why all the games and lies and deceit.
>>34782516Yes. I hate having to work, but I need money for food. Not too much different from if I worked for room and board instead.
>>34782516A lot of sex workers entered the job because they had no other option
>>34782743>>34782744Then quit fucking whining about it being "MUH RAPE"If the average normie can work a 9-5, the average whore can suck a dick while earning a lot more.
>>34782332Not like rape if she's choosing to be there to do the job. She can say no at any point and if you stop its not rape. The only exception is if she is being trafficked / has a pimp. Then she maybe doesn't want to be having the sex but also you probably will have no way of knowing that. Literally any job is economic coercion. You get paid to do something you don't want to do. I suppose the exception is if you actually love your job, and I mean love it, not just tolerate it or don't think it's bad to go to work. Like you wake up and are excited to go to work to do whatever you do there.
>>34782745Not the same person, and the first one isn't OP either. I'm not whining about rape at all and you're right about the normie comparison. I wasn't saying that there is anything wrong with having to work and if a whore chooses to be a whore, that's on her.
>>34782744Bullshit. Unless their pimp has them at gunpoint there is always an option. Go to a homeless shelter. Get career help.
>>34782332Fuck off, autist. Either do it or don't, the philosophication shit is not relevant here.
>>34782785>the philosophication shit is not relevant hereWhy not? Thinking about ethics is necessary for everything in life. You wouldn't want to hurt an innocent person
>>34782792When you go to a grocery store, are you hurting the employees by shopping there? Kind of, but you shouldn't get lost in that.
>Is sex work the same as rape? No. I've been to around 20 escorts, and I can assure you the majority likes sex. They are slaves to money and luxury but that's it. I'm sure most of them could stop at any point, unless we aren't talking about some eastern European bop house, black street walkers in America, or some sex dungeon in Colombia. In the EU, you literally go on a website, send the escort a message, pull up to her apartment, pay her, and have sex. Leave. Many of the hoes live together in the same apartment where they fuck customers. Idk how this could be construed as rape.
>>34782806>Idk how this could be construed as rapeBecause if they weren't under economic necessity they wouldn't fuck their clients otherwise. They are men she wouldn't even look at
>>34782866>>34782806The point is that the circumstances forced them to have sex with said men
>>34782806>Idk how this could be construed as rape.You put communism and feminism together and then you can say it's rape.
>>34782866>economic necessity
>>34782884You know the average hooker isn't a millionaire right?
>>34782505Of course you do. If you want it to be a genuine and meaningful Relationship then you share your things that matter to you. if this is something that's impacted you a lot then hiding it is only a Disservice to yourself. don't take dating advice from 4chan users as gospel, most things they say about what women want are wrong lol. Some women obviously are going to be "icked" or whatever by things (be it money, past actions, etcetera) but if they're actually right for you and love you they can accept this part about you (especially since your view on what happened doesn't seem degenerate). Anyways good luck with the partner search.
Ok so it's not rape?
>>34785983It could be if she were trafficked.Get everything from a reputable source. You'll have to deal with her pimps as well.
>>34782505man you're naive. but I like that. better than being a jaded demon sociopath of this site. yes, in love you should tell the other everything, otherwise its not love and what's the point. But most relationships these days aren't love, everything is built on lies, and it's up to you if you want to play that game or not. Can you live with yourself? If you can, you'll become just like them and help to ruin it for the rest of us. Women are only unbearable now because of guys like them. And yet that's what they've grown to want. but honestly at this point, are you ever even going to find a real woman?
>>34782332It actually can be. Where I live there's a law which says that if a hooker is a victim of human trafficking or modern slavery, all her customers are committing a crime by fucking her, and this applies even if you didn't know she was trafficked.But in the general case, no.
>>34786155Are you German or from visegrad?
>>34782332Don't new age lefties defend "sex work is real work"? Did I miss a new wave of faggotry?Also no, under no circumstance is it analogous to rape in a legal sense if she consents. Morally, it could be seen as exploitative if she's getting pimped or any other circumstance in which she isn't in control of her autonomity as a sex worker.Go buy some ethically sourced pussy, anon. Or not, either way, you won't be seen as a rapist in the eyes of the law.
