this girl at work, she's attractive and she has a boyfriend outside of work. she has complimented a jacket of mine, my haircut, offered and put fries in the kitchen oven for me when i said they were cold. invited me to hang out at the front desk with her and her friend when i spent 90 minutes with her the day previously. i passed by one day and i didn't say hi cause she had her back turend and was working, and when she turned around to finally see who it was (me) she was like hi <my name> okay then (at this point i was already walking up the stairs when she said hi, i got to halfway up the stairs, and she calls out to me, and i look over the railing, and she's looking up smiling and she is like i said hi!!! and then another time i passed by, didn't say hi and the friend was like why didn't you say hi to us, bad morning? and before i could answer the friend was like oh she treated your ass!!! (so i guess the hot girl said something about me/roasted me but i didn't hear it) and i was like i had a bad morning, and she was like so did i <my name> but i still said good morning to you. and im thinking to myself, im not her boyfriend. i feel like her behavior is sus for a girl in a relationship. what gives? what does she want? two girls here liked me before and i didn't make a move so wondering if i should do something here. idk guys help ive never even been on a date before and was going to forget foids entirely because I never matched with girls I was attracted too on dating apps. she also asked to see a picture of my sister and called her cute and my family.
>>34782924are you intentionally not using enter?
>>34782924Just don't talk to her if you don't need to. Nothing good would come out of it.
>>34782924Bro this sounds fake af but if its true i don't see why you shouldn't take profit of it. You don't find someone who loves you everyday
>>34782946i used notepad like a retard cause i kept failing the captchas >>34782949not fake, i just don't know what to do. ive been keeping my distance with her cause i don't want to orbit her and don't know if i have a shot. the only thing im sure of is if i was her bf i wouldn't like this behavior toward another guy
>>34782949She doesn't love him. She's trying to monkey branch.
>>34782949It literally doesn't sound fake. It's mundane and boring.
>>34782954she's in a relationship, so what can you do? what do you want out of it?maybe she's bored of her current relationship, or using you as a prospect, or... she's just being friendly?it sounds like your behavior in one of those situations wasn't the best mannered.but realistically, what do you want out of the situation? i wouldn't put your faith in a relationship out of it yet, but it at least seems like the 2 other parties are trying to be friendly with you.
>>34782958based on the hieroglyphics posted, this seems the likeliest.if someone's doing this, i'd avoid having trying a relationship with them. but op needs to give more info preferably without the valley girl filler.
>>34782982other things shes done is she said oh i know you didn't ask but i wanted to show you my new dog, and she showed me the picture on her phone and rolled her chair to me. she works with her bff, when i spent 90 minutes with her and her bff, the bff messaged me on teams the next day saying they missed me that day and <hot girls name> was asking where i was.
>>34783026is the bff a girl? is she in a relationship?i mean it sounds like they're interested in you, but if she's in a relationship it also seems like someones getting played in the background: either you or the boyfriend.do you want to play those games?
>>34783034the bff is a girl and she is in a relationship with some guy at our building. the hot girl who this post is about boyfriend is outside of work. i don't want to get played so ive barely seen her the past few weeks cause i don't pass by. but is that a mistake? am i fumbling anything
>>34782924She wants to fuck you I'm serious
>>34783067not surprising but...>>34783049if she's playing games with her boyfriend, then you're gonna be in the future ruleset for games play.is it worth wetting your whistle for a couple months of lust?looking for a new relationship when in another is a sign for future troubles.
>>34783067so what would you do? >>34783080i would never match with a girl that looks this girl on a dating app and i don't go out much only to the gym grocery store and occasionally i go out with friends every few weeks. what would you do if you were me? do you think i have a chance to fuck her? honestly im not sure if she is relationship material but yeah
>>34782924This better not be another cuck fantasy thread.>>34783109>so what would you do?Isn't it obvious?
>>34783117how would you go about it cause she literally works at the front desk with her best friend. also no this isn't a fantasy. on one hand i feel like she hasn't given me a clear sign but on the other hand i feel like she is acting in ways she shouldn't with a boyfriend. she shouldn't get butthurt about me not saying hi.
>>34783159I would just get more and more flirty and talkative with her slowly. If she doesn't want to cuck her boyfriend with you, she will eventually say no. Otherwise, your sign is clear.Tell me, is her boyfriend a manlet?
>>34783109i wouldn't touch someone with a ten foot pole that was doing what she's doing, but if you're ram forward with the little head...just play stupid, and ignore that she has a boyfriend and ask if she wants to go out for a walk or coffee (or whatever you think she might like) next time you talk to her.if she brings up her boyfriend, just say you forgot or some shit. an ex taught me how much you can get away with by playing dumb especially if someone likes you. i'd had a dozen speeding tickets by my early 20s and i got to watch her get out of one by playing stupid and acting like she didn't see the speed limit.
