how to handle discord parasocial behavior? I'm lonely as fuck, and find myself joining a lot of discords when I'm bored/lonely to talk to people, thing is whenever I join the case is always there's some preformed friend situation going on where talking makes me feel invisible and even worse, cause everyone just talks to eachother and ignores me. And there are moments when I post good stuff and people react to it positively, and then i just still get ignored after I wish I could just delete discord and never return to it ever, but I can never bring myself to commit to thatI just respect myself and wish I had some form of connection, and it feels like breaking into an impenetrable wall to get thatAlso I noticed 99% of servers are like two modes if they're active, first mode is full of nazi larpers, racism and unfunny offensive humor and whatnot, other mode is like people saying "meow" and acting like theyre best lifelong friends with other people in chat which I think is even worse because it makes me feel dumb as an outsiderAnybody relate?
>>34783015delete discord. its a waste of time.every discord server is 3-5 people with 18 hours a day that fill up 90% of the conversationyou'll never fit in unless you sell your soulif you mull it over though, you realize these clique elitists just recycle the same shit they read off discord/tiktok/etc and don't bring anything new to the table.
>>34783046nice try imitator
>>34783053i have a stalker
>>34783015Can't you do DM shit there? You can. Or are you some wierd extravert who absolutely needs to big in a big group?
>>34783015You sound like leftoid faggot, so maybe tranny discords would be more suitable for you?
>>34783015>Also I noticed 99% of servers are like two modes if they're active, first mode is full of nazi larpers, racism and unfunny offensive humor and whatnot, other mode is like people saying "meow" and acting like theyre best lifelong friends with other people in chat which I think is even worse because it makes me feel dumb as an outsiderThat's discord. What were you expecting?
>>34783111MUH LEFT AND RIGHT
>>34783015internet friends are not real anon, you have to realize this as soon as possible or you're in for a rude awakening. delete discord and force yourself to socialize in real life, or if you don't want to do that at least don't rot your brain with the idea that you are getting anything meaningful out of having "friendships" online. in the long run these things do nothing but distract from realityand i don't mean to demean you, i know all this from experience
>>3478563221 hours and op hasn't made a single replyit's over anon. he didn't appreciate the suggestions.
