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I have what I am calling "twoitis" because its essentially oneitis but twice.

I will admit that I was a fairly late bloomer and had to wait until nearly 21 years old to lose my virginity*. I am also probably slightly autistic as well and due to my strained family situation I have several weird mannerisms which should be turnoffs for most women.

I somehow ended up dating two of the wildest women I have ever met back to back in the span of about 3 years. Due to legitimate reasons I was forced to break up with both of them, something I still regret especially with my 2nd ex. Thanks to the experiences they showed me, it has become nearly impossible to enjoy any kind of sexual activity without fantasizing about either of them.

I feel like my standards have become so high because of them that I am unable to have a healthy relationship with a "normal" woman. What is worse is that several months back my 2nd ex (picrel isnt her but looks so close that it may as well be her) asked to get back in contact, which I turned down at the behest of my current partner.

People are always talking about how a girl who dates a wild guy is "ruined" afterwards or something along those lines but people never discuss how the same thing can and does happen to guys, especially guys with little/no experience.
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>>34783340
Sauce? Godly hips.
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>>34783346
No clue, but she does look nearly identical to my one ex. She used to work out anywhere from 2-4 hours a day, normally 1-2 hours of calisthenics + light resistance training and then an additional 1-2 hours of either light cardio or hiking. Her legs were almost comically muscular especially in comparison to the rest of her body.
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>>34783340
>Thinly veiled humble brag thread
Sage
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>>34783340
leave your current partner and go back to your second ex
am i missing something?
you're going to ruin your current partners life by staying with her and fantasizing about other women. you're doing both of you a disservice.
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>>34783350
This issue is actively harming my current relationship. What is worse is that the majority of my friend group actively prefers my 2nd ex over my current gf, and I have been told by several of my close friends that I should break up with my current gf to get back with my ex despite my gf not really doing anything wrong, just not vibing with my friend group as well.
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>>34783352
This is my thought the issue is that I cant view that as a legitimate reason to break up. It makes me feel like an asshole, which is probably true. I know I am probably going to break up with my partner eventually but whatever is fucked up in my head keeps saying no.
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>>34783346
>cant google image search
https://www.reddit.com/r/tightdresses/comments/14goni1/how_do_i_look/
https://www.reddit.com/r/NothingUnder/comments/z28o9m/sundresses_on_thick_girls/
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>>34783365
>goon gif
You got me kek
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>>34783361
you are an asshole, but prolonging it makes you more of an asshole
free your girlfriend if you can't fix yourself in your current situation.
dont prolong this unhappy ending because you're holding onto some vague fantasy of it working out. you've already made the decision, and it sounds like you're not going to adapt to your current gf.
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>>34783358
Kiss yourself bigger
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>>34783340
I will go from other side of this.
You are dating your current gf. I would like to believe there were reasons why you started. And now you don't want to play with her anymore because a new cool toy appeared.
I don't know the future but if you stayed with current gf you could have a stable good relationship.
If you were to switch it's this exotic and cool energy that will run out. Probably she would become ex*2.
Only you know details but you seem to be looking for fun friend with benefits rather than a partner.
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>>34783365
kek
got me too
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>>34783346
name: Jadedoll18
she is pretty.
link to sketchy website: https://www.xpics.me/search?q=jadedoll18&s=top
also 34783365 your reddit link was broken for some reason.



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