Does being a fat fuck automatically means the doors of dating are haram for me? Like, "don't even bother"?I used to be quite slim, like 66kg, then got dumped among a plethora of other shit nobody cares about, and went up to 90kg. I'm a manlet king at a 170cm (5'6 in burger units).
>>34783356you're obese, so you have a lot to work on. it depends on how much effort you're willing to put into things.what part of the world are you in? how would you rate yourself out of 10? are you balding? can you work on appearance and what do you think your potential self-rating is if you fix yourself?
>>34783390europe. probably a 6, maybe even a 7 if the stars align and my hair doesn't look like shit.thank fucking god no, i'm in my 20s.well not sure what you mean with appearance, like with clothing and skincare, then yes.I'd say I'd go back to near where i was a few years ago, around 70kg~. I can't give an exact score but i really liked where i was.
>>34783356>Does being a fat fuck automatically means the doors of dating are haram for me? Like, "don't even bother"?Yes. And with that height, its completely over. Hit the gym
>>34783404if you're obese its gonna take like 6 months from your skin flabs to recover when you do lose weight, so best time to start is now.cut out sugar, high fructose, seed oils, and any reprocessed foods. stick primarily to meat and vegetables or beans and rice (both make a complete protein) if you're a poorfag. dry beans and rice is practically free.i've also found if you barely season your food and primarily eat the same thing, you'll eat much less of it. you'll start to go crazy after a month or two of it but it will also do you the favor of shrinking your stomach size by that time you have to add variety/more seasoning.also most sauce in the US at least is also slop. read every ingredients label and count your calories. for exorcise try more aerobics than strength. long walks or runs.cut out booze too if you're drinking.if you're in your 20s you have plenty of time to turn the ship around.when you do lose weight make sure you're still not dressing like a teenager and look well put together. people judge you in 30 seconds.get a second opinion on hair/dress/facial hair
>>34783356Fellow 91kg at 170cm 30 year old guy reporting in Yes, from unfortunately very, very extensive experience - yes.All of the attention I ever got from girls (and gfs) were when I was sub 70.Yes, unfortunately that measley number of 20kg is making that huge difference in your life. Personality and fears can be worked on. I am not concerned for you or me. Look like the role - you become it.It's harder to pretend confidence when you're a fat fucker like us. We can RP - but everyone sees it in the face, in the body. Personality alone cannot carry this. Maybe exceptional skill or social status can. But not personality.
as long as you didnt take any highly experimental genetic therapeutics (like mod. mrna so called vax) and are otherwise healthy besides overweight, you can just lose weight? i dont get what your problem is?you have adipositas I, so maybe go to a doc? he might give you a plan, prescribe some weight loss medicine that bounds metabolitic fat (NOT deadly drugs like ozempic) and off you go doing sports ectyou know you can just lose weight, if you want aka WILL it.i observe that many people do not have a strong WILL and therefore dont DO as they want or feel or wish. and if they want but still dont do then they are just lazy (or indeed have a medical illness making them actually unable to lose weight which is extremely rare). all of this is fixable at least to some degree>>34783455personality no, but character. but even then, people perceive first what the eye sees and thats unfortunately a huge blob in their field of view. they will then have respect for your character but still pity or have some compassion for your unhealthy bodyi can only speak for myself of course>t. non judgemental aquarius
>>34784304>first what the eye sees and thats unfortunately a huge blob in their field of view.Are people really that shallow?
