I have a gf and she’s cool we get along well she’s thoughtful caring etc. But I just don’t want to fuck her…. Like at all. I can’t even make myself do it. I don’t watch porn I don’t jerk off I exercise daily I have a decent career I eat fairly healthy I have fun hobbies I enjoy. Mentally I don’t think there’s anything holding me back from it besides the fact I am just not sexually attracted to her. The worst part of it all is that she’s simply not good at it and the fact that I let it effect me to the point that I have no desire to be intimate with her absolutely kills me. I feel like I am a horrible person because she has good qualities so why can’t I just man up and make myself fuck her. I don’t even think there’s any advice to be had from posting this I just had to put my thoughts out somewhere. I know I just need to stick with her and keep grinding saving money. It’s just hard. I’ve tried to make her leave me by drinking too much and being drunk all the time but she just won’t. And if I leave her I’m so scared she would do something like kill herself. Maybe I just have to live in a sexless relationship and it’s just my burden to bear. Sorry if this is a retarded post.
>>34784187It's a retarded post, and you are gay, but I had the same with my ex past a certain point - she made me feel not good around her anymore, so because of my heart I stopped fucking her.
>>34784187time to leave her unless you just don't want sex the rest of your life.prolonging it is going to do more harm than good.were you hoping for something else cause i doubt any of us are going to be able to get your dick hard for her.
>>34784187so instead of being an adult and saying to her, "hey, i care about you but i no longer want to be in a relationship", you try to get her to leave by becoming an alcoholic? are you retarded?the most important thing is to NOT tell her about the sexual attraction part, as that would kill her self esteem. you two just aren't compatible and you need to be honest with her about that. it's not your burden, you just are too afraid of being a man and actually handling the situation like an adult. you are hurting yourself, and you are hurting her by continuing this relationship.
>>34784187There's always someone who does the fucking.If it isn't you, then it's someone else.
