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Advice for women over 30 trying to compete with younger women?
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>>34784311
I don't know
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You literally just posted this on /int/, same filename and everything
>>>/int/223572162
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>>34784311
Cougarmaxx, some men in their twenties (like me) have a thing for older women.
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>>34784311
Literally just be nicer to men than other women your age are willing to be. The bar is on the floor so I’m not even telling you that you have to do all that much. Kindness and attitude go all the way. There is at least one zoomette who fell for the man hate psyop for every single one who acts normal. A criticism I see frequently about men dating younger is “men prefer younger women because they’re immature and inexperienced.” Maybe that’s true in some cases and obviously I can’t speak for every man on the planet but I’d reword that to “I prefer women who don’t act antisocial and pissy with me before they even know me”. It’s an attitude thing.
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>>34784325
busted
op isn't even here. move on
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>>34784311
Sell maturity, sophistication, mystery
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stop looking for men you old hag wtf doesnt your disgusting pussy get tired from getting railed
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>>34784311
Kill yourself. You should've dated your high school classmate instead of switching between riding Chad cocks and milking geriatric guys for money.

Dating for women is so easy, I cannot be sympathetic to your woes.
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>>34784815
Lots of assumptions here
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>>34784374
Yeah being jaded is actively unattractive no matter how justified the jaded party thinks they are in that behavior.
>men always blablabla
>men in my past blablabla
>every time I’ve [x], men blablabla
Don’t want to hear any of it. I’m not those men and if you’re still mad at them go to therapy. Same deal as men with women/mommy issues. No woman ever wants to hear that. Get therapy or leave the other gender alone.
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>>34784817
I'm sorry, but were men your age interested in you when you were younger? If yes, why are you single right now? If no, why are you lying?
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>>34784820
>if you dated in high school it means you can't be single 15 years later
You know break up happens, right?
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>>34784311
>Advice for women over 30 trying to compete with younger women?
Why the fuck would you ever want to? Any guy who likes younger women isn't worth having.
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If this is real you're officially making it clear that women are competing against other women again? Had the feeling for a long time. Are you pathetic? And you're in your thirties too? Not much going on in your head huh. Go shoot yourself.
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>>34784825
Should've chosen better.
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just be rich or date some chubbier guy and get him to lift
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>>34784850
>women would rather date lazy tall fatasses hoping to get them in shape instead of dating short, brown, disfigured, or autistic men who take care of their health
I hate this world. Jesus cannot come back soon enough.
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>>34784850
>chubbier guy and get him to lift
Older women are sophisticated, mature, and experienced. Why should a high value women like that stoop herself to the level of fixing a broken man?
>>34784837
Also this. Men who are attracted to youth are disgusting.
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>>34784852
ye that's the way life is bro im short, disfigured and potentially autistic (never got diagnosed or anything, but I am on 4chan) but I have been lifting for 5 years KHHV
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>>34784847
No one stays with their first partner, dear incel
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>>34784854
>Older women are sophisticated, mature, and experienced. Why should a high value women like that stoop herself to the level of fixing a broken man?
True honestly but I assumed OP ain't the most high value catch since she had to ask for advice
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>>34784865
Oh damn by bait caught the wrong type of fish. Better switch lures and change spots.
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>>34784863
Christians used to marry for life. It's not impossible. Just don't be a retarded normgroid or a whore. If you are, kindly kill yourself.
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>>34784872
I wonder why they were married for life when divorce was outlawed
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>>34784876
Maybe we should outlaw divorce again. This way OP wouldn't have broken up with Brad because he didn't put the toilet seat down, realize she's worthless on the dating market and ask for advice on an antiquated internet forum on life support.
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>>34784311
The benefit of being younger is that women are in better health and less cynical. So do stuff that makes you biologically younger like exercise and healthy diet. Putting in the effort to be healthy over using fake fixes like makeup makes you stand out among hordes of lazy humans.
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>>34784880
That would be the final nail in the coffin your greasy incel ass. As is, maybe some 4/10 gives you the benefit of the doubt and is willing to try , but once that means she will be tied to you forever, even that chance is gone.
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>>34784311
Being a good woman? Young woman can literally only compete on looks, and they get spoiled rotten from it and turn into bitchy hags that can't respect their men. An older woman can have many more years of experience listening to and understanding others to draw from in supporting her man with more than just sex.
This of course doesn't work if she spent her youth hooking up and getting addicted to random bullshit instead of respecting her mind and body.
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>>34784837
>>34784854

found the fat roasty lol.

>If men want to date me they need to put in the work!
>No. I am not going to get a better job, work out, lookmax, go to therapy or learn social skills.
>Men just need to accept me for who I am! If they can't love me at my worst then they don't get me at my best!
>Noooooooooooooooo! Stop dating women who are younger than you! You're supposed to date me!
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>>34784311
If someone's mid 20s/out of college then you can just be yourself as no one would really care about an age gap like that.
For anything earlier most people would probably be weirded out/ashamed by the age gap so your pool would be a lot smaller but it's still better to just act yourself as otherwise you'll just attract the mentally ill.
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WHO THE FUCK DELETED MY POST

if you are a woman above 30 and couldnt land down a man after getting railed for 15 years you should stfu and calm your needy dirty horny pussy and let others date

you are disgusting and doesnt bring anything to the table, go beg the one who pumped and dumped you to marry you, otherwise stop fucking up others lives
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>>34784311
Don't?
If the guy is my age and is hitting on 18 year olds I don't want that one there's zero conflict of interest there.
Stop asking how you can compete with 20 year olds and start asking how the 50 year olds can compare to you lol.
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>>34785784
>found the fat roasty
I'm a guy, but believe whatever helps you sleep at night.
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What's stopping you from dating? I see women in their 40s getting hitched all the time and they aren't exactly 10/10s. Sounds like you aren't putting much effort into it.
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>>34784311
Accept the time has passed as it will for younger women also. We're all blessed to see another day, let alone year. I have friends that didn't make it to 30.

It's best to focus on being the best YOU you can be. Compete with your yesterday self ONLY.
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>>34784311
>Advice
Give up.
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>>34784311
Women talk ALL THE TIME THEY PREFER OLDER MEN. Why is so many people angry at this?
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>>34784311
Keep in mind 90% of women in all history reproduced while only 40% men did it.

Women dating pool is way bigger than any men all almost all imaginable scenarios. You still have a gigantic amount of possible partner, you just have to go on dates to find a BF or a possible husband
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>>34784311
You're not really competing with anyone but yourself.

Be gentler to yourself, be kinder, compliment yourself, love yourself. Do not buy into redpill ideologies.

T. 29 year old man
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>>34784311
>trying to compete
Don't. You get to stay in your lane. They get to stay in theirs.
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>>34787072
>Keep in mind 90% of women in all history reproduced while only 40% men did it.
[citation needed]



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