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Mom keeps pestering me to go out and socialize, get friends and gf but where do I go? I'm 32 btw
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ask her why does she wants you to get friends and a gf
do you want to have them? if not, you're 32 yrs old, tell her to not bother you
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>>34784796
I do and she keeps asking but I stay in her house so I suppose she has a right
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>>34784802
no she doesn't even if you live with her, don't infantilize yourself, you are your own person, not your mother's minion
>friends
just find a group hobby you like enough and start becoming a regular in participating, eventually you will make friends
>gf
getting a gf at your age, especially if you never had one, is going to be very tough, many of the women your age that are still single are the bottom of the barrel: unstable or untrustworthy
if you're that desperate just get a latina or someone else that would be willing to marry you only for citizenship but be warned: it's extremely unlikely you will meet a girl that genuinely likes you
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>>34784829
I'm British
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>>34784905
ah, perfect
then just go to your local mosque and convert to islam lmao
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>>34784794
>>34784802
I used to be in the same boat. What helped me is asking me to introduce me to a girl constantly until she got fed up. No she is no longer asking. If she will still tell you to go out, ask her where. If she doesn't say, keep asking her to annoy her. It she tells you where, go there, fail and report back to show her she's full of shit.
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>>34785064
>asking me
*asking her
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>>34784973
>picrel
>>34784794
op just sign up for a club or group that interests you. go to a larp event or something that you can do something interested to you and meet other people.
if you just go to a grocery store or coffee shop no one's gonna want to talk to you out of the blue. you gotta use third spaces.
you could try a bar if you have the balls to approach people
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>>34784794
Look around you. Meet your neighbors, classmates, workmates, churchmates. Join a club, a team, a class, a church. Do volunteer work. Go to events and shows and chat with people on line. Hang out at the comic book store



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