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All my usual choices of escapism aren't really cutting it anymore (4chan included). But I still haven't managed to find meaningful ways to engage with the real world ("touching grass," if you will). It's like I stumbled into a wall after aimlessly drifting through life, using distractions to keep myself from thinking about where I was going. Now I'm left alone to face the inadequacies of my own life.

Have any of you ever faced a similar situation?
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>>34785114
this is the start of 90% of problems on /adv/. i think you hit the nail on the head op. hope you can relate.
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uhmmm maybeeee you should, like, face what you're escaping from?
crazy, I know
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>>34785114
Escapism is only somewhat effective at coping. If you are locked in a cellar and are tortured every day, it doesnt matter how good the entertainment you use to spend the rest of the day is. You will still feel miserable.
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>>34785114
I forgot to go into more detail about myself.
>23
>job hunting
>no particular soft or hard skills though
>painfully average by every possible metric (being optimistic), yet comically insecure nevertheless
>maybe mentally ill, but fairly healthy physically
>never had a social life
>lack of passions or personal interests, maybe because of overly critical and controlling parents
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>>34785114
>Have any of you ever faced a similar situation?
every day anon, every day
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