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Is youtube a good place to learn social skills if your parents failed you or are them just talking outta their asses?
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>>34785383
it's a terrible place to learn social skills. those videos are ai driven slop recycling information from other motivation youtubers.
best way to talk to people is in public. even getting a job as a clerk will teach you skills to speak to others.
if you want to do it online, play gta rp or vrchat (you can play on your phone now too). people on vrchat tend to be mentally retarded but you can make a fake account you can delete whenever if you fuck up yourself (it's a low bar so you'll be fine). i'd join the pug world (since its desktop only, maybe with phone too). most the obnoxious kids on that game are on quest devices (which is why you want a desktop only world)
you can get some interesting conversation in with others that way.
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>>34785401
4chan also has a /vrg/ that has vrchat events every day, though they're using vr devices and frown on pc/phone users.
there's plenty of other groups that host meet and greets as well for adults, though i think they're organized by reddit, so gl with that.
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>>34785401
>>34785405
I want someone to give me real life advice, talking to trap fetishizers on vrchat won't help
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>>34785383
>Is youtube a good place to learn social skills
Short answer: yes
Longer answer: as others have pointed out, you have to be very careful before you put faith into any video you watch. There are channels with good advice. There are over 9000s channels with bad advice.
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>>34785491
Apply for a job as a cashier. Not only does this encourage you to be social and learn basic manners, but it will also teach you code-switching.
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>>34785556
>there are channels with good advice
such as?
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I don't watch videos with less than a million views and more than 10 minutes, same as I don't listen to poors or the ugly. You want to be a normie, you have to think like a normie.



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