i have a gf and i like her shes sweet and all but sometimes shes just too much. My favorite game is victoria 3 and whenever im trying to play my game in peace she spams me calls and texts and complains i dont play videogames or watch anime with her. Every day i wake up with 30+ messsages from her and if i dont answer her messages fast enough she starts calling me and wants to stay with me 24/7 wtf do i do one day she might actually stab me
>>34785780You tell her during a calm period (I know this is hard because you want to keep the peace) that you need alone time to decompress and that it isn't about her. She will probably freak out in some way. You have to be firm that this is something you need. If you can't deal with it, you need a different gf who won't drive you to an early grave
>>34785788i just dont like multiplayer games anymore i just wanna play my strategy game but shes so needy
>>34785780is she an online gf?you need to assert your boundary. her reaction will give you the answer if it's sustainable or not, as she will come to some grudging respect for it or blow up in your face.don't think there's anything else to say.if you're on victoria 3 or whatever, it's no girlfriend time. she can get on steam if she wants to see it.it'll help teach her to create time for herself that isn't melded to you, because long term your situation isn't sustainable.
>a man dying of thirst watching another mandrown
>>34785794she says that game is trash and i should stop playing it
>>34785799How about you dump herr and I take her?
>>34785780Also the blowjobs she gives last to long.
>>34785799you have to decide if it's worth it to quit the game for her.i can understand why a person would want someone to put less into a hobby. it also gives you grounds to argue she has to change something in herself you don't likebut this decision is up to you and if you are willing to make sacrifices for it.how much vic 3 are you playing each day?
>>34785881
You post this fucking thread every week. The answer is always the same. Stop acting like a child. Even the BIble wants you to stop acting like a child."When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things."1 Corinthians 13:11
>>347858908 hours a day on a bad day, 2 on a good.>>34785897never posted it bro
>>34785910>never posted it broBullshit. You post a variation on "my wife/girlfriend/mother doesn't want me to play vidya wah wah wah" at least once a week.
>>34785897every post in /adv/ has 5 themes.if someone here had a brain we'd just have a screencap of feedback and post the image.>>34785910if you're playing 8 hours on a work day, that means you're maxing out your allotted time. 8 hours work, 8 hours sleep, 8 hours freedo you want to keep the relationship?maybe settle for 2-6 hours max and/or 2-6 hours for her?
>>34785780Is this another cuck fantasy thread? We need a board or general dedicated for cuck fantasy threads. /cuck/
>>34785780Give me your gf wtf she sounds like a dream
>>34785780She craves your attention, but you control when and how much of it you give her. Use a carrot and a stick approach. Set boundaries for yourself, and reward her with genuine attention and affection if she respects them. For example:>too many calls and textsLimit her to a certain amount a day that you are comfortable with.>Complains about the game you are playingDemand that she respects your hobbies.Ultimately, you have to come to terms with the fact that the relationship isn't equal, and that there is a power imbalance in your favor. For such a relationship to flourish, you need to take charge. If you continue to treat her as an equal or even worse, let her push you around, the relationship will inevitably implode. It's simply not natural for the dependent party to call the shots.
>>34785959She could use HER free time to play Vic 3 with OP. Yet she doesn't. Why must the burden fall on him? Also, who works 8 hours a day? That's some wagecuck shit.
>>34787153when mine played eu4 it was no longer a hobby but a joband here you're telling me not to be a wagecuck
Fuck you guy. I would rather have an obsessed gf than no gf.