i fucking paid for tinder for a week and still nothing. i paid because i have hundreds of likes and wanted to see who they are. turns out most im not interested in, and the ones i messaged never messaged back. i just sat down and started swiping right on a bunch more girls than free mode would allow me and im about to cancel but how do i maximize this time where i still have it? im not really ugly, i should've matched with at least one from this. is this even real anymore?
Its all commodified since like last year. Especially anything Match owned. Hinge and Tinder are designed to perpetually keep you swiping even when they say they don't and since last year have begun a lot of disabling of features and hiding profiles to keep long term swiping. Even prem accounts are getting hidden. Also most women are using it for an ego boost and still hoping for a in-person approach. Not really looking for dates. Of course its still a tool so good photos win over all but most people at this point are not on there for connection.
I hate how Hinge is now charging you to change your location more than once a month.
>>34785830On dating apps you are competing with 10+ dudes for every one girl. Women only choose the chads on dating apps. From my expirence the very few women I have met, after all the years of swipping endlessly the dating apps, end up being horrible, insane bitches. I guess ill be single forever.
>>34785830nothing. you got scammed and your reward is knowing betterid use multiple apps. facebook dating, hinge, bumble and tinder. match.com owns tinder and hinge so they want you to fail regardless. facebook has the least bs but zuck will send everything you say to palantir.i dont know the rhyme or reason why everyone i know seems to have had better luck with one over the other. so pick your poisons.
>>34785848>using it for an ego boost and still hoping for a in-person approachthat's kind of how im using it as well. i just want to know im attractive enough to cold-ask strangers in real life on dates and not become the mockery of a tiktok instead or something. all the girls around here keep their phone in their back pocket, i wonder if they're recording everything from their asscam. but if there were someone worthwhile on the app then i'd consider meeting them too. Most profiles seem purposely designed to make me hate women even more.i dont know anything i dont know anyone nothing is real for all i know its all just AI now. im getting closer to just getting it over with with a hooker but i dont even know how to find them without getting in trouble. i've seen the sites but maybe that's a trap. last time i reached out to a few, the "cartel" was texting me to pay a ransom the next morning, so maybe none of those girls were even real and the entire site and ecosystem of reviews is just designed to get victims of that scam. if i do that again i'll get an entire burner phone first....maybe a strip club? besides that i dont just want sex though i want love, someone who actually cares. i am trying to improve, be more fit, have more money, i'd never be chad but i'd be dateable, but whats it all for there's no girls to love out there anymore?also adultfriendfinder seems fake and sketchy too, im not gonna pay 40 a month just to see profiles and find out if its real.
>>34785912What abt bumble? Is it same zhit different shitter or is it slightly better? Asking cuz i installed it recently and i wanna know if its worth using it
>>34785931then just talk to people IRL who cares what your internet likes mean. You just gonna live at home and like on tinder or form connections
>>34785936they're all shit or have gotten more shit over the past few years.think of it like a witch handing you their 'potion', and the results always vary. the results of hallucinating with ghosts, portals opening to thots instagram/onlyfans, having your soul crushed, or getting robbed is on the menu. there's antidotes to each if you have a thick skini quit all of them and meet people irl but if i had to go back id use faceberg because it had the least bs and people seemed more accountable since its tied to their actual accountnowadays im trying to limit my relationship to palantir
>>34785941I go to work (no girls except customers, and can't ask them out) i go to the gym (hot girls but with their bfs) i drive around sidehustling on doordash and besides that I dont know anyone else where else am i supposed to go? No one talks to me except pleasantries and then we're on our way. A cute girl at a restaurant I picked up food from yesterday said she liked my hair. I said thanks and complimented hers. Then it was over she went back to work and I left. Was I supposed to ask her number right there? What if she wasn't that serious and I get banned from that restaurant instead? Another at a drivethru treated me really nicely and kept calling me "hun", gave me a water, but i thought maybe she was just southern or something? If anything, this may mean that I'm actually goodlooking but I don't know where to go from there.Everyone's just out there with their own groups im an outsider wherever i go. Even if I talk to them it's just a little bit. I'm done with school, i dont really drink or drugs to go to a bar, or know how to go to a club, and my facebook is vacant and i think facebook dating relies on you having a facebook, a history of photos and interests and friend groups etcbesides that, everything just seems fake and futile online these days, not just dating apps or sex sites, everywhere you try to connect with others feeling the same, like you used to.
jews devalue everything, sex, love, life.
>>34786002>dont know anyone else where else am i supposed to goSo you have no social hobbies and wonder why you arent meeting chick's?Talk about putting the cart before the horse.>A cute girl at a restaurantShe was being friendly>Another at a drivethruSo was she>besides that, everything just seems fake and futile online these daysYeah cause the internet is screwing our ability to socialize and connect with others. Read Bowling Alone for more information on that. Your best hope is to get into an active hobby like running or climbing. You'll get more fit and meet chick's that will have a common interest with you. So you'll have stuff to talk about and connect on.The point being you have to get out of your comfort zone and work in a group setting. This has always been the most common way couples get together.
>>34788099>So you have no social hobbies and wonder why you arent meeting chick's?>Talk about putting the cart before the horse.Are you a boomer? What social hobbies are full of single girls in 2026? You are out of touch, fucking retard.>cart before the horseYou literally sound 80, fucking boomer lmao
>>34788099this 'boomer' guy fucks>>34788266this black pilled retard fucks ai wife his tengaknow the difference
