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Is sending songs to a person of the opposite sex while in a relationship really micro-cheating?
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>>34786189
Questions like this are really easy to figure out. Just ask yourself: if your gf or bf knew that you were doing it, would they be completely fine with that? If they wouldn't, it's cheating. And if you're not telling them because you're afraid they would react badly if you did, it's definitely cheating.
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Are you gonna keep reading and listening to bullshit that makes you want to go crawl in a ball in your home and make you avoid people? Come on man, you know you're better than all of that.
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>>34786211
With this in particular I'd be absolutely okay with it and never thought it's something bad until I found this article. I'm now worried I've been cheating non-conciously.
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>>34786189
the reality is white women are hotter than every other woman on the planet earth and every guy in a relationship with a nigger/spic/chink is going to cheat on their SO with a white woman at the instant opportunity.
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>>34786312
Lol no
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>>34786189
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>>34786211
This logic doesn't work because some people are fucking crazy. My friend's gf freaked out if he texted his family without telling her. It wasn't cheating for him to lie to her about communicating with his father
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>>34786349
thanks for proving my point with a decent body and an ugly face
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>>34786561
>This logic doesn't work because some people are fucking crazy. My friend's gf freaked out if he texted his family without telling her. It wasn't cheating for him to lie to her about communicating with his father
Yes, that logic works 100% of the time, and yes, that WAS cheating. Different couples have different rules, and cheating simply means breaking the rules (and usually trying to keep it secret). Some couples, for example, have open relationships; for them, fucking someone else *isn't* cheating, because it isn't against the rules in that particular relationship. In most relationships, of course, it *is* against the rules, and it is cheating. In your friend's case, his gf's rules included "no texting other people", and he broke that rule, so he absolutely was cheating.

Now, of course, he had a perfect right to say "that's a weird rule, can we please discuss that?" and have a conversation about it, and try to persuade her to change her rules. He also had a perfect right to say "That's a stupid rule, and I don't want to be in a relationship that has rules like that, so I'm breaking up with you." That's certainly what I would have done in that situation, and it's probably what most people would have done. But the fact remains, being with her meant accepting her rules. His options were: successfully renegotiate the rules, respect the rules, or split up. Knowingly breaking the rules *was* cheating, and if you aren't willing to accept the rules (for example, because they're insane) then you split up, you don't break them in secret.
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>>34786232
>I'm now worried I've been cheating non-conciously.
Then perhaps you should actually *ask* your bf or gf if they're okay with it before you do it?
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>>34786349
Eyes look better but the lips look retarded.



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