I'm 20 and currently in a great relationship with a girl (4th one for reference) but I'm encountering the same problem than in any relationship I ever was in : I have violent sexual desires for literal thousands of people wether acquaintances, people on the street you name it, and I thus consistently wants to cheat.I don't want to in the long term, because my gf is a really sweet girl and it's great with her, but theses impulses are ruining my days and I fear they'll ruin my relationship. Idk how to describe it but it's harassing me and, after talking with friends, I realised I had a way way higher libido than them.Idk if I should also talk to her about it, I mean if someone opened up like that to me, hypersexual or not, I'd feel like they're a douchebag for thinking about cheating consistently.
>>34786537Well the important thing is just to not cheat even if you want to. If you can't do that, you should tell your girl so she can leave you
find a girl that makes you forget about other women
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>>34786537>after talking with friends, I realised I had a way way higher libido than them.No, you don't, you just have weaker self-control.
>>34786537OP I have this exact same problem and I have even made a thread in the past asking for help. I have looked all over the net for solutions so I will tell you everything I have learned. I am by no means the master here and I still struggle with the issue mainly because I have difficulty giving up looking at softcore porn.First, the main problem. You have this burning desire to fuck girls. Lots of girls. You go to the store and see at least 3 or 4 cuties with nice asses and it drives you crazy. I will tell you right now, even if you were some kind of God and were able to fuck all these chicks, you would never ever be satisfied. It's a hunger that can never be filled. If you fuck 10 beautiful girls a day you'll just want to fuck another and another. We know this because you (and I) already have beautiful girls we love and something inside us keeps asking for more.That being said, we have established this desire is not feasible and cannot be solved by giving it what it wants. There is no "getting it out of your system", there is only "getting it INTO our system", which we have done one way or another. Me personally, I have dated several girls and throughout every relationship struggled with jacking off to porn. I go looking for the hottest girls I can and when I find the one for that fap session, god damn I can't get enough. I fantasize about cheating with her, then I find another girl and cheat with her, it goes on and on. Now it's IN MY HEAD and it stays there running in the background after I have left my fantasy. WE NEED TO CUT THAT SHIT OUT, OPNo more porn, no looking at sexy models or hotties on instagram. It is corrupting our minds.
