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Halo, I'm sure often the last people you all here from is the lesbians, but I'm genuinely trying to figure some shit out.
I'm not going to specify my age but I am currently in school and unemployed, kind of a bum, spend most of my time high with friends. And recently I've realized I'm either not up to female standards or the only women who like women here are taken. I'm summary I want to get pussy but I'm unsure how to even tell if a girl is into me, nor how to approach them if so. Im not completely hideous, unfortunately the only attention I receive is from
A) Men
B) female friends who are joking
Or C) men much older than me
If there are any 4chan lesbians on this board please help, or anyone who knows honestly , is there anything that I can do that screams girl that's trying to crack and not supportive girl boss or sum. Take note I am not very masculine so it's not very obvious that I like women.
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>>34786573
what the hell am i reading?
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Please ignore the spelling errors and shit I'm half asleep and typing with one hand, cat asleep on arm
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>>34786573
You need to be in more lesbian spaces. That mean gay bars or, if there aren't any near you, use one of that dating apps just for lesbians. You really only have to date one or two women too because once you're in the community, you're in
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>>34786575
Peak bullshit, idk man
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>>34786585
Unfortunately it's a very conservative country so there's no openly 'gay bars' and if there are any I don't know of them and I'm not oof drinking age where I live
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>>34786595
Oof? Seriously, of**
as for people around me, I sorta had a thing with my friend who was experimenting and I realized very quickly we didn't work at all
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>>34786595
Okay, lesbian dating apps it is
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>>34786602
Issue again, age , but I can try
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>>34786588
sorry i cant read your first post.
so you're a real woman trying to get with other women?
have you tried dating apps?
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>>34786608
you have to be 18 to post here
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>>34786609
I've tried a long time ago but that didn't work because then I was wayyy too young, as of recently no I haven't tried, but even when just going out, I'm in a small town, I'm more so wondering how to figure out more naturally if I'm being open enough idk
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>>34786613
Aren't most dating apps for 21+? I might be retarded
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>>34786609
Also real woman is crazy, nah bro I'm lying trust
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>>34786621
No, dating apps are all 18+ and even then people lie since there is no verification
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>>34786620
(Apologies if I'm spamming I'm new to this format)
Another thing that I think is an issue for me is my mainly male friendship circle, for some reason the assumption is that I'm a slut and fucking all the guys in my group so I know that's blocking me and having my hb try to wingman me with women hasn't worked at all
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>>34786656
Fair enough, I'll have a look around, but again I don't think I'll have much luck dew to my area being number one a VERY small town, and once again it's very catholic here
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>>34786648
what part of the world are you in?
just use a dating app. there's plenty of wild lesbians out there.
am i missing something other than your country hates gay sex?
i need a zoomer interpreter
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>>34786685
I'm in southern Africa, and in my experience with dating apps I've only gotten the classic 60 year old lady trying to get someone to join her and her husband
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>>34786702
Damn, that sucks. A longterm part of the solution might have to involve moving to Cape Town or somewhere there actually are lesbians
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>>34786713
Yeaa unfortunately, I guess imma just thug it out
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>>34786573
>unemployed, kind of a bum, spend most of my time high with friends.
Most women would, very reasonably, consider that a deal-breaker
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>>34786702
https://za.usembassy.gov/refugee-admissions-program-for-south-africans/
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>>34786954
Nah, lesbians are a special kind of desperate



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