>want a mentally healthy and well-adjusted partner who's been to therapy and respects themselves>exclusively attract mentally damaged women or trans women that want to be tied up and beaten to compensate for their childhood traumaWhere do I find a lady? someone with a bit of class. I'm too old for this shit
>>34787374what are you doing to attract mentally damaged trans women?idk anon, have you tried going to the public? county fair, bar, concerts, festivals, other events normal people go to?
>>34787374You may want to work on yourself before looking for somebody who's mentally well. Thinking that there's such a thing as a "trans woman" will automatically repel anyone sane.
>>34787394Fuck all. Existing. I tried dating apps. I got 30 likes in an hour all from trans women. Maybe I should be looking in other places. We don't have much of anything here. My best option might be moving into a city
>>34787414pot calling the kettle black. be stupid on someone else's time buddy
>>34787420What you're asking for is a contradiction in terms. There's no such thing as somebody who's well-adjusted and has self respect but also believes in gender ideology. A person needs a healthy relationship with reality before they themselves can be healthy, and believing that men can be women and women can be men is about as far from reality as it gets.
>>34787432It's not. I support trans rights and equality for everyone. What you're doing is projecting your negative qualities onto other people instead of going to therapy and working through them. Nobody is going to respect or want to date a bigot. I made an actual thread for actual advice.
>>34787459I gave you actual advice. You need to become sane yourself before anyone with sanity will give you the time of day. If you aren't willing to introspect and come to sensible beliefs, you're not going to attract somebody who's enjoying the fruits of their own introspection. The fact that you're reacting this emotionally and defensively is a sure sign that you need to listen to what I'm saying, for your own good.
>>34787415go to bars and church like most normies. in my area we also have food trucks with hangout spots in the center (usually fire pits around the table) that are nice to meet others at night. each bar tends to attract a crowd so i'd pick a nicer one than the corner barif you're a social retard join clubs/groups. cities have a zillion and people go there to socializeyou don't sound socially incapable so don't need to go there.good luck
>>34787481Gargle my ballsack pussy>>34787494Yeah it's been a minute since I've been out to a bar. I was on pretty good terms with my last bartender until they got rid of her too. Maybe I'll take my folks out to dinner or a movie and stop at some other places on the way. A club might be a good time. Thanks bro
>>34787374Trannies are desperate so they'll like anyone, this doesn't mean you're a tranny magnet or that you're unattractive.I'm a bpdemon magnet, I've attracted 3 lately, idk how you are as a person, but I'm a giver, I'm kind and I have issues with conflict and standing up for myself, though I've been working on that, which gave me friction within these relationships with crazy hoes that want to control you.Crazy women wants 2 things, someone who will treat them like shit and use them for sex, and someone who will give them the world and listen to all their problems, they can't deal with it themselves, so they look for someone who is emotionally stable and confident to carry their daddy issues.That's why they often cheat, that's why women cheat in general though.Anyway, I was a mix of both, kind and gentleman, but I didn't give much of a fuck about her, then she got me hooked, I was addicted, but any time I tried to stand up for myself she'd go crazy, if I didn't reply on time she'd lose her shit, so I could no longer be the cool guy, I had to be a simp and that made her lose attraction, lose lose situation.The thing is, crazy women are too much, too soon, they'll make you feel incredible right away, and they'll make big promises, but all they have to give are words and sex, then they'll run away.Those are your signs to run away.
>>34788440Crazy people don't gravitate towards sane individuals. They don't respond to emotions the same way so being stable isn't something that they latch onto.Someone who's attracting exclusively traumatized children has something they're seeking.>>34787415You're not in a city and getting 30 trannies? Where are you looking