I am aware that this is a very controversial subject however it is something me and my partner are actively looking into. While I despise reddit there seem to be very few websites with any major communities for ENM/polyamorous lifestyles and I feel drawn back towards reddit as a means of answering my questions. We both have friends who are familiar with the lifestyle and have made it work for them with relatively few hangups however most of their advice does not seem to exactly apply to our situation. Are there any good websites, blogs, forums etc which may be worthwhile to check out? One of our major issues is even finding someone around our age to engage in this style of relationship with. Our generation (Z) is so isolated its insane. I am looking for genuine advice, not criticism of me and my partners lifestyle. It is a shame that polyamory is falling out of style especially in our generation, and to make matters even more complicated advice that worked for millennials and older generations falls flat for our generation.
>>34797916I can be the bull. I'm a muscular 18 y.o man. Tell me if it suits you.
>>34797932Ah yes, the internet where enm/polyamory only means OP is a cuck. No. We are looking to exclusively add an additional female individual between 18-25 years old to our relationship. Ideally they would live within close enough physical proximity for us to date them for several months before they move in with us on a semi-permanent basis.
>>34797950Are you the wife or what?
>>34797916I'm Brazilian, but here we have what is called "liberal relationships". It's much more relaxed and is almost like wife/husband sharing. You can try searching that up, see if it applies to your context as well.
>>34797958No. Both of us are bisexual however me and my partner agreed that if we were to engage in polyamory that the individual would need to be a woman. We have considered having threesomes with guys however we both feel as if we'd be more comfortable starting out with a woman. Additionally my partner actively dislikes sexual penetration and is almost exclusively attracted to women. All but one of her previous relationships were with women. >>34797969Interesting. The issue with wife/husband sharing is that as I mentioned earlier is that my partner has very little sexual interest in men, so if we were to partner swap it would have to be with a lesbian couple, or a couple where the guy is ok with getting almost none of the action.
>>34798003Are you a man or a woman? Also how experienced are you and her? I'm curious now.
>>34798059FYI, this is not >>34797958 (me)
>>34798059Man. We both do not have a lot of experience, but we have had plenty of time to watch an learn. We're also in our early 20s, so we're not absurdly young for this kind of dynamic.
>>34798091Interesting. I'd expect you both to be real experienced. Why did you decide on having this type of relationship? And how come your wife/gf has so little attraction to men yet she's with you?
>>34798102>Why did you decide on having this type of relationship? And how come your wife/gf has so little attraction to men yet she's with you?Both of us are bisexual as I mentioned earlier and as such we know we wont be able to provide for 100% of the others sexual needs. I have also never really desired to have a monogamous relationship either. Why she is attracted to me is still a mystery. She normally isnt attracted or comfortable around men but she had a good feeling on our first date and it just sort of clicked.
>>34798125Be careful man. Don't end up in the cuck chair.
>>34798125Wow, I'm so glad for you. I've also never clicked with monogamy too much, but I always felt "polyamory" was too forced or not organic, I see it in reddit and its just ugly hogs cucking their passive male husbands. I feel like something like this needs to be much more fluid and natura.
>>34797916google "swinging for beginners," "polyamory for beginners" and the like to find books, forums and groups
>>34797932>18 y.o 'man'
>>34803627And who are you?
