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Never had a gf, just turned twenty five, had a breakdown and deleted like 1500+ out of 2k songs on my spotify. Anything related to love, relationships, a partner or even positivityslop.
Didn't even realize i was doing it to begin with. Im also seriously beginning to fucking hate women. Such vapid fucking whores. Not my fault turned out im only 175cm in a nordic country. according to these worthless whores, I deserve to be alone forever. If the world didnt need women i wished they'd all die. Wtf am i going to do bros?
Also why is retards like pic allowed to exist?
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>>34804319
Had to reupload the post because i broke someones arm in self defenge and therefor could barely reply as i was in custody. Free now albeitdoe
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>Wtf am i going to do bros?
There are only 2 kinds of women.
- Women that have a high interest in you
- Women that have a low interest in you

Contrary to what probably every single redpill, blackpill, looksmax, or whatever the fuck pipeline you're probably in right now - all women are not going to reject you because you are 5'7.

The women that would actually find you desirable, however, will absolutely be turned off completely by your behavior.

In order to be successful with women as a man, you have to actually genuinely like yourself and accept yourself as a person. Confidence really and genuinely is what chicks dig -
And you can only have confidence if you like you.
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>>34804336
Thats 5'9 almost 5'10 brother. Not 5'7
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>>34804336
Also totally bs. Because the first category doesnt exist for short men
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This seems more like a vent than request for advice. Sounds like you want to blame something out of your control (i.e. height) instead of taking accountability or trying to improve what is in your control.
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>>34804319
>175cm in a nordic country
My dad (early 50s Swedish man) is like 174 cm and started balding in his early 20s yet was very popular with women when he was young and got into a new relationship like half a year after my mom died. He's not a model either, just a manly dude. I don't think your height is the handicap you believe it to be.
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if you arent bothered by something no one could ever tell

every redpilled asshole finds a woman despite of their retarded looks and shitty personality, because they unintentionally prey on vulnerable mentally ill women

you should do the same, but since you are the vulnerable one in the relationship (acting like a crybaby faggot) it would be impossible for you to have women
you are obsessed with hating yourself im genuinely curious did your parents hate you? were you bullied by your male friends?

anyways you should start genuinely working on yourself stop acting like a woman even if you were tall
women will see you for the faggot you are and get the ick, care so little about what others say stop being easily provoked its not a desirable trait in men unless you like being a femboy and appealing to t.girls and "mommies" which are rare as fuck

you are always letting other women judge you
how about you judge them for a change, stop being so hard on yourself
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>>34804319
>had a breakdown and deleted like 1500+ out of 2k songs on my spotify. Anything related to love, relationships, a partner
That's the most highschool girl thing I've ever read
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>>34805568
>every redpilled asshole finds a woman despite of their retarded looks and shitty personality, because they unintentionally prey on vulnerable mentally ill women
It wouldn't be because there is method in their madness. No. It's because they are le preying on le womens! kek
Delusion
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>>34804319
Being short and also angry, self victimizing and resentful of Women will get you nowhere in life. You don't want be that petulant, pitiful adult toddler. The only Woman responsible for you being short in a Nordic country is your own Mother, taking it on other Women is pathetic and whiney. Wishing for half of the population to be dead because you happen to be on the short side is not something that a 25 year old should say unless severely disturbed. Grow up and get rid of the anger and the hatred, it's extremely unappealing. If you are short you can either be confident about it, or pretend to be confident about it. These are the only two options. That Emotional Midget energy is something people can feel omitting from you, and it's much worse than being short .
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>>34804319
>175cm
You mini-lanklets are the worst
>waaahhh waaahhh i'm not the tallest of the tallest, I'm just an average normal guy! why did God do this to me...
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>>34805702
>be short
>get displeased about something, anything
>"it's because he's short! he's insecure!"
>have confidence, or any positive trait
>"he's overcompensating for his height..."
>don't like people treating you like this and try to stick up for yourself
>"Oh look... he has Napoleon complex! he's so ANGRY! he's like lord Farquaad LOL. Now now little man, that attitude will get you no where in life"
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>>34804674
Pre-internet dating is irrelevant.
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>>34805881
My mom died in 2023 and he met his new fiancée the same year, that's not pre-internet.
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>>34804319
>has a psychotic episode on his fucking spotify account but blames his average height and women for not getting laid
For yours as well as everyone else's well-being, I implore you to seek psychiatric help.
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>>34805739
You've been online too long. No one IRL thinks like this.
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>>34805939
>You've been online too long. No one IRL thinks like this
Said the non-manlet
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>>34805939
Not a short guy personally but I have seen what he said or some variant thereof before.
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>>34804319
Just note not everybody is the same,
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>>34805701
what you said is the same thing i said
>men picking up women
>men preying on the vulnerabilities of women
both are answers to the same question, its just the matter of where you stand

you are genuinely a retard so i believe even more in wtv i said
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>>34806160
>dating women is being predatory
>also, you're a retard, not me
kek
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>>34805889
He was a reputation for being popular with women, so women likes him by default. Its pre-selection at work
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>>34805568
>>34805701
>>34806160
>>34806169

>redpilled men's theories are wrong about women
>yet even they get women
>but not because their theories are correct
>actually, it's because they are ebil predatory asshole preying on women by dating them!
>how dare they find someone! they are not allowed to because they are not attractive enough for me
>women are adults when I want them to be, but not when I don't want them to be
>i'm not a retard btw, you are! you agree with me and you don't even know it...

Foid mental Olympics is always impressive
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>>34804674
My 5'2" Dad is an extreme misogynist, psycho Man from North Africa. A sad and pathetic little twat who took advantage of my 5'3" Mom when she was young and vulnerable . Needless to say he abused her, me and my sister in an attempt to make himself bigger because he hated Women so much and was only 3 apples tall. My brother got spread because he was a Male and taller than him. Not only did I inherit my Dad's inferior genes instead of my Mom's I am now severely traumatized and also have to live with the fact that I am an incel baby.
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>>34806169
>>34806191
i cant understand wtf are you on about
manipulation, coercion and all that beautiful dandy stuff exists irl, its not just in anime
for example someone w power preying on an employee, even if both are adults
manipulative tactics aint only tailored for men, you retards argue the same bs when old women shame guys for picking younger girls

everyone is scummy to some extent, anyone who isnt being direct and hiding their real intent and has an ulterior motive is just manipulative that it wether u liked it or not cunt
otherwise i would argue that scamming your grandparents is fair game, since they are old too?
do you understand the notion you faggot?

>>redpilled men's theories are wrong about women
never implied they were right or wrong cause that was not the point
are you from a 3rd world country?
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>>34806253
lmao, at least youre funny
what country are u from
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>>34806269
Now you're rambling about a bunch of unrelated bullshit and examples that don't apply
You're not fit to even formulate a coherent thought in your head
You called redpilled men "assholes" and predators. A "redpilled" man in the "manospheare" is someone who looks at women realistically even if cynical and adapts in order to find a partner and select a better partner to protect themselves from malicious women. And you smear them all as having "retarded looks, shitty personality" and being "unintenrional predators" for trying to find a woman. You assert that those women that go with them are merely vulnerable and mentally ill at an attempt to delegitimise their success with women. Which is very transparent and shows your own psychology

You are a bully who piles onto men with an unfortunate appearance when they get success in anything in life. And you are a feminist retard who likes to absolve responsibility from women when they make choices you don't approve of, shifting the blame on the percieved wrong all on men when convenient. You're not fooling anyone. For all the accusations of mental illnesses and shitty personalities you throw at people, you are actually the prime example of yourself. A jealous little femgoblin that can't stand other people being happy
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>>34806269
>>34806307
A redpilled man is now being conflated with the typical female fantasy of a powertripping tyrant in a high position at work manipulating women. You're absolutely deluded
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>>34806307
>>34806314
you both sound retarded
thats why i asked if you are both from 3rd world countries where being honest isnt a thing

>even if cynical and adapts in order to ....
every living being under the 70iq points cheered for you, you are just cheating the system because something works
decent or not, you dont care

dont talk to me again retard
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>>34806353
Kek
Retard calls others retards after getting BTFO'd and called out. That's you're only retort
>dating women and judging them and choosing them carefully is cheating! don't talk to me again!
It's ok, sweaty, I know thinking is hard for you. But you should just leave it to men
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The truth is you never having a girlfriend by 25 is more to do with your autism, lack of self-awareness, and non-existent social skills.
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After the drone wars only we will survive because we make for smaller targets.
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>>34806353
You were raped btw.
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>>34804319
>Such vapid fucking whores.
And now we know why you've never had a GF.
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>>34804319
Unpleasant as it is, that femoid is right, OP. We don't live in a society anymore, we are all just atomized productive units.

Everybody is out for themselves. Just play the best game you can with your hand, complaining is a futile exercise.
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>>34804336
tpbp
Also get a zest for life anon, be open to new experiences. It just has to be this way
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>>34804319
All the attractive women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.

tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
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What you need to do is to save up enough money over the next few years so that you can quit your job and go to university again - but this time you will focus on socializing, speaking to women, going to parties and dating in general

Almost entire world is below 175cm and they all date, fuck, have fun
What you need is university setting that will allow you to talk to women regularly
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>>34804319
Did u know that Krillin had never had a gf before either when he was 25
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Just got out of police talk again, suprised its still up lots of people larping as me though and fighting
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>>34805710
Average for muttmerica, fairly short for many germanic countries, especially scandinavia
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>>34804319
Consider the fact that the greatest woman to have ever lived was a virgin, kings and emperors payed homage to her and her unequivocal virtue. You have offered nothing but lust, you don't care about person you'd show love, just that you're alone.
Mater Dei, ora pro nobis peccatoribus.
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>>34813417
I'm European. It's average
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>>34804319
Two options start paying for sex or go for ugly girls.
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>>34804319
Work, save money, and get height surgery in Turkey. It should cost you somewhere between the price of a new car and a house. But if you’re desperate, then that’s it or take the L and move on.
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>>34813422
No, thats just christcuckery nonsense that only genuin cucks believe
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>>34813430
Not, in netherlands, not in norway, not in denmark, not in sweden or iceland. Maybe germany its average
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>>34814281
Youre lije 8cm below the Durch average, a hardly noticeable difference. More inpirtantly, still taller than nearly all women even there. You fell for a psyop, this is not the reason.
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>be late 20s
>there are dudes with wives, kids and established careers at my age
>meanwhile i just graduated college, have been unemployed since then, and am a khv that’s never been on a date, and doesn’t really have any hobbies outside of internet and video games
how the fuck do i come back from this, unironically. nigga i’m fixing to give up.
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>>34806253
relevance?
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>>34804319
have you tried not being a complete faggot?
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>>34814596
Nigger im barely above most women. And women absolutely notice 8cm. Its often much more when its only young men btw
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what a gay thread kys faggot manlets
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>>34815293
>Nigger im barely above most women.
barely above is plenty enough
>And women absolutely notice 8cm
Source: Your ass.
Heigh obsession is almost always a projection. This might somewhat reduce your options in places that heavily emphasize looks like clubs in comparison to a 2m tall guy. But being a virgin and never having a gf? Bitch, please. You've got other problems you are avoiding with his blubbering about height.
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>>34815378
I would say 60 to 70% of guys my age are atleast half a head taller. I walk past them everyday and i might be 176.5 and not 175cm. Women notice aplenty. And barely taller does unfortunately not cut it
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>>34804319
im not sure why you seem to care what women think? "Women are vapid whore" ok and? Women are for fucking dude. The fact you care about your being short or whatever is whats holding you back. You do indeed sound like a dweeb though.
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>>34816361
>And barely taller does unfortunately not cut it

To how many women have you talked? How many have you asked out? How many women have you tried to kiss?
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>>34804319
I used to come to this board when I was sad and alone when I was 24. I am now 34 and did not find a girlfriend.

I thought it would only be a matter of time since I was young and things tend to work out for reasonably attractive people but I spent 10 years without one.

Don't look for a girlfriend or worry about it. Some people just do not find love and it's okay if you are one of those people.

I will say that if you want one just put yourself in a position where you can talk to people.

I have an orgasm literally every other day and have never had to put up with the expectations of a relationship even once.
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>>34816376
Problem is, women dont let me get to that stage or have any interest because im short. Most bluepill height studies take all mens height into account not people 30 and under only which are vastly taller
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>>34816376
I asked out 3 and everyone rejected me. Im average looking, not ugly and from the same ethnicity as my country. Women wont even look at me lol.
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>>34804319
Hey anon, I'm also 25 and only just went on my first date with a girl less than a year ago. I had my first kiss (which I hilariously blundered, but she didn't care) just a few months ago. That turned into my first relationship of any kind, which I sadly broke off due to stupid panic
Anyway my point is that I had a similar feeling of hopelessness and anger before. Dating is still really rough now but I don't see it as fundamentally inaccessible to me anymore
The only advice I can give is that if/when you do find someone, make sure not to bring the self loathing or frustration into that relationship, it'll make you make stupid decisions
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>calls women whores
>wonders why they dont like him

LMFAOOOOO they can smell your fear bro
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>>34817371
well ur probably american anon, lower height requirement. but im glad it happened to u and sorry it ended badly. wome n here cant respect any man not 180/185ish tall
>>34817405
>u observed our behaviour thats why ur single
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I'm honestly at the point where apart of me wants to become a sleaze to make up for lost time and for the younger version of me. I don't care if someone besides me gets hurt. I'm just mad at myself for missing out. It's irrational, I know.



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