A few weeks ago I met with a friend and his fiance, who I'm also friends with. There were many other people present at this party and when it got late and we went to leave, my friend and his fiance got into a very heated argument that got a little physical. I have no idea what it was about but it seemed like they were both drunk. Later that night, she handed me a note, basically saying that she would want a relationship with me.The next day, it was as if nothing had happened.Im in a terrible spot here. If this was just a slip up by her because she was drunk and angry, I would ruin our friendship and their relationship over something that wasnt so serious. On the other hand, I feel like a terrible friend for not telling him. What do you guys think?
>>34806204Do nothing. ANYTHING you do will only make you enemies
>>34806212I feel like even if I just keep quiet it could blow up into my face at some point if it ever comes out because obvioulsy he would demand me to tell him
>>34806204You could pretend that you were drunk too and forgot if it ever comes up again.
>>34806204Text your friends finance something like >Do you remember that note you handed me at the party? Were you being serious? Don't lead her on or feign interest or anything, just keep your question very neutral. If she answers yes, screenshot it, then meet your friend in person to explain it and give him the note and the text as evidence. If she answers no, then drop it and pretend it never happenedIt's shitty, but the situation is so delicate that your only real course of action is to get her to double down on the proposition while sober, because anything she says or does while wasted could be excused by being drunk and angry. (Which isn't an excuse IMO, but she'll try and make it one anyway). Either way anon, this situation is so toxic that it might be the end of your friendship no matter what you do, even if you do nothing...just be prepared for that.
>>34806204It's not up to you to decide if it's a serious issue for them or not, but it is your responsibility as a friend, if that's what you are, to tell him the truth and let him decide for himself what to do about it. Do unto others anon; if you'd want to know, then of course you should tell him. That's your job and also as far as your responsibility goes, after that it's between them, but right now it's between you and her, and that's a shitty secret to keep from anyone, much less a friend.
>>34806204Bit of a weird one. I had something kinda similar happen to me. She was pretending to be two people online. So me and another friend got her to slip up and the other guy somehow managed to get her strip on cam. I showed my friend the evidence of her faking being two people and stripping. He thanked me but nothing came of it.When he eventually dumped her. He told me he found out early in the relationship she admitted to his family she cheated but they all kept quiet. He said I was the only one who told him the truth about her and thanked me.Your friend could go both ways, it could explode in your face if you do tell or if you don't. I'm autistic as fuck and have a strong sense of right and wrong. I'd hand him the note and tell him. She may of done it to hurt him after the fight but at the same time she maybe prone to cheating for revenge so it's something I personally would want to know. Just be prepared for it to go either way.
