I am 26 and currently working at a grocery store but was a NEET before that for 6 years. I plan on going to college next year after I have saved up some money. I have zero friends, zero family and never had a girlfriend, never even been on a date.I live in a city with 4 universities, so most girls in their 20s are students. Would a college girl even date a guy like me?Even if I go to college next year it will take years until I graduate and get a good career. Girls will already be married and have kids at that age or at least expect it from their partner.I feel really hopeless. I know I fucked up by being a NEET but I am refusing to give up on myself. I managed to get a job, I started gym, bouldering and running and even took up playing piano (even taking lessons).I want to know. How can a loser like me have a dating life?
You, like tons of other guys, think girls care the most about looks, status, and money. Looks, status, and money are not the primary triggers of desire for a woman. Think about it. Broke dudes absolutely have girls. Can you approach a girl, strike up a conversation with her, and ask for her number afterwards without being heavily invested rather she says yes or no?The above is the question that decides rather you can get a date or not.
>>34813539>The above is the question that decides rather you can get a date or not.Doesn't your job and looks determine if she is even receptive to your flirting? Like when a girl asks me what I do and I tell her that I work at a grocery store, doesn't this change her mind from "I'll give him a chance" to "No ew"?I can't say anything as I have no experience but I have made small talk with a few cute girls at the store I work at and all of them studied like medicine or accounting. No way a girl like this would say yes to a date let alone want to become my long-term gf.
>>34813572>Doesn't your job and looks determine if she is even receptive to your flirting?You're going to college. You work part time at a store but you're looking to do something better with your life. You have to understand that women feed off of your energy. If you think you're shit, that's going to show up in your interaction and congruence - she now thinks you're shit. >No way a girl like this would say yes to a date let alone want to become my long-term gf.As long as you think of yourself as being this way, this will be what she thinks of you. >"Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.” - Henry Ford
>>34813524I'm a 26 yr old NEET and I recently fucked a milf in my car that I met off of Fetlife. Just be sexy
Don’t. Heartbreak will murder you. Don’t do it.
>>34813524If you are a loner, loser or an introvert then read below, otherwise you'll be fine just need to talk to people. Will give your tip that works in social circles like university but you have to be online and in group chat with the other students. You start by asking out an ugly girl. Post her all over your social media so everyone knows you finally have a girlfriend. Then you ask out a girl who is less ugly, and if she says yes, you dump the first girl and move up the level until you continue with a less ugly girl. Post her all over the place too. Keep switching up, one ugly girl at a time, until you finally secure a hot girl. Once you have the attractive girlfriend, the game changes completely doors start opening and everything gets a lot easier from there.
>>34813868>that I met off of Fetlifewtf how, this shit is a ghost town and the few who are active are completely fucked in the head
>>34814018Dude is obviously lying>fucked a milf in my car
>>34813524>at 26Yes.Still in the window nobody expects you to be making money or being a grown up, but you have two to four years left max.For now, all you need is to be charismatic and have at least 2-3 semi normal friends so you don't seem like a reject.But in a few years, you will be undatable if you don't have a grown up job and can't afford to go do stuff. So enjoy dating, but focus on getting your shit together simultaneously.
>>34813524Yes. You can get women to meet you Stop hyperventilating. Your actual question is>Can I get laidAnd that I don't fucking know. Maybe your dick doesn't work or you apparently have performance anxiety. I just date to date personally. Just keep on keeping on and simply by virtue of the statistics you will go on a date. Just don't be too desperate or too picky.
>>34813524Yes. I've made the mistake of dating losers, and so have many others. As long as you're not a piece of shit as a person, you should be fine.
>>34813524Check out >>34816115. Absolutely anything is possible
>>34813524Women go ballistic in groups if they suspect loser status in a guy. Not in school or working during the day on a weekday? wHy IsN't He WoRkInG?!1Money, looks, status are a requirement. Focus on that. Set a goal to be established in a career that actually has higher earning potential with a hot bod by early 30s and you can easily pick up early 20 somethings.
If you're cool with going after girls who are as bad or worse than you, it can be done. There's some cute homeless baddies out there.
