>>34815779
She wants money but she’s cutting the “sugar” out of daddy because that’s falling out of style and even women know in the back of their minds what they’re doing is fucked up.
So in other words, start paying her and get the “girlfriend experience” or report her and move the fuck on. Somebody’s going to show up and say it’s a fetish thing and while that’s possible, it’s pretty unlikely.

>>34815779
>What the fuck is a daddy?
If you don't know, it's not something you'd be interested in.

>>34815840
>She wants money but she’s cutting the “sugar” out of daddy
Bullshit.
>Somebody’s going to show up and say it’s a fetish thing and while that’s possible, it’s pretty unlikely.
That's closer to the mark, but still not quite right. She wants a dom, but one who takes a paternal role in her life: someone who (for example) makes rules for her and enforces them, but for her benefit rather than for his own.

>>34815779
how old is she

>>34815965
>someone who (for example) makes rules for her and enforces them, but for her benefit rather than for his own.
What kind of a faggot ass cuck of a dude agrees to this shit?

idk what it means.
maybe she wants a handsome more muscular type of guy that manhandles her and spanks her like her absent dad wouldve
or sth idk
>t.virgin

>>34819117
maybe I dunno

>>34815779
Like what the fuck... is a daddy?

>>34816024
>Lovingly but firmly dominating a woman not just sexually, but in all manners of life
>This is somehow related to cuckoldry
Some of you guys are beyond help.

>>34822274
What part of
>FOR HER BENEFIT RATHER THAN FOR HIS OWN
do you not understand retard?

>>34822315
NTA, but I think it may be you who doesn't understand. Let me give me you an example. A woman who wants a daddy tends to have difficulty organising her life. For example, she may have a tendency to stay up late gaming (or partying) when she needs sleep. A responsible daddy sets rules for when she is supposed to be in bed, and enforces them. Deep down she knows she needs this kind of discipline, and is grateful. His choice of bedtimes are what he knows will actually be good for her.

More generally he will also probably be someone she turns to for advice; and also someone who is more knowledgeable than her (at least in certain areas) and who can introduce her to things she isn't aware of, like, say, new cuisines, or classic movies she's never heard of, or new places to visit. He is probably also someone she looks up to generally, and who will shape her character and opinions into something (or someone) better than she was before she met him.

>>34822481
I fail to see how ANY of that is better than being her boyfriend.

>>34822509
>I fail to see how ANY of that is better than being her boyfriend.
Well, of course you don't understand why it's better, because you're not a daddy. If you were, you'd get it; but you're not, so you never will. Don't worry about it. There are a great many things in life you will never be able to understand the appeal of; that just means they're not for you.

>>34822517
>Well, of course you don't understand why it's better, because you're not a daddy.
You haven't demonstrated anything that makes being a daddy better than being her boyfriend. Nobody has a romantic relationship with their father.
She doesn't love you. She doesn't view you as her equal. She doesn't respect you, despite the deceptive daddy dominance theme. You're an entertainer. A clown.
You're a glorified replacement grandfather figure that's there to fulfill some mental disorder that isn't rooted in love or compassion but narcissism and exploitation.
You're a kitchen appliance to be used and disposed of when she no longer has a need for your presence. You're an old dildo with a grey beard not a human being.

>There are a great many things in life you will never be able to understand the appeal of
What like putting your tiny dick in a cage? Yeah I'm so glad I don't do dumb shit like that. You can keep that faggot shit to yourself.

>>34822978
>You haven't demonstrated anything that makes being a daddy better than being her boyfriend.
I have, you just weren't paying attention.

Everything you go on to say makes it clear that you haven't understood a single word I've said, and if you don't have the capacity to understand it, there's no point in continuing.

>>34823049
You have no argument because you know I'm right. This isn't a relationship, it's a transaction, and you are the product.

>>34815779
She has a daddy dom/little girl kink. She wants you to be someone she can depend on and submit to completely.

>>34823132
>She wants you to be someone she can depend on and submit to completely
How is that different from a regular relationship? Give me an honest answer.

>>34823138
I’ve never had a relationship where the woman submitting to me (outside of the bedroom) was what either of us wanted; they were equal partnerships in that regard.
The DDLG thing also entails a bit of roleplaying, obviously.

I don’t get the impression you have much dating experience or understand women very well.

>>34823146
>I’ve never had a relationship where the woman submitting to me (outside of the bedroom) was what either of us wanted
Yes, that's called incompatibility. Meaning, you suck at picking the right woman and thus have a meaningful connection with someone outside of a one night stand after getting drunk at a bar.

>I don’t get the impression you have much dating experience or understand women very well.
That's funny. I get the very same impression from you.

>>34823178
I’ve spent nine years of my life so far on three relationships and didn’t have to use my smartphone to get any of them.

Keep thumping your chest like a retard on 4chan and punching your credit card into a dating app; seems like it’s working out great for you.

>>34823189
Oh wow, let me clap for you. I've spent the last 20 years of my life being happily married to the same woman I met in high school. And we're still married. It's working out just fine, thank you.

>>34823219
lol

>>34823227
>I laugh because I'm in pain
I know

>>34822517
nta
do you have personal experience with this dynamic?

>>34825210
>do you have personal experience with this dynamic?
Yes.

Which platform? I want to be a daddy to a younger girl.

>>34822481
That might not be cuckolding but that shit is GAY af nigga how fucked are these women that they can’t take basic care of themselves

>>34825327
>That might not be cuckolding but that shit is GAY af nigga how fucked are these women that they can’t take basic care of themselves
That's overstating it significantly. It can be like that, but more often it's more like a mentor/protégé pairing, or perhaps a sort of sempai/kōhai relationship. What involvements like that have in common is that, emotionally speaking, it is not only a romantic relationship, but that there is also a *subtle* flavour of father/daughter to it. People who don't have experience of it tend to assume that it must be about having an incest role-play fetish, or that there has to be an age-play element: both of those are *entirely* wrong, it's very much a relationship between adults. But nonetheless one partner tends to be guiding/teaching/caring while the other tends to be listening/growing/improving/blossoming.

>>34825349
>having an incest role-play fetish, or that there has to be an age-play element: both of those are *entirely* wrong
oh fuck off with your moralfagging

>>34825435
My apologies, I wasn't saying anything about morality, I simply meant the *belief* that a relationship like that must involve age-play or incest role-play is factually incorrect.

>>34825325
Any of them. Pick one.

>>34822481
Oblivious retard. It's high-class prostitution. He pays to fuck her and she gets to travel, and fuck other guys, and "live an experience" yassss. They are not sitting around in their free time to watch Citizen Kane you absolute fucking buffoon lmfao. She is not inhereting anything intellectual or mental from a sugar daddy. She is just being spoiled by him. Why the fuck are you so eager to credit male exploitation from a woman as a "learning experience" for her you utter cuck bitch

>>34827011
>They are not sitting around in their free time to watch Citizen Kane you absolute fucking buffoon lmfao.
Well, I am a daddy, and that's exactly what we do, so, you know....

>>34827404
damn your marriage is boring and stale

>>34815779
I wasn't into her till she showed me the right sign. Kek.

>>34827501
>damn your marriage is boring and stale
I'm not married. I have a partner and also a girlfriend. The two of them know about each other and are happy with the situation. It's my gf to whom I'm a daddy. There's obviously a lot of sex involved with both of them (separately) as well. So no, I wouldn't say it's boring or stale; I'm very happy with both of them, and them with me, and we're all very much in love.

>>34825321
what are your ages if you don't mind me asking?

>>34827516
>I have a partner and also a girlfriend.
what's the difference?

>>34827748
>biological girls
kek

>>34827516
>that recoil
oof

>>34827761
biological girls with fake tits and asses and personalities.

>>34815779
Shes for the streets.
You can make good money by pimping her out

>>34827669
>what are your ages if you don't mind me asking?
I'm an oldfag - mid 50s. My partner is late 40s, girlfriend late 20s.

>>34827674
>what's the difference?
My partner and I live together, and we've been together rather longer, too.

>>34827945
what a snide comment you must be a tranny

It means she's a causal prostitute. This is far more common then professional prostitution.

Women do it simply to cheat on their spouses, to ensure their sex partners don't persue relationships with them, for easy money and attention. It really ticks all the boxes.

>>34829897
Lmao i read like ten posts itt at random and there's sure as shit a tranny here.

>>34815779
Mental & Physical superiority. Domineering.

>>34815779
Someone who makes her feel like a kid and enables her to continue acting like a kid

>>34815779
Ask

>>34822509
You are boyfriend with paternal authority on top of it.

>>34815840
>report her
lol you think that will do anything? Dating apps don't give a fuck about whores. Anything that keeps you swiping is fine in their books.

>>34815779
stay away.

unless you want financial liability, emotional turmoil, codependency, distraction from anything productive in life, and the responsibility of raising an adult child

>>34832590
I don't understand how people have time for this crap anyways

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>see thread
>op asks what a daddy is
>gets answers from someone who fills the role of a daddy
>incels immediately seethe
Saw it coming from a mile away and it was still funny. Never change, you whiny faggots.

>>34833157
>financial liability, emotional turmoil, codependency, distraction from anything productive in life, and the responsibility of raising an adult child
So, same as a regular woman, but at least she is a bit submissive?

>>34833251
not sure. I'm in a happy relationship w none of these problems

>>34833324
That mean *she* is the daddy.

>>34833326
My gf is mature, financially independent, and submissive. How does that translate to daddy.

>>34833336
Most people these days have no clue what a healthy relationship looks like.
So they resort to seeking out dysfunctional ones that reflect their inner selves.

Reminder that women got the term "daddy" in the slang sense from the gays.

>>34833744
What?

>>34833744
True the women also borrowed words like twink as well. Women are turning men off by speaking like faggots

>>34815779
>What the fuck is a daddy?
Women who are kind of retarded use the word "daddy" to describe "husband". They are basically saying "I want a strong minded and decisive man to lead in the relationship and doesn't want me to be dominant either emotionally or sexually".
And some men hate this because the idea of being more capable than a woman repulses them yet at the same time they claim to despise feminism and forced equality between sexes

..but when a woman willingly wants the man to be the patriarch leader all of a sudden those same trad larping faggots complain about it.

>>34833816
Wait until incels figure out the vast majority of women want this as well.

>Older: High openness. Large U.S. matchmaking data showed ~95% of women open to older partners. Average stated preference is usually a few years older. Actual marriages skew male-older.
Financially solid / competent / status: Consistently important to a majority. Roughly 50–80% of women rate financial security, steady income, or resource potential as important or very important (higher than men rate the same traits). Competence and ambition track with this.
>Protective: Strong preference. Studies find protectiveness boosts attractiveness for women evaluating male partners, often more than raw strength alone. Unwillingness to protect is a bigger turn-off for women rating men than the reverse.
>Decisive / takes the lead: Commonly valued in relationship contexts. Many women report preferring men who initiate, make plans, and handle direction rather than constant equal negotiation. This shows up in both self-reports and behavioral patterns around dating initiation.

>>34833816
>And some men hate this because the idea of being more capable than a woman repulses them
I don't hate it at all. I welcome it. I just find it stupid that new words have to be invented for something that doesn't need a new word.
Much like how your boss or manager is now called a "coach" and an employee is now called a "team member". It's fucking retarded.

>>34823138
>>34823117
not them, but honestly dude you just sound retarded. I hope for your sake you are merely pretending.

>>34823237
I hink he's laughing at you because that old pussy must be dry as FUCK.

>>34833873
I hear a lot of yapping and mouth flapping from you but no real arguments to back up your shit.

>>34822978
>She doesn't love you. She doesn't view you as her equal. She doesn't respect you
Nta but most women and the bulk of men who haven't had their brain fried by generational feminism + porn are repulsed at that notion. Women do not identify as, or desire, emotional and relational equality with the man she is fucking/dating/romancing/marrying. Point blank.
When you tell a woman that you as a man identify yourself as her emotional and relational equal she is turned off. Because she wanted a man she did not want another metaphorical vagina. Women won't bluntly say this but that's what every metric of relationship studies have shown time and time again across cultures and generations. You should ask yourself why (you) as a man want to identify as equal to a woman emotionally. The woman wants the man to identify as greater, so that she can fulfill her role as the submissive supportive sex and the man takes the reign as the assertive protective sex. When you deviate from that you will encounter relationship failure after failure until it gets through your skull

>>34833937
I've been married for 20 years. Me and my wife consider ourselves as equals. As partners. I'm no better than her and she's no better than me. And we are as happy as pigs in mud.
So I dunno where the fuck you get this notion that this is a failure. Failure is not choosing someone who is compatible with you. Which seems to be something a lot of people are not very good at.

>>34833989
>I'm no better than her and she's no better than me. And we are as happy as pigs in mud.
This isn't about who is better, it's not a power dynamic I am trying to illustrate, most of not all functional couples and marriages are void of power dynamics, I am not suggesting macho shit, or lording it over the female as a dominant aggressor, I am speaking about the fact that men have emotional strengths that women do not possess, and likewise women have emotional strengths that we do not possess. We are not equal, but we are not "better" or "worse" either. What the majority of women seek in a man is decisiveness, leadership understood as protective stewardship, competence, ambition and drive. When a young man is lacking in these departments the woman will struggle to feel secure in the future building and she bails, that's the crux of why a majority of breakups initiated by women tend to happen, she lost faith in the young man's abilities and she said bye bye.

>>34833812
>Women are turning men off by speaking like faggots
Good. Men need to be turned off.

>>34834135
What?

>>34835173
Maybe that way they'll leave us in peace for the first time in... well, ever.

>>34835530
Eve was created AFTER Adam you stupid fuck

>>34815779
maybe you should ask the girl wtf she means by a "daddy" and not /adv/ you fucking sperg.

>>34815779
Honestly, every bitch I've encountered on the internet that wanted a daddy was a porn brained retard that was only interested in getting off and had no real interest in any meaningful connection irl.

>>34836654
I've tried asking. They don't give me an answer. They just skip. So yeah, I'm gonna ask /adv/ cause they have experience with these things, unlike you, you dipshit.

>>34835551
>Eve was created AFTER Adam you stupid fuck
Exactly. Eve was being pestered for sex from the very first second she was alive.

>>34815779
Option 1: sugar daddy, she wants you to finance her
Option 2: daddy, as in "harder daddy", she likes older men who can dominate her
Option 3: daddy, she just likes older guys but is otherwise like any other girl

>>34836722
Who's your daddy?

>>34836890
I am your daddy

>>34815779
Rich guy to buy her shit in exchange for dates/sex.
Basically prostitution, but they sort of date long term, so not really illegal.

>>34822517
>>34822481
>>34822481
I'm not that guy, but how do I become a daddy? I love these sluts who are honest and direct about what they want, there's no games with them.

>>34833937
>>34834026
Wanting the woman to see you as equal is almost feminist honestly.

This is a very good post, to truly love women you almost have to see them as a little bit below you, ironically.

>>34843453
>I love these sluts who are honest and direct about what they want, there's no games with them.
Anyone who refers to women as "sluts" will never be daddy material.

>>34843470
I don't mean in a derogatory way. I mean in a complimentary way. I'd never call a woman like this a slut in a bad way.

>>34843453
>Wanting the woman to see you as equal is almost feminist honestly.
It's not feminist. It's just basic human psychology. It's teamwork. Synergy. Cohesion. Interdependency.
If you start out a relationship feeling superior to your partner, you're almost guaranteed conflict by design.

>>34843508
I don't mean superior as in ego. I mean superior and in, you do things better than her, you can achieve other things she can't etc. You can't put them on a pedestal.

>>34840402
Spank me daddy

>>34845591
I'll be a good girl for you daddy

>>34843493
>I don't mean in a derogatory way.
There's no other way to mean it. A good daddy is a role model, and good role models don't teach women to hate themselves by using misogynistic language. You're in the role of a father: how many good, actual fathers would casually describe their own daughter as a "slut"?

>>34815779
one of two things
sugar daddy- pay for everything princess treatment etc
DDLG- a kink larping relationship where she pretends to be a child and you are her dad not necessarily sexual

>>34851707
And this nigger >>34822481 thinks this is somehow a good thing.

>>34851766
What a nigger.

>>34822315
Were you born stupid or just repeatedly dropped on the floor as a child?