19 yr old F dating a 22 yr old M, it's been like 4 months. At first he was obsessed and things were going fast, saying ily after like 2 weeks i think and about 2 months ago he started bringing up future marriage then about 1 month ago started looking at rings w/ me. We used to call for hours every day and sleep call and he would text fast, but like the last 4 weeks he has been changing, especially the last 2-3, texting less, taking hours alone, calling less. He hasn't said ily in days and takes sometimes 5-7 hrs to reply. a lot of our dating is online but we have met in person multiple times, I spent all weekend w/ him just 2 weeks ago, few days after that visited him for 30 mins cuz I happened to be nearby, during that 30 mins he was nice, kissed me and promised to call me that night but when I tried to call him that night he changed his mind, said he only wanted to be w/ his friends and got mad at me for being a lil sad, since then he's been a bit diff than usual. He yesterday texted a lil at 10 AM and I sent him like 8 various texts throughout the day about diff topics through 10 to 8 PM that he did not respond to before he finally responded at 8 and started to talk to me for about 30 minutes but not in response to my texts I sent before, whole new topic, then his replies started to get a lil slow and his discord went inactive.. and then he all of a sudden likes reels I sent him on insta at 2 AM and then gone again. Idk what to do, he's a NEET who smokes weed, watches stuff and plays games all day most the time with no school or job, literally saw his status as gaming on and off yesterday so he was prob free. I'm the financial person if it matters btw, I have spent $400+ on him, he has spent like $40-$80 our whole relationship, I'm the one who buys him meals and gifts, his weed, his cigs, his alcohol, and more. idk what to do, I let him fuck me when he wants to, I'm nice, I spend money on him, and idk why he's doing this. His discord is active rn, it's 10 AM.
>>34816115....what do you see in this person other than sexual attraction?
Give me some pussy bitch
>>34816115If he doesn't respond, you don't say anything. Don't be a beggar for his attention.
>>34816155bro did you even read my fucking post in full???? says near the end I do
Cheat on him, duh.
>>34816127>ehe used to be like really nice...
>>34816115>how do i get my bf to text me more and care about me more? can't, darlin. if he wanted to, he would.
>>34816115His attention is either with someone else or he feels like he "won" you and just uses you to fulfill an immediate impulse. He doesn't respect or care and if you pull away he's going to panic because he's going to lose something he expects (money and sex), and will suddenly do the dance of "ill change!" to try and maintain what he has. This is all to say that you need to either consider if this sort of dynamic is harmful to you or not, if it is then break up with him. If it's not then set some boundaries, and if he can't compromise then its a sign you should also break up with him.
See how annoying and unfunny women are? Look at this cringe fucking sticker. You aren't quirky, you aren't funny, you aren't interesting.I understand why your boyfriend is leaving you on for delivered for so long. If I was him I would have killed myself a long time ago.Why do women always feel the need to invade male spaces and make them unfunny? Kill yourself fagfoid. I hope he cheats on you and then breaks up with you
>>34816115your bf is low effort. dump him or make an ultimatum and be ready to move onthats just based on skimming your paragraph. did you give him your enter key too?
You're 19. If he sucks hit the bricks. Men are naturally submissive and if he's not bending to your will, itself because he has zero feelings for you at all.If you wanna learn to command respect from moids you gotta read the sacred texts. Manifestelle and SheraSeven on youtube. Trust.
>>34817195listening to this retard is how you end up miserable with no children
>>34817195this is very correct. you need to be on some andrea tate shit or you're going to die alone because your chud husband left you.
>>34816115>saying ily after like 2 weeks>talking about marriage despite only having "met multiple times" in 4 months of knowing each other>he's a NEET who smokes weed, watches stuff and plays games all day most the time with no school or job>doesn't even talk to youI'm sorry to say this, and I really don't mean this in a mean way, but frankly, you're very retarded and really aren't sentient enough to be making adult decisions that affect your future yet. He's retarded too, but it seems like he's just using you. Strapping yourself to a complete loser like this, especially at 19, is a huge mistake. Almost every single thing you said is so utterly backwards that I genuinely don't even know where to begin. But if you take any advice I have to give, it's this: Break up with the loser and never talk to him again. Start practicing some self-respect. Don't allow yourself to be used as a sex toy and a sugar momma for someone who is a waste of space like him. If all it took to for you to spend a bunch of money on him and let him fuck you was being enthusiastically infatuated with you for a few weeks, then of course he doesn't respect you. You may hate everything I'm saying, but this situation isn't going to improve. Get out of this fucking hellscape nightmare before you waste your life away with him, and possibly get pregnant with a man who won't likely stick around.
>>34817548this
Do you give enough blowjobs? Sometimes that's the reason.
