how to speak louder and more confident
>>34817958Talk to your doc about meds.
>>34817958I actively try to follow these two steps:1. Do not think about you will say when your turn comes. You have to listen and be present to feel aware enough to confidently speak. And this way you also don't psych yourself out with anticipation 2. Pause to think before saying anything once your turn does come. You have more time than you thinkYou can reduce step 2 for simple things over time once you're familiar with them, but it works to practice on basically any question someone might ask you. Just try to make it cleae that you heard the question so they don't think you're ignoring them while you pause
idk but military officers and leo seem to know how to use their voice, maybe look into what they do
>>34817958Look into this goofy chink https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oIiv_335yushis personality can be a bit annoying but he has some great advice about confidence and public speaking
>>34817958Remember that your lack of confidence is a form of disrespect to yourself and especially to others if they cannot hear you. Most men after mid forties have degraded hearing so, sound off like you have a pair.
>>34818081the part where he says your natural voice is just made from habits is pretty interesting and sounds true
