Do you just endure thousands of rejections, being cheated on, dead bedroom, getting divorced, getting laughed at and humiliated by your girl's friends who she told about you until you might fight this *one* unicorn that has a tiny pussy and actually enjoys sex with you? Is that the hope we have?I feel so fucking hopeless. My dick is like 5 inches long and only has 4 inches girth. I have to buy extra small condoms which is horrible in itself. What hope do I have that I find a girl who actually likes my dick?And even then there is always the potential risk that her previous partners were bigger/thicker (highly likely) and sex for her feels lacking in comparison. I dread being together with a girl who knows she settles for sex that isn't as pleasurable. I dread that she tells me her ex could make her orgasm just from fucking but you can't because you lack the thickness for it.
>>34818873Seems like you’re catastrophizing. A woman isn’t even going to see your dick until you two are about to have sex, so while that situation itself might be worrisome, nobody knows this about you until you take your pants off. How often is that happening now? Not at all? Everything that comes after that is your assumption because you’re not doing it yet. You’ve got internet stories but imagine the perspective you’d have on something more familiar if you deleted all of your own lived experiences and inserted 4chan lore instead. Would you actually be right about anything anymore?Further, some girls just have truly small pussies. I remember back in high school I had this friend who started dating this girl and blablablabla. Anyway, once they got to the point of sexual activity, I guess her pussy was truly too small and tight to experience sex. The friend in question was one of those dudes who just shares everything and he was pretty fucking incredulous because>my dick is not that goddamn big you guys, I promise!So they eventually broke up because buddy wanted to fuck. That was 2nd year of high school and I never saw that girl get any dates again until I graduated. She was a year below us so maybe something worked out for her in her senior year. She was a reasonably attractive and nice girl and when all the dudes found out about her unironic small pussy she was done for. That probably fucked her up. Can’t imagine that girl rejecting a guy on dick size alone. Unless she’s been dilating like a tranny for a decade, she probably still has sex issues with average sized guys.
I'm only 3 inches. I've still had sex. Sure, I wish I were longer, but the sex still feels good. Work with what you got.
>>34818894>A woman isn’t even going to see your dick until you two are about to have sexThat's nice and all but she can just decide sex is not for her and not cone back. And then you are stuck in a cycle of one-time-hookups. I am also far from a Chad so it's not like I can cycle through 50 girls a year until I eventually find that small pussy unicorn you mentioned.All I want is a girl who is honest with me. I am not even terrified of rejection, that I can live with. But I am terrified a girl says that my dick is nice and she likes sex but actually she is just lying. That would destroy me.
>>34818907Do you know how many women have truly nice-shaped tits? Not many. I’m sure you’ve seen porn. I’m sure how no how unequivocally disappointing it is to see that a super hot girl has pancake-floppy tiddies in addition to them having been small. Even girls with apparently massive tiddies in bras can (and do, most of the time) have tiddy shapes which are not the extra nice, perky-spherical kind.Would you tell your wife you like her imperfect tits if she was perfect in every other way? The tit thing destroys women internally too. They know they can never fix tit shape so even if they’re great looking with clothes on, they’re still kinda worried an equally or more attractive man will mention is.So you gonna fuck up your wonderful wife just to be objective about your opinion of her tits or would you just say they look great because you’re here for her and enjoying yourself for every other reason?>my wonderful wife spares my feelings>owari da Anon pls
>>34818907Your size is normal in Asia. Maybe find an asian gf
>>34818919Is tits and penis a fair comparison? The former has nothing to do with sexual pleasure and the latter can be a huge dealbreaker. If a girl doesn't feel good during sex and finds it lacking then how does the shape of her boobs impact that?
>>34818938>The former has nothing to do with sexual pleasureI have had sex before, many times (because long term relationship), whether anybody chooses to believe me or not, and that is simply not true. Nice tits absolutely do increase sexual pleasure by a lot for both of you. Girls with nice tits are really surprisingly into their own tits.I’m not saying it’s a comparison on what goes on in bed necessarily, other guys might never know the difference, but it is a pretty fair comparison when it comes to a deep insecurity you can never fix, imo. Anyone is free to disagree, obviously, but that’s my two cents and I’ll stop lecturing you.My dick is bigger than average but we still have fun with those flat-ish vibrators from time to time because she cums really hard and it’s cute. Not all sexual pleasure comes from dick every single time. If you’re looking for a woman who prioritizes objective reality over other people’s feelings then you’re looking for something rarer than your dick size could ever instigate.
>>34819001>My dick is bigger than averageOf course it is -.->bro I am 6'3" but let me tell you being 5'2" isn't so bad just find a girl who is insecure about her hair and you'll be fine
>>34818873Your penis is average and you are losing your mind over a situation that hasn't actually happened
I use a huge dildo on my gf. Bigger than any mortal man. No matter what I will have the biggest dick she ever had
>>34818873>My dick is like 5 inches long and only has 4 inches girthIm 7x6"and I would trade with you because im 5'7", which is far, far worse.
>>34818873My gf is really fat so she cant really tell the difference. I just make up for it with my mouth and hands
>>34818873It's a well established fact that women who have sex with women have more satisfying sex, and better and more frequent orgasms, than women who have sex with men. How big do you think the average lesbian's dick is? >inb4 strap-onsDon't be retarded.
>>34818873There is no hope. Go kill yourself.
>>34818873>pichaven't even read the post yet and i can tell the solution is to just stop watching porn where the focus is on dick size. Especially any porn that emasculates men for their small dicks (whether it's the woman literally cucking the guy or just being so overcome with dicklust that she subtextually implies that smaller ones are inferior. For example; the image you posted)>getting laughed at and humiliated by your girl's friends who she told about you>here is always the potential risk that her previous partners were bigger/thicker>I dread that she tells me her ex could make her orgasm just from fucking heryea. stop watching porn for a while.>I dread being together with a girl who knows she settles for sex that isn't as pleasurableOpen google, type "clitoris" into the search bar, and press the enter key.
>>34821197>stop watching porn where the focus is on dick size.you heard him OP. just check out of the entire modern world, which is now transactional and basically porn, as well as advertising actual porn, deny the only sexual pleasure you have.i'm in your boat too, but to make it worse, im a grower, 5 inches bonepressed at my hardest, nearly 1 at normal. And I'm tall, which means girls will expect bigger and be super disappointed. Technically we're "average" but i dont think that's true, I haven't met many smaller, and I've met many who are bigger. Even if it is average, average isn't enough anymore. Those chads live in a completely different world and don't even know it. They just have built-in confidence because they really don't have anything to hide, and fucking random girls like porn is just another day to them. I heard a chad talking with another of his buds about how he was deepthroating some whore from tinder and the friend chimes in about how he and his bro were eiffel towering some girl and she got pregnant and he was joking/freakin out like "ok which one of us got her pregnant" laughingand I realized right there no matter what I do no matter how much money I get or improve, look better I will always be held back by this one defining trait I can't changeOh, and my tongue is short too. I don't think im tonguetied, I can talk fine. I've had gfs, played around naked, even made her cum (w clothes), but never had sex or oral, no idea how much that'll hold me back.It's like God just said no lust for you. The entire satanic world around you will be hooking up and bragging about it, but you can't if you wanted to. You have to find a good woman who doesn't exist anymore who loves you for you and then have her tolerate sex because she loves you, rather than actually making her feel good, and hopefully she keeps secrets. Then she'll probably cheat anyway because there's so many chads right there when eventually she gets bored and everyone's replaceable.
>>34820437Lol just take a look at lesbian divorce rate statistics. It's the opposite of what you said
>>34821777Being good at sex doesn't guarantee being good at relationships. Lesbians still have better sex, and you can't deny that.
>>34821862so your answer is be a lesbian. which we can't because we're men. and lots of women hate men, unless they're chads that can drill them deep and hard. they might hate them too, but they need to be fucked. mission already failed.
most of the people living on earth are small dicked countries just think for 2 seconds
>>34820437>well established factAccording to pissypussy lesbians, of course, and nobody else.
5 isnt small its normal you're fine
bump
>>34818873Bruh, I just asked my GF if she felt satisfied by my dick size. She laughed at me and said, "have you ever measured it, like using a ruler or a measuring tape?". "Of course I did, it's 6.5" I said, "we men are always insecure about this, so what do you think?" She laughed again. "I don't care about your size, but how you use it to pleasure me."So my friend, don't think too much about your little guy's size or thickness. A real man doesn't know just one trick, there's a whole repertoire supporting him.
>>34821910>so your answer is be a lesbianNo, moron. The answer is to realise that, in terms of your partner's sexual satisfaction, knowing what to do with her clitoris matters vastly much more than the size of your dick. That someone who doesn't even have a dick can outperform any man should make that obvious.
>>34821987>According to pissypussy lesbians, of course, and nobody else.According to a great many scientific studies. Here is just one: https://digitalcommons.chapman.edu/psychology_articles/74/
>>34827349>Of course I did, it's 6.5"Did you not read that we have just 5, chad? She doesn't care because yours is big but she probably assumes its just average because she only dates guys like you. When you flip it up, does it hit your belly button? I wonder how big it has to be to do that, like in porn..8? You have a full gatorade bottle to stick in her, we have to the top ridge above the label. She uses 2 hands and still has a tip to lick sticking out of yours.>>34827377flick and lick her joy buzzer ok but chad knows how to do that too
>>34827377How bout a test. don't fuck your gf with your dick anymore, just eat her out and play with her clit and body, hit the outer erogenous zones, that's it, that's all you can do, just like a lesbian without toys (which is male penetration). That's the best sex she could possibly have right? Don't tell her why, don't say you're trying something new, just do that. Let us know if she wants more, and if she does, or switches to a toy, test over and you can go back to piping her guts to satisfy girls like we can't. Know what else lesbians usually have? Being hot girls with hot girl parts to play with. Everyone loves tits it definitely heightens their enjoyment to be 2 girls, knowing their bodies, playing with eachother.I predict that only lasts 3 sessions tops before she wonders why her man won't rail her deep like she craves anymore.
"We suffer more in imagination than in reality" - SenecaIf you know how to use it you'll be fine. The only way to get skill is practice. Stop thinking and get to work.
>>34827994How do you practice? Is jacking off practice? If I can last for hours edging does that translate to lasting hours with a girl? All it takes is one girl you've managed to hook up with for practice to talk, tell her friends about your small dick and put you on blast on social media and you don't get to practice anymore with them anymore.
>>34818873>Do you just endure thousands of rejections, being cheated on, dead bedroom, getting divorced, getting laughed at and humiliated by your girl's friends who she told about you until you might fight this *one* unicorn that has a tiny pussy and actually enjoys sex with you? Is that the hope we have?None of this shit is rooted in reality. You are sufferiing more in your mind than in reality.Also Women mainly get off from clitoral simulation.
>>34828032Practice by laying pipe. No, jacking off doesn't translate because you're not learning what gets her off. And I heard edging actually fucks up your sexual mojo. Don't think, just go pursue with the intention on learning to make women squeal in bed. And just as a heads up, there will be women who will turn you down because it's not big enough. Thems just the stakes. imo those women are not what you would want as a gf/wife anyway. The one's who can get off from the genuine connection and how you are in the sack are the keepers. And sex with them is a lot more enjoyable.
My have a large penis but lost in every other field of genetics. At least I'm white.
>>34828201there will be women who will turn you down because it's not big enough.Ok but again we're not talking about size queens who only take pringles can porn monsters we're talking 5 inches bonepressed and about 4 girth. >>34827828this guy's gf thinks its just fine and he's got 6.5. that's what i'd imagine most guys who get to fuck have.I had gfs in the past, they said they loved me, I know the erogenous zones, how to foreplay, but we never had real sex and they cheated. They started as friends, I don't know where im supposed to find a girl to just hookup without her already having a bigger dick in mind. Genuine connection and caring comes from time, and i dont have that, not to just practice and get laid. I'm not in school anymore. That's one reason i think of getting a hooker, but that its own problems as well, and probably not a good "training ground" either.
>>34827879did you do this? how'd it go?
>>34821529>just check out of the entire modern world, which is now transactional and basically porn, as well as advertising actual porn, deny the only sexual pleasure you haveSpoken like an addict who likes to enable other addicts>I haven't met many smaller, and I've met many who are bigger.How do you know? Are you seeing their dicks with your own eyes, or are you just asking them how big their dicks are and believing whatever they say?>I've had gfs, played around naked, even made her cum (w clothes)>You have to find a good woman who doesn't exist anymore who loves you for you and then have her tolerate sex because she loves you, rather than actually making her feel good, and hopefully she keeps secretsSo you know for a fact you can make women cum, even fully clothed, but you still think you're doomed to a life of Small Penis Humiliation and Cuckhold NTR? Stop watching porn.>Then she'll probably cheat anyway because there's so many chadsI genuinely think pornography has created some unhealthy fantasies that you can't stop engaging with. It's a self-harm mechanism, you're doing the psychosexual equivalent of cutting your skin or pulling your hair out. Some people can have healthy relationships with porn, you are not one of them.
>>34818873oh no muh sexo
>>34818873Find someone who doesn't treat sex like it's the most important thing in existence and actually cares about other shit like starting a family?
>>34818873Also, most women probably have never even experienced what an actual orgasm is like and think that being aroused equals an orgasm.
>>34818873It doesn't matter, at all.
>>34831264even if I didn't watch porn and cut it completely out, the world has been pornified, everyone else does and has expectations. dating apps are based on how good they look and that's it, and that's just in the PG cover shots, it gets R in the messages. hookups are based on how good you are at sex and that's it. i go to a classifieds site or something looking for a hookup tonight first thing they ask or even specify in the ad is they want someone big. big chads in my real life talk publicly like i said in >>34821529 girls and everyone make dick size jokes and hyperconsciousness about it normal, while at the same time "bodyshaming is wrong" tiktok trends compare bulges, i have no bulge because again, i start at 1, which makes it even worse. i've seen dicks at the gym, i've seen dicks in /soc/, and even in homemade amateur porn, sex tapes they thought worthy enough to post, it's 6 or higher, where she can fit 2 hands. sex with me is never videoworthy and probably doesnt feel as good, despite me knowing all about foreplay, dirty talk and pleasing her first>even fully clothedyeah more like the outline of my shorts could rub her clit just right while i was on top of her sometimes, also we had the pretense of being in love for a long time. that won't just happen again with a stranger. and i'll always have something to hide, like every activity i do, lets say i speak in public or lead a band, all it takes is for the crowd to know my dick is small, and im a joke, it doesnt matter what i do otherwise.My oneitis told me she used to date guys who throw parties and have slut coworkers eat donuts off his dick, and she put up iti do have a problem with lust but its not that. it's gotten so bad that literally all i did yesterday was goon. i didnt mean to but it felt so good i didnt leave the house i didnt eat i just did that and messages from /soc/ to share their homeporn or OF women to roleplay with and even bought some vids from girls who claim they meetup
>>34834493on the plus side, my dick is currently raw to touch so i'll have no choice but to do something else today. probably go try to make some money driving deliveries that i'll just end up spending on porn sluts later.
My dick is roughly over 6 inches. Today I fucked my gf in the shower but I couldn't cum. I was ashamed. She even sucked my cock and fondled my balls. This is happening to me almost every time we have sex. So it doesn't matter how big your dick is, but how well you can use it.
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>>34834493>i've seen dicks at the gym, i've seen dicks in /soc/, and even in homemade amateur porn, sex tapes they thought worthy enough to post, it's 6 or higher,These are all in exhibitionist contexts, of course the guys with the above-average dicks are gonna be showing off more often than the guys with below-average dicks (they're showing off for other men, btw). Yes, this is the result of bodyshaming, but you're still experiencing a survivorship bias.>i do have a problem with lust but its not that. it's gotten so bad that literally all i did yesterday was goon. i didnt mean to but it felt so good i didnt leave the house i didnt eat i just did that and messages from /soc/ to share their homeporn or OF women to roleplay with and even bought some vids from girls who claim they meetupYou've clearly become emotionally reliant on pornography, i think it's giving you some warped ideas around sex and relationships. You need to get away from pornography before you fuck your brain up even more than you already have.
If you are actually concerned that a woman you love will leave you because you can not satisfy her, just eat her pussy and do alot of foreplay. Its not that deep and youre worried over a nothingburger.
>>34821197thisLuckily I've never felt the need to but I've heard someone recommend to look into all the stuff they do in porn to make dicks look bigger, if this kind of stuff triggers your insecurities.Tricky camera angles and lenses, pairing big guys with small girls etc. Not to mention it's a big selection bias anyways, people who act in porn are hardly a representative sample of the population. That's like feeling insecure about your stamina after watching marathon runners all day.
>>34836715I think a girl I loved all my life and who loved me through online relationship was going to be with me until I told her I was 5 inches, but I'd definitely be able to make her orgasm, we could use toys too if she wanted. We had already booked a hotel room together before that but by the time that came up she'd changed her personality, left me and i found out she'd cheated later. I know I should've kept my mouth shut and let it just happen when she got here because she was head over heels for me, but I didn't want her to fly all this way just to be disappointed, i loved her. And also we were doing phone sex just talking eachother through it, which I'm good at and she came multiple times with imagination and her vibe, which she told me no other guy has made her cum that much or cared to try, but eventually she wanted to switch to video sexing and i didnt want to because i've not much to look at, I think that's when I told her the truth i dont remember, the whole things kinda a blur now. We used to talk all the time for hours every day and then nope, she stayed too long at yoga, nope, went to a emo nite at a bar, went to a new slutty friend's party and stayed there for days. Oops now she's gone, finally get in touch again and its like it never mattered.When I told her, she said she was happy with that, it didnt matter to her as long as it was mine. She was convincing. But is it coincidence that after that everything changed?
>>34835871>i couldn't cum>how well you use itI...I don't think that's what they mean when they say thatfirst off, isn't not cumming a good thing that means you could fuck her more? and second how could you not cum? third shower sex is hard isn't it?>>34836438small tits can be cute. tits are good no matter what. girls are cute. small things are cute. guys aren't supposed to be cute or girly, and i want to be dominant.
>>34836794sorry what? none of that made sense try a better translator
>>34836782Don't say things that are not true. she keeps all her promises to me, as I have for herg
>>34836838so if you know her whats her first name?
