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>me and my dad own a business
>3 days in a row someone tried to steal or did steal
>day later someone steals
>dad follows and brandished gun
>they didn’t steal anything
>cops come
>dad has court date tomorrow and no lawyer
Bros I’m so scared. He’s 75, has diabetes, needs eye drops and his foot isn’t good. I’m so fucking scared.
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>>34820618
Explain what happened and the circumstances. Unless the person in question is brown and you’re white you should be good.
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>>34820635
I don’t remember what she looked like because I didn’t see her. My dad told me she was black(might hurt us)She went to the business and walked for 10 seconds before walking out and my dad saw her put her hands in her jacket. We are Arab.
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>>34820618
Why can't you get a lawyer?
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anon if he cannot afford a lawyer one will be appointed to him
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>>34820649
Expensive

The same day as the trial??
>>34820651
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>>34820663
Where is this?
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Also
>my mom is visiting grandkids and my dad doesn’t want to tell her but she’s coming back in a week
>my sister is also visiting soon
BROOOOO
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>>34820669
Oklahoma.
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I gotta work 14 hour shifts with no breaks goddd and without leaving AHHH
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My dad said “I can deal with jail but suing us will be bad” DAD PLEASE JAIL IS BAD
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>>34820678
This is not legal advice but in the states you always get a lawyer appointed. Just because he has a court date tomorrow does not mean the trial will be tomorrow. Make sure he engages with the lawyer and does what the lawyer tells him to do.
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>>34820696
The cop kept in touch with me because I was panicking and told me that everyone loves my dad(he’s really good friends with customers and helps them out) and that he should get a lawyer because my dad likes to “fall on his sword a lot” and he might not know what to say :/
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>>34820701
He should say nothing, other than what his lawyer tells him to say. The same goes for you by the way.
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>>34820706
What do you mean? Are they gonna interrogate me? I wasn’t there.
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>>34820678
Sounds like he just has some kind of hearing with a judge instead of any kind of actual trial. This is the United States so you get a lawyer even if you can’t afford one. It’s called a public defender and they would have reached out to your dad if they came to represent him. You literally cannot be tried by a lawyer here unless you’re dealing with some glowie-level nonsense. If this hearing goes poorly then you either get court or probably a fine or something. If you two are legal immigrants, then there’s genuinely nothing to worry about here because your dad literally is not walking into trial without a lawyer. Or even if he’s a brainlet who repeatedly ignored his own public defender for a while, there will still be representation at his bench when he walks in. They just wouldn’t be able to defend as well since they didn’t get any facts from you two.
That’s the one thing America still has going for it.
Also, all that said, go back.
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>>34820713
You said you talked to a cop here >>34820706. Don't. It doesn't matter you weren't there.
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>>34820729
Ah ok. All I did was talk about how worried I was because of his medical conditions and that was it. Was that too much??
>>34820717
Thanks, no one contacted my dad yet. I think he spoke to a few layers but he didn’t go further.
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>>34820717
>tried by a lawyer
Tried without a lawyer*
Oops. Just wakin’ up.
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>>34820735
>Thanks, no one contacted my dad yet. I think he spoke to a few layers but he didn’t go further.
You guys are almost certainly going to be just fine. Since you’ll probably be talking to a judge and not cops, then the other anon’s advice to act like a stoner at a traffic stop might not be the best. Standing in front of the judge at a hearing is ACTUALLY the time to explain yourself instead of just using your Miranda rights to stop having to talk to cops. So you can go with stay quiet strategy. Might work okay for foreign people. Might be seen as weird, though.
Or you can explain yourself that you think you were in the right
Again, it is not a trial. Or at least does not at all sound like that is the situation from what you’re saying.
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>>34820755
I was born here but my dad came from
Jordan in the 70s. He’s fluent in 3 languages and his English is really good. He’s also unfortunately very conversational and loves talking with customers like he’s their buddy. Not sure how that’s gonna work with a judge if he admits that he fucked up.
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>>34820618
why the fuck is your dad working at 75? also, you're in oklahoma. that's a states that friendly to gun owners
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>>34820765
Because he’s bored. Literally. I tell him don’t work but he comes back to work after an hour at home and says “I can’t do it i need something”. Hobbies don’t work. He just loves the people.
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>>34820763
As long as he’s apologetic but saying that he thought he was in the right to a judge is probably not the worst thing that can happen at all. The worst thing here would be to look dishonest and weird.
He definitely should not show up and say
>wow I did something very very wrong and heinous and blablabla
Even then, being an honest man might work out for him.
Do you have a piece of paper telling you what’s about to happen here? Taking a picture of it, drawing over the personally identifying info, and then taking a screenshot of that instead of directly posting it with the layers included might help somebody out here in determining what is actually about to happen. That’d be most helpful because your advice will go from extremely speculative to more specific.
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>>34820785
I don’t have the report with me and all my dad got was the bond receipt, a card with the money that he paid and an appointment ticket.
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>>34820794
Okay well that’s more serious than it sounded at first. You hadn’t mentioned he had to be bonded out, I don’t think.
That appointment ticket is what I’m talking about. It should list the charges or at least reasons he’s being asked to show up. Even without the picture, getting the exact verbiage from that card would be very helpful.
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>>34820810
I’m not home now but if I recall it just had the time and the location with no charges
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>>34820829
Ok it says your new court appearance is at this place at this time, if you don’t appear you’ll have your bond revoked contact bondsman etc.
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Gonna bump just in case
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>>34820618
that's exactly what should happen, especially with a person over 70. brandishing is stupid ghetto shit. no one should know you have a gun until the hammer clicks and their brain leaves their head
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Well i gotta take my dad tomorrow. Closing the shop early. Here we go. Wish us luck guys.
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Today is the day
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as long as you can keep him under control and not act like some stupid normie, then you shouldn't have any problems
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Ahem,
GET LAWYER.
Remember that lawyers CANNOT do a contingent fee for crim law cases, and most should (a lot of states do mandate) have their fees/billable hour written clearly and not oral.
Does your dad have legal insurance or some form of legal services option from his insurances for the biz? Granted, this incidents is not usually covered.
>even if your dad is found not guilty, he may still be liable or be sued for an intentional tort which is another barrel of fish. This is a civil penalty, so it’ll just be a a lot of money.

A LAWYER IS CHEAPER THAN JAIL/PRISON/APPEAL OR MISTRIAL ANON. Especially for reputation too.
>IANAL (yet), this is NOT legal advice.
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>>34822388
Ok me and my dad came back. We have a new hearing next month which is the actual trial. It’s a felony GOD DAMMIT. So now we got time to find a lawyer. I don’t believe he has criminal insurance
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>>34822574
September 10. Scared.
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What should I look for in a lawyer
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>>34822574
Goddamn dude that fucking sucks. I had talked back and forth with you in the thread yesterday but there wasn’t as much to go on. Brutal.
So, this is genuinely a very position. He did it and it’s on camera, I’d assume. I’m obviously not a lawyer and you’re now really beyond us helping but talk to a few and see what you can do to minimize sentencing. I’m not saying to plead guilty, your lawyer will tell him what to plead. I’m just saying that being found not-guilty here sounds highly unlikely.
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>>34823306
Yeah I thought so. Fuck me man. He made a stupid mistake and he’s probably gonna die in prison for it. Fuck. Well thanks for the advice anyways
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>>34823809
Even in prison here you get medical conditions like that taken care of. His diabetes and foot and eye drops will most likely be fine, at least for a time. Unless he’s much more frail than you’re saying, he probably stands a good chance of making it out, especially if he doesn’t get that maximum.
Don’t write everything off just yet. Show’s not over and you’re now finding a lawyer to help make sure your dad doesn’t die in prison. That’s what you tell them your priority is. I know you’re sad and fucked up but now is a time in life to be metaphorically aggressive and “attack the ball”. Fucking get after it. This is the last chance, and I mean that kindly.
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>>34823882
Thanks. I’m more worried about my mom and my business now. 14-15 hours a day is gonna be rough and my mom is gonna kill herself crying once she finds out. God I need a therapist.
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>>34823935
>God I need a therapist.
You do. There are actually some who specialize in exactly what you’re going through. Those take longer to find, though, so you might check some shit out online. I know there are services where you can pay and just talk to any old therapist right fuckin now if you have the cash. At least you could vent better. You’re gonna have to be really fucking strong here but you can do it. Your mom needs you and your dad needs you to hold down the fort. Mentally prepare for comforting your mom. You have to help her even if it hurts.
Maybe you can get an employee. You’re probably in charge now so do what you can on that front to maintain your sanity.
The point is that you’re going to have to keep trying even if and inevitably when it hurts bad as fuck. You obviously love the shit out of your parents and that’s admirable. They’ve probably held it down for you many times themselves.
I’m sorry, man. You’re never ready when the time comes, ya know.
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>>34823966
I was thinking about employees but there’s problems in our business that employees can’t handle. It’s a gas station and some of the pumps are slow, or maybe the register has issues and man I can’t trust people here. I might have to beg my brother to help since he has some other job but I’m just tempted to sell that place and take a fucking break and find some normal 9-5 job. I’m getting knots in my stomach constantly and I can’t imagine what my dad is feeling.
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Kek he’s sitting next to me and I suddenly just start sobbing and he’s like “I’ll be fine don’t worry”
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>>34823993
Maybe you could start by doing him a favor and believing him. It may get much harder from here out so practice while he’s here.
He’s the one looking at jail time, dude. If anyone gets to cry, it’s him!! If he’s not crying then follow his lead and do what you can to enjoy the time you do have with him.
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>>34824283
Thanks dude.
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for what it's worth i bet they did steal something and just dropped it o algo
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should have just ventilated the stupid nigger.
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>>34824297
Eh. I wish they did honestly.
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Any half-decent lawyer, even a public defender,can plead down to probation for a non-white 75-year-old small business owner who pointed a legal firearm at a suspected shoplifter but didn't actually hurt anyone. He's in trouble, but he will be fine.
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>>34824801
Yeah I told him to just go balls on the walls expensive. First time hiring a lawyer for anything so we don’t know what to look for. Ironically his son in law is one but that means my sister is gonna know about it and yeah.
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I’ll probably make a new thread if I get a lawyer
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>>34824987
do you want her to learn after or before your dad goes to jail?
don't be a stupid retard, tell her, it's better if both of you try instead of soloing it and he going to jail for the rest of his life where he'll get beaten by niggers
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>>34830980
She’s coming back next week so I guess we’ll tell her around that time. Hm. It’ll kill her. 4’7 70 year old who doesn’t speak a lot of English with arthritis
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Lol that's a crime? TF you have guns for if not to fend off other criminal shit like that. Or are you only allowed to use it if ur life in danger. Meanwhile police can't do shit towards catching the shoplifter but when you do something to prevent their crime you get all the punishments instead xD



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