Got rejected by my stalker of 7 years.So to begin, I‘m really not putting this out there to get „advice“, as theres really no fixing here. Maybe some male pats on the back for the garbage I went through. Mostly the purpose is just to put this bullshit out there. Preface end.Basically, from 7 years ago on I was stalked by some girl online for years on end. Sometimes it was more thorough, sometimes less. Im not going to get into the details into how it happened, but mostly they just kept following me to places I went online and hit me up. Why did I never try to accept their „love“ or whatever the fuck it was they were throwing in front of my feet? I dont know. Maybe I didnt need it, mostly it felt icky because I had got to know them on some weird discord server and I am not with that e-gf shit. However, I fell i to a bad spot after all those 7 years and frankly, all the fighting them off when they did show themselves got tiring. So what did I come up with? Hey, whatever, lets just talk to them and see what happens. Lo and behold, I actually like them, get sort of needy … and? I get dumped immediately.This person was having thoughts about me for 7 years, imagine the amount of time they could have done other things and the way this all must have impacted their life. Im not feeling very well right now, so I wont get into anger too much, but: how isnt this one of the stupidest things youve maybe ever heard? Feel free to ask questions about this im feeling talkative
I’m of course only hearing your half of the story, but that does indeed sound pants on head retarded.I think you’d should be grateful that you at least weren’t as emotionally invested as she was this whole time. It also honestly tracks that someone insane enough to stalk a man for years isn’t actually cut out for a relationship with the object of her obsession.Sucks that you had to learn this lesson, but it sounds like you might want to take women irl more seriously than those you meet online.
>>34825686>how isnt this one of the stupidest things youve maybe ever heard?It sounds completely normal. People want what they can't have, once it because available then they don't care anymore.
>>34825686Your narrative only proves how manipulative you ate with lies -m
>>34825686You are the only person this happened to. It happened to some actor too, Robert Pattison iirc. He went on a date with his stalker and she left him alone after that. People like that often fall in love with some idealized version of you and then leave when you're actually a real human being and not that idealized person.
>>34825842Not who I am. I love her for her. All of her. She knows that and nothing you say changes how I feel or see her because I only see her as when our eyes met and she told me she loves me more after I made her coom 7 times in a row-m
>>34825686This doesn't seem important. Why do you care?
