this is one of those "if you have to ask, then the answer is you cant" questions

>>34825771
/thread

>>34825710
This is actually something you can train.
The kind of guy that does things like this has failed at doing things like this countless times - but this time it paid off.

It's like the guy who can hit a home run.
You never saw the countless times he failed at hitting a home run, only the time where he did.

>>34825710
Go for desperate women who require validation from a desirable man

Basically women with no value except being thin and a wet hole.

>>34825935
Bullshit. He is confident enough to go for it precisely because he has NOT failed countless times.

It's called positive reinforcement and it's why attractive people are naturally more confident and bold.

>>34825976
>Bullshit. He is confident enough to go for it precisely because he has NOT failed countless times.
This is bullshit.
People who are the best at anything have also failed the most at that thing.

People who criticize and whine are usually people who have never even tried.

>>34825771
Thats such a load of horsehsit, as if there was any kind of secret to it lol.
You literally just try and see whether it works. Thats it. Thats the whole secret.
Oh yeah, and being drunk as fuck like those two also helps.

>>34825976
Its the opposite. He has failed so often that he has realized that "failure" is irrelevant. You get desisenitized to getting rejected from women, which allows you to act as you please since you have nothing to fear anymore.

I did this in a high school party once. Magical times bro. Afterward I went outside and was blowing fire balls with bacardi 151 and a lighter and bitches were clapping. Im not even making this shit up my life was a movie but now im a fat 33 year old basement dweller so there is balance in all things.

but yeah the answer is to be drunk and supremely confident. Being 6 foot tall helps too

>>34825710
If you have to ask...

>>34825980
>>34826008
Retards like you failing to comprehend why a 3/10 whose only interactions with women have been complete failures may learn to have a defeatist mindset while the 6'3 athlete since childhood may be a bit more confident thanks to past successful social interactions

>>34825710
Just fucking do it, jesus go do what he does at parties and find out lol

>>34826300
We're not failing to comprehend anything.
In fact, you have to use extremes to bolster your argument because we're right.

Every single looksmaxing, blackpill, nice guy, status/money maxxing online pipeline attempts to sell defeatist dudes a victim mentality so that they can comfortably say they suck with women because of things outside of their own control.
When, in reality, a woman's attraction for a man is very much often about his inner frame - and inner frame is absolutely something you can fix.

>I dont have enough money
>i dont have the status
>i dont have the height
>i dont have the facial structure
>I dont have.....

All those pipelines make millions off frustrated men.
Of course anyone can understand why a short guy feels bad, but what that short guy needs is the Truth, not a fucking victim mentality pipeline

>>34825710
>How do I get to do this in real life at parties?
Travel back in time and do ecstasy at a rave.

>>34826319
>all that text just to cope

Nigger gte rejected by a few women and you learn that its nothing
>wanna make out?
>no thanks
>ok bye

Thats it. Stings the ego a littel at first, then you learn to get over it and it just becomes something your barely think about.
You're investing ten timnes the engery on inventing copes and malding on the internet than just fucking doing it like an adult man.

>>34826319
>make millions off frustrated men.
Btw, most men IRL are doing just fine with women. I know, I know, kindly spare me the paint graphs okay.
Does it really help you to cope and invent an alternate reality where having woman trouble is normal? Does it get you ahead? Does it help you to sopt wasting your life? those are the important questions.

>>34826369
I think you responded to the wrong person.
I agree with you lol.

>>34826372
Most men between the ages of 18-29 are not doing well with women at all.
Also I think you guys are replying to the wrong guy or not reading my message.

I'm in the camp of abandoning cope, not indulging in it

>>34826381
Woops sorry. I guess I no longer read anything as soon as we have an incel discussion.
A lot of men are hopelessly entrapped in whatever-pill psyops, and will cry all day about not getting women. But ask one when he has last talked to a woman, and watch him recoil: "I have been found out"...

>>34826369
>>34826372
>Guy agrees with you.
>Attack him anyways.
Why is 4chan like this?

>>34826372
>Btw, most men IRL are doing just fine with women
Im not really a blackpiller but come one man.

>>34826393
NTA, but yes, if you leave your echo chamber you'll find that men mostly get along fine with women.

>>34826492
most men get literally enslaved by women lol

>>34826492
It depends on age group and what you mean by "get along fine"

Most American men from the ages of 18-29 are single, for example. That doesn't mean they are VIRGINS, but they are single.
In the same way, you cannot really quantify how much consistent sex those single men are getting. All you can quantify is that they are Single, where most women in that age group are not single.

Young men struggling with getting women is definitely not a dating app echo chamber or a social media chamber

>>34825710
Try bonesmashing first

>>34825935
so is it just a case of being myself?

Well there's sort of three parts to this question,
>why does this situation even come about
>how/can I pick my position in this scenario
>is it worth it to do so

I was a trust fund baby and used to throw those frat style parties where everyone is really just there to show off, drink recklessly and peer pressure each other into doing things they'll later regret.

Why does it happen? Peer pressure. Group think, social pressure, drunk and easily influenced young people. Combinations theof.

How do you get in on this? Be rich, hot, popular, influence others, this has a competitive sort of situation so being the second hottest, having the second coolest mansion, being the second best socker player really isn't going to work for you. There's nothing fair about this, and it's better to accept this. The second prettiest girl got a train run on her by 30 drunk strangers and woke up in ER with photos of her all over Facebook and killed herself, the second best footballer started smoking, missing training, lost his scholarship. My families mansion got trashed and a mansion costs way more to repair then you'd think and this sort of bankrupted us. The drug dealers got shot or sent to prison. Cascade of poor life outcomes. And that's why there's the self shaping nature of this, people who don't have any hope throw it all away trying, and people who know better keep it as far away as possible.

That said there's nothing wrong with going to gym, having female friends, going to parties and having a good time.

Just don't like... get cosmetic surgery, bring ten grand of cocaine to someone else's party, give into peer pressure, snort coke and end up with 50 strangers assfucking you when you're unconscious, getting arrested, ending up with 200 people, ten police cars and 30 injured minors on your property.

But you can see how one might quickly give way to the other... so fair warning. Maybe my advice isn't the advice to take here but at least I'm not trying to agrandize myself or trick you into snorting the coke. If anything, I'd warn you very strongly against the kind of people who lurk out there, who by degree, at the time, I was.

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>>34825710
That honestly looks disgusting. Disregarding the possibility of STDs, you've just swapped out a bunch of sloppy beer wet tongues. It's basically like being covered in dog slobber. None of these people even see eachother as real, they see each other just like bodies with holes you can stick stuff in, like some kind of grotesque collection of sex mannequins you'd find in a closet at your friends uncles house. So much action achieving nothing, and then they just take a swig of bear and wash away both the taste and the memory of what has just happened, trapped in their own purgatory of flesh and alcoholic amnesia.
>How do I get to do this in real life at parties?
Basically just have no respect or standards for yourself, either as a Man or a Woman. Devote your life to hedonism, abandon all notions of a Healthy Future with a Healthy Family, basically reduce yourself to the status and behavior of a Pakistani Nigger, and then profit while the world burns down around you.

>>34829649
Nigger I got my first kiss ever the second time I was drunk at 15. I was at some high schooler house party, walked up to a girl from my year I've never really talked to and just kissed her without speaking a word.
This shit is not hard, not special and the idea that you need to be rich or beautiful for a drunken makeout is hilariously retarded.

>>34826369
I actually wonder how true this notion is. The idea that one gets desensitized to rejection through repeated exposure. I actually think the mechanism where by grinding helps you is that you eventually get positive reference experiences rather than you become immune to the pain of rejection.

Experienced pickup artists say its like ripping off a baindaid. The anxiety of approaching a hot girl basically never goes away. Which I find sad

>>34830352
Yep. I was 16 when I made out with two girls like in the OP gif. There was absolutely no sophistication or skill to it or preparation beyond bringing a 30 pack of keystone light to some chicks house. People really underestimate the power of alcohol.

>>34825710
Join the army and you don't even have to be drunk to pull 10s y'all just have skill issues

>>34830396
>The anxiety of approaching a hot girl basically never goes away. Which I find sad
yeah it sucks

>>34825976
Opposite. He has, but has also paid off at times, giving him the incentive and confidence for it. Also, depends on the party. Big frat/sorority type party environments where a lot of the crowd doesn't know each other but it's kind of open house, women will just throw themselves at a guy. Parties where 90% of people know each other, people are more reserved.

>>34825976
Only trvth in this thread. This guy took the time to think for himself instead of going for internet sheep speech
Fucking losers all of you

I know a Dutch guy who's so tall and so handsome, dude has a success rate of 90%, the look in his eyes is one of "I can have any of the girls, any." He doesn't even try, this dude is just given this on a silver platter.
His failures and your failures are different failures. His failures are lessons to improve his behavior so it can match his high looks potential, it is quite a short track to even it out and succeed. your failures are often because your looks potential is low, your lessons can teach you as much as you want and you can gnobble and squeeze but you will not be able to overcome your looks potential through lessons alone. You will forever be capped by CHOICE OF OTHER. You need to find a woman who somehow likes you over others, so your struggles are external, his are internal, and internal struggles can be overcome easily
It's crazy simple. And all you niggers talk about him succeeding for misguided reasons, did you see how he fucking looks like? He's literally baby bait for girls he's hot af, fucking niggers

That's a stripper. He's the only man in that room. None of those girls want to actually fuck him. They all want to one up each other competing for his attention and try to kiss him better than the other girls. It's retarded. There is zero actually chemistry or connection being made. Entirely superficial alcohol fueled buffoonery.
So there's your answer. Alcohol and worl out enough to be a male stripper and the only guy in the room. His physique isn't even particularly impressive. Not a lot of gym work to achieve that. You've got this, Morty.

>>34825710
it would be different if he was banging them but they're just making out. what are you, 12? making out is for middle schoolers.

>>34826319
I googled "inner frame" and got zero results

Making out in public and other sex things is disgusting

>>34825710
You cant. If u arent 6'0

>>34832296
i'm 6 foot with solid looks and have been ghosted at least five times this year. never been in a relationship before

>>34825710
Go to a lot of these parties, as much as you can find, ones where alcohol is a common fixture, talk to all girl groups, at some point bump into a sluttier than usual girl who enables stuff like that to happen, I guess? Then congrats I guess? You made out with 4 foids in quick 2.5 second spurt succession? Was that supposed to accomplish anything or lead to something else? Am I missing something?

>>34825710
a lot of speculating, not a lot of grounded advice lol

>>34826319
Never knew short guys had issues until I started browsing online. I've never had issues w women. I'm 5'3

>>34825710
Be hot, get drunk.

>>34832296
>>34832311
6'0 is king of the manlets. 6'3 is the real mog starting zone

>>34833104
>Then congrats I guess? You made out with 4 foids in quick 2.5 second spurt succession? Was that supposed to accomplish anything or lead to something else? Am I missing something?
yeah it seems pretty cool

>>34832112
This board is full of ugly and mid women giving young men advice and other turbo normies. If you check out the ATOGA thread it's full normie simps.

>>34825710
https://youtu.be/MEUDs8pkbP8

>>34825710
fuck man that's how you get mono

>>34832112
Bor just install Grindr and get your bussy blown out like you want to. Theres no shame in being a Chadsexual, but staying in the closet means to torture yourself.

>>34834433
lol

>>34832112
>This guy took the time to think for himself instead of going for internet sheep speech
>...by listening to sexless incels who repeat the same talking points they tell each other on the internet

>>34832112
>... and heres why its totally okay to keep sitting in my goon cave, not shower never talk to women because my failure with women is enitrely someone elses fault and not my responsibility at all the 1213876287346234th post

Imagine writing so many words just to pathetically attempt to shift blame somewhere else.Your problem is that you are eternally stuck at being mentally four years old, while the Dutch guy is not.

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>>34836981
bro seethed so much at this post he had to reply twice kek

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>>34837776
>there's no way TWO people in a thread can see the objective truth!!

>>34837875
nice mspaint skills bro

>>34838269
Risking shit, making mistakes and learnign from them is basic bitch being a man 101
Ten years ago your type would have been called a faggot for making obvious excuses and refusing to do what you need to do when you want to meet women, now you guys have formed a self referencing turbogay circle jerk to pat each other on the should how about how its everyone elses fault that you're a pansy. Thats literally the mental world of a six year old child.