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My girl is great, 100% LOYAL, no past, devoted to me. Marriage material. But she's not White. I'm obsessed with optimizing my future children's potential and I'm scared this will hurt them. Simply put, I don't know what to do. It would break my heart to leave her, and if I have children with a White woman it's a guaranteed divorce down the line. But I can't stop thinking their baseline potential would be higher. What do?
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>>34832733
You could get a surrogate
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>>34832741
She would kill herself no joke
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Pick a random white woman on Instagram and see if she's better than what you have.

>>34832741
Don't handicap your kids if you don't need to.
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>>34832746
Done this already, they're soulless and terrible people compared to her.
But I still strongly associate brown with low IQ, impulsivity, soullessness. I'm deeply bothered by the fact my kids would get genes from her ancestors who were all low IQ dumbfucks who want me dead
I'm scared my kids would lack the moral and intellectual spark I want them to have. Their mom lucked out but you know how genes can skip things
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>>34832759
Also knowing her country of origin I just know there's a certain level of inbreeding in her bloodline. Pretty low and zero chances of making abominations or huge problems but this could still slightly affect their intelligence and personality. But at the same time, Jesus Christ, if I have kids with a whitoid I'm scared my kids would get the cattle-compliance genes on top of the guaranteed divorce. I'm fucked, right?
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>>34832759
> brown
How about having no children at all?
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>>34832741
Kys for suggesting that, jew.
surrogacy is more evil than abortion.
>lmao just buy a baby
Literally epstein
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>>34832800
I'm White and I want nothing more in life than raising my kids. She's brown yes but she's a great woman who wants to be a mother and who deserves it very much. The question is, should we do it with each other? It's a very difficult and painful question for me, with life changing implications
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>>34832733
Being half white isnt even half as limiting of a factor as being from a divorced/broken home.
Also having a feminist leftist (white) mother may prevent them from learning what things to actually fear and avoid.
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>>34832759
>But I still strongly associate brown with low IQ
Lmao retard.
You are doing the reverse of the woman argument.
>the avg woman is 1.70m tall
>this isnt true because i'm 1.76!!
So in your case
>the avg brownoid has an iq of 67
>therefore my beautiful and smart brownoid waifu cannot have an iq of over 67

What type of brown is she though?
I think only jeets and sandn***ers should be avoided.
Latinxas are fine
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>>34832759
>moral and intellectual spark
What moral spark? Are you an atheist? If so then all your morals are made up by yourself anyways and you can adjust your belief
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>>34832770
>Also knowing her country of origin I just know there's a certain level of inbreeding in her bloodline.
Where is she from?
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>>34832815
Just look at how half brown children behave, do you really want that??
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>>34832759
Pick the average brown woman on Instagram and compare her to them

>genes from her ancestors who were all low IQ dumbfucks who want me dead
That's literally everyone's ancestors.
They gave their lives so we can be better.
Europe is best at war. Wft are you talking about other people's ancestors didn't want you dead
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>>34832821
>Being half white isnt even half as limiting of a factor as being from a divorced/broken home.
Idk man. I'm from a divorced home and turned out just fine. It's not ideal but some friction can be great sometimes. I have no experience being half brown though so I have no idea if that's fine or not. I just want my kids to be equal or better than me, never below

>>34832829
I know my waifu's fine, did you read the post? But her dad's a retard, her mom's a retard, her granddad's a retard, her brothers are retards It's impossible not to be worried.

>>34832836
north africa it's over

>>34832831
The kind of spark that makes me immune to retarded emotional blackmail of any kind for example. Knowing what is right and wrong even when facing hysterics and false "hey be nice" discourses is a huge part of what defines intelligence and morality for me
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>>34832907
> North Africa
Arab or Berber?
Berbers are not that low IQ
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>>34832733
Imagine having children that don't look like you at all.

The colour of your skin is the most noticeable thing. Not only will you feel alienated, they will too. It's actually quite the issue amongst mixed race children and their parents.

Also don't understand how you can be with a non-white person. That is, I'm assuming they're not East Asian either, right?

Don't ruin your bloodline. You're technically a mudshark. Our race is dying out.
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>>34832907
She's a foreigner on top of being brown?

You don't want to hear it but she's probably not lacking in past, lacking in devotion and not marriage material- compared to what you believe.

I see men go to Asia all the time and pick out women that have huge issues. The white guys don't understand what is a red flag outside their culture.
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>>34832951
Arab it's over

>>34832956
Yeah that bothers me too. A whitoid would abort my kids though so what would you have me do. My waifu has traits and values you could only DREAM to find in a White woman

>>34832961
No she's just brown but she's from here and I have extensive knowledge of her past and there really is nothing.
Anyway as others have said there's also the issue of my kids not looking like me that bother me too. But I've kinda looked past that until now and only focused on my kids' well being. Thing is, when I look at it objectively, yes it would be much better to go find myself a White unicorn and have my dream babbies with her. But 1) I am emotionally attached to my waifu and truly believe she is unique marriage material, 2) I'm not sure I have the time to find myself another marriage material unicorn who's White on top of it and 3) I believe it would be a waste for my waifu to find herself another brownoid and spend the rest of her life being beaten and raising retarded violent kids. Despite all the flaws I can find her when I'm analyzing our situation, I still love her. Life is cruel bros
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Hapas aren't insane because of genetics. They're insane because more often than not their dad is a little bitch who took the easy way out and isn't strong enough to actually raise children.
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>>34832770
What is country of origin?
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>>34832733
>she is not white
I mean, that depend the kind of not-white.
>"upper" Asian: kids might be okay if a bit soulless.
>indian/gypsies: that's a genetic blackhole on a level where ending your bloodline would be the right choice instead. Adopt a white kid or something.
>nigger/sandnigger/spic: gonna be a dice roll on the IQ and psychopathy
>kikess: tell her to get back in the kitchen's oven.
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>>34832907
>north africa it's over
She (maybe along with you) will get honor killed for being with a non mudslime man.
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>>34832733
American rightoids deserve prison and worse
>i can't stop myself from racemixing, pls help
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>>34833113
>soulless
Bro im from a ver rural majority white area and one time at trade school some of the boys went to the zooshop and bought some live mice and brutally killed them in the shop machines, like sending them trhough the planer.
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>>34833030
>Waifu
Do you actually talk like that unironically? Mate, you need to sort yourself out.

Also, you're forgetting how easily suggestable women are. All it takes is her feeling safe around you and some positive reinforcement.

Your statements about white women are glowing. Stop being retarded and leave the house before you ruin your bloodline, if this is even a real situation at all.
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>>34833249
Sometimes I read something as retarded as this and think "this must be a bot or fed post", but then I remember that Amerimutts exist.
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>>34833030
>the issue of my kids not looking like me that bother me too
That can go both way.
I married a blasian. Both of our kids somehow got out as pale as me with straight hairs.
She is constantly having complex about being confused for their babysitter/stepmother.
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I don't know who needs to read this. I'm half hispanic but my mom looks almost white so I came looking completely passable as white, very few spot the differences.

That being said, i've had identity issues through the majority of my life and even now, stemming from my mixed lineage and feeling that I belong to both groups and neither at the same time. I'm in a similar dilemma, white people do have an advantage just by being white and even though i know i can have the most loyal black or brown woman, it wouldnt be an easy decision to potentially put my future children through these issues around identity. So much i could write about this
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>>34832733
With where society is at, your future children will either be mixed if you stay with your current woman, or nonexistent if you go for a white girl because 99% of them are anti-kids and the 1% that aren't tend to be crazies.
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>>34833354
Nah plenty of white women want and have kids
But yes you have to leave the big cities to fing them
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>>34832733
I can only tell my story: my white mom had me with an Iranian, the least bad sandpeople on Earth, and I still have a difficult time forgiving her. I could have been white in a white country but now I'm a sandnigger. It's not irrelevant that I speak and behave completely like a white person, but there is a hard cap on what I can be to other people. I've been rejected by women on the basis of my race. Of course, if I had looked like Gigachad I would've had a different life, but I don't, and you can't count on your children being Gigachads. I'm sorry, Anon, an Arab just doesn't cut it.
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Racists are truly retarded
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>>34832759
>But I still strongly associate brown with low IQ, impulsivity, soullessness.
Because that's the kind of person your wife is?

>>34832770
>Also knowing her country of origin I just know there's a certain level of inbreeding in her bloodline.
Even if that's true, it might be a problem for *her* health, but it can't be for your kids, and it won't be a problem for your grandchildren unless your children breed with someone from the same place. Please learn how inbreeding actually works before theorising about it.
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>>34833542
>I could have been white in a white country
If your mother had had children with someone else, you wouldn't exist. Her child wouldn't be a white version of you, it would be a completely different white person, and you would never have been born.
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>>34833542
There's alot of chad arabs and muslims in europe and they slay mad pussy. However as a mid guy you are better off white with pale skin, lots of white mid women dig that type.
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It is evident you luck any higher intelligence yourself. You sound like an uneducated hillbilly or Gipsy in Europe. Not sure why it bothers you. Try getting an academic career or learn reading something other than McDonald's menus to stop worrying about complete bs and retarded things.
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>>34833571
>There's alot of chad arabs and muslims in europe and they slay mad pussy.
This is what happens when you get all your information about the world outside your mom's basement from your fellow basement-dwelling virgin neets of /pol/.
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>>34833581
Nah, I've been all over european bars and pubs, you lying piece of shit.
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>>34832733
Well yeah that's kinda the tradeoff, cuz whitey halo effect or white fever blah blah, ethnicels are all or mostly gonna be full obedient bend over backwards yadda. Or more humble in general if from humble origins

> material. But she's not White. I'm obsessed with optimizing my future children's potential and I'm scared this will hurt them.
>>34832759
>But I still strongly associate brown with low IQ, impulsivity, soullessness. I'm deeply bothered by the fact my kids would get genes from her ancestors who were all low IQ dumbfucks who want me dead
>I'm scared my kids would lack the moral and intellectual spark I want them to have. Their mom lucked out but you know how genes can skip things

None of that shit is genetic. Most of that shit is upbringing. If you really gave a shit about your kids potential you'd be optimising physical shit like longevity reproductivity appearance during genetic/pre-conception, then instilling the mental shit during raising/post-conception. But of course, you were too low IQ to figure that out yourself. How ironic. Maybe think twice about how great your own genetics are before jumping to conclusions about others'

And if you gave a shit about inbreeding then race-mixing would be a bonus? Wouldn't you actively seek a different, complementary race to "optimise" your kids genetics? Rather than going for inbreeding depression?

Sounds like you're more interested in reinforcing self congratulatory mental models than you are about your kids' futures

Anyway, not much to do other than discuss it honestly with your actual partner and not just 4chan randoes
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>>34834055
> not much to do other than discuss it honestly with your actual partner and not just 4chan randoes
> Honey, I think you people are subhumans who should never reproduce, how about I impregnate an actual human woman and we later adopt the child?
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>>34833265
Fuck. I feel bad for her. Like the mom is supposed to have this bedrock connection with her kids. Having little white bbs come out of a pretty brown woman, like yeah it would mess a woman up.
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>>34832733
dump. Mixed kids are low IQ
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>>34832745
White women love widows anon
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>>34834314
So are white kids that are maxxvaxxed
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it's sad that 4chan racists can find true love but not me
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>>34834369
You vastly underestimate the amount of brown girls who are hella racist toward their own group (mostly due to being first in line to witness all the bad of it), and who will feel way more comfortable with a wWhite who is a minimum racist than one who insist everything is rainbow and sunshine.



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