Stuck in a cycle>go to a new church/biblestudy after moving>services suck, feel like an outsider>not many young women, but still try to be out there>approach, doesn't go well since I haven't been in the community for years>non-christian women gets close to me, has more wifeable qualities than the christian women, including being a virgin>start to have feels>have to distance myself or turn them down to not be "unevenly yolked" >try going to more christian places againOn my fourth cycle, this time the non-Christian girl is interested in reading the bible, and she's become closer to me and my family than any other non-blood related person in my life. I don't have the strength anymore to say no, and I can't get any more instructions from God on dating other than to not be unevenly yolked, just like every other time before. Never had a GF as a result. I'm tired of being tempted and I literally just want a godly relationship. What do?
stop letting *your conception* of god cuck you out of a good life is my advicei'm not christian so take it or leave it
>>34835770And you didn't ask the good girl if she'd be willing to attend church with you, why?
>>34835782Reddit is down the hall and to the left>>34835794Did, she went with me to a biblestudy with me, and felt awkward because she couldn't contribute. When she tried reading the bible, she couldn't understand it and gave up (gave it to her in her native language, apparently it's hard to read, in addition to the bible generally being not easy to grasp). She'd probably go again if I asked, but at this point we're both kinda too close to be considered just friends at this point, and do couple things
>>34835838you don't even know it's "unevenly yoked", maybe consider that your conception of god is incomplete?
>>34835866>uses a typo as evidence for an argumentDude, seriously what are you doing here? Your fedora's getting cold and there's a subreddit left unmoderated. At first it was a joke, but now it's just apt.
>>34835875what was the joke? nothing else about your post had anything egg related
>>34835875not a typo if you did it twiceif you're esl i suppose it's excusable, but i'm not trying to attack you i'm just trying to say you're no bible expert so stop letting it ruin your life. go be a monk if you're so dedicated.that's it really.
>non-christian women gets close to me, has more wifeable qualities than the christian women, including being a virgin>start to have feelsDon't be a cuck. Only a pure Christian wife is marriage material
>>34835886This is a delineation without a difference. You know what I meant, I know what I meant, we both pictured the wooden thing on the cattle, so what are we doing here? I'll admit I'm no bible master, but that's no reason to throw away the verse.
>>34835770Stop letting Christianitt cockblock reaching your goals
>>34835770I thought Christians were supposed to spend their time trying to be like Christ (who never married) and ministering to people around them instead of wasting their time on this stuff?Try loving your neighbor instead of selflishly going around looking for the perfect thing for you, clearly the most important being in your universe.
>>34835770Kys incel
>>34835770Faith is measured by virtue, not by words or church attendance. If you were to meet a non-Christian woman who is virtuous in her behavior, meaning she's honest, compassionate, principled and selfless, that woman would be more of a Christian than a church attending woman who is dishonest, selfish, cruel or unprincipled. The only question is whether or not the person you're dating loves good for goodness's sake. If they do, then they love the Lord. If not, then that isn't somebody you want to be dating in the first place.
if you become firm in your faith, flirt to convert is not a bad idea. my biggest recommendation is to stick to a high church (catholic imo, but even mainline protestant or orthodox would be better than baptist evangelical slop)[if by non christian you mean western athiest go for it, if you mean brown pagan run]pray the rosary everydayread everydaygrow in virtuecombat viceand so on
>>34835770I know this is b8, so for anyone who actually cares, the woman doesn't have to believe in God for it to be ok to have kids with her, the children must be raised christian however. That is all that matters
>>34835770Just do whatever that you want
>>34835770>unevenly yolkedWhat the fuck does that even mean in this context? Are you trying to imply she won't be pulling her weight?
