but they never reveal how they know. They literally ask me to check if they were right, and when I respond they have already said (3 times) "I knew it!"How do they know?!!?
No one can "tell" if you are a virgin. However, there are things that can reveal that you are inexperienced with women. Women are far more intuitive than guys are when it comes to emotional and relational things. Women can tell when a guy likes them very easily. - When you look at her quickly and break eye contact, or stare too long. When you turn your head again quickly to look. - When you go out of your way to tease or talk to them- When you're shy around themWomen can tell all these things on a far deeper level than men, and they notice this shit. It is very, very hard for a man to hide that he desires a woman from a woman. So - if you like a girl - she actually already knows. If you "beat around the bush" or don't directly ask out, or try to be friends first - she will be able to tell you are inexperienced and maybe a virgin.
women only see rizzno rizz = virgin chudcelabusechad rizz = potential partner
>>34836292That jpeg of women detecting a guy is autistic (mind superpowers) vs women detecting if a guy will beat em up (blind walking stick)
There are plenty of tells. When they actually ask, they likely discussed with someone else and the consensus was that you are, or perhaps you've displayed some sort of behavior that makes them suspicious of.But if you were to say "no comment" or, "No, im a complete sex addict actually, I fucked on the way to work today", they wouldn't actually know anything for certain regardless of how sure they are of their assumptions, would they? Gotta manipulate and gaslight a little.Use social sleight of hand, tell the truth or commit to the reality that you want to exist (go fuck someone). Also, for me at least, I'd rather be asked if im a virgin than if im gay.
>>34836292with virgins the whites of their eyes aren't clear. also virgins smell like a combination of cum and smelly sock, non-virgins smell like cum and pussy juice.
>>34836308it's interesting how they are able to instantly know all of this yet they can't tell if the man they are dating is an abusive narcissist.
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>>34837132Women don't actually completely avoid abusive narcissists. Women are very attracted to the confidence, the congruence, and the consistency of the abusive narcissist. The abuse narcissist can give them a wild, crazy night of fun. A lot of women try to turn the abusive narcissist into a husband, however (this never works) and they get burned.
>>34836292The real answer is that women can read your mind by default as long as you're a virgin (they can do it via radio waves/electrons as well). However, that one-way synaptic link is broken near instantaneously (the pulse has to travel around the globe) the moment you insert your intromittent organ inside a fibromuscular tubular tract (of the Homo Sapiens variant).
>>34837132The abusive narcissist hides these qualities, obviously. That's what makes them dangerous (and there are female narcs too)The clueless virgin on the other hand wears it on his sleeve, even if unintentionally. More often than not it's obvious to everyone.
>>34837259I disagree. I don't think they hide those qualities or even need to at all. Women know exactly what they are getting into with those kinds of men. They want the fun, wild excitement that comes with it, then they get burned trying to turn him into a husband.
>>34837267I don't care if you disagree, you're coming from a place of incel seethe (talking about "abusechads" and such), I'm coming from a place of growing up with a narc parent and seeing it firsthand.The sub-set of women who get involved with abusive partners KNOWINGLY, and specifically BECAUSE they like the abuse, is non-zero but still extremely small. The vast majority of the time the narc hides that side of himself (or herself) until it's too late. They're actors with superficial charm and good at faking it, then their target finds out the hard way once the mask comes off and it's too late.
>>34837278I'm not coming from a place of "incel seethe."I'm the furthest thing from an incel there is. Women aren't stupid at all. We do and say so many things to infantilize them >they didn't know how he REALLY was>they didn't know what they were getting into>he was really good at hiding it!>he's such a player!Bullshit. Women aren't stupid. They know exactly what they are doing when they hop in bed with them. Plenty of women are attracted to him because he promises a night of wild, crazy fun.
>>34837287>oh, I'm not an incel!>I just happen to sound just like them and repeat all their talking points!There was never anything "wild, crazy, or fun" about my father, and my mother never thought there was. All he did was pretend to be a nice decent guy and he's not, he's anything but. He tried to fool me and gaslit me on any number of things growing up too, and I'm his son. Do you think I was supposed to be wowed by the premise of "nights of crazy fun" too anon?
>>34837303Nta, yup. My dad is a narcissist too and he manages to fool people but never forever or too long. As a kid I just found it weird but didn't think too much of how he seemed to have an ever rotating set of friends, never permanent ones. But later I put two and two together and also asked him some questions and found out he's literally a drama queen who is constantly making new friends (the charisma and pretending), having a huge fallout a few years later, and then immediately making new friends again and never seeing the old ones ever again. And this was constant, every 1-2 years, entire groups of friends. And now despite being an extrovert who has had 100s of friends that I witnessed, he now has no friends not even one because everyone has left thanks to his manipulative behavior.People really don't understand that someone like this managing to trick one person, have kids with them, then likely having an early divorce, isn't something to aspire to.
>>34837303>>34837393Now that 4chan is back up - The idea that ALL THOSE WOMEN are being fooled by this one narcissistic guy is the most naïve shit I've ever heard. No they are not. They know exactly what they are getting into.
>>34837139What the fuck. How do they know? Who told them and who is telling us?
>>34836292Women have a genuine sixth sense when it comes to detecting men's sexual desperation/inexperience. It sucks and it sounds like a meme but it's the truth. It might not be obvious to you and it might not even be consciously obvious to them, but you are definitely sending out signals that you are not a guy that fucks. Women like guys that fuck more than guys that don't fuck.If you want to get all evo psych about it, it probably is some defense mechanism to make sure that they don't end up with a genetically inferior mate (can't spread his seed) or some deviant that will harm her and her offspring. Conversely, sexually successful men are more likely to be fit for survival because other women in the past judged them to be. This shouldn't matter in our modern world but as usual, while men have struggled to drag our species kicking and screaming into the light of civilization, women are still almost completely controlled by 300,000 year old whisperings from their cunts.
>>34837417Interesting strawman. And actual narcissists aren't all that common. For every narcissist who meets diagnostic criteria you have 10 insecure people who reek desperation/insecurity, which they notice.It also isn't locked to one gender. There are too many insecure men who become attached to a narcissistic woman who charms them who then later starts abusing them. This also isn't a good thing as you seem to imply.
>>34837460It's not a strawman. Women absolutely know when they are dealing with an asshole man. They often times straight up pick the guy because he promises a wild night of fun.
>>34836292when I was 30 I was a virgin.I started fucking prostitutes, best decision of my life.I also dont really care what women think anymore.I also have a cat like the one in that picture; they are every bit as awesome as they look.I shouldnt give life advice since my life sucks. But so does yours, so maybe you can turn a bad situation into slightly less bad?My advice is this: do what you want to do. Vomit up everything youve been told you *should* do & make your own decisions. There are no rules to this game. > No one can "tell" if you are a virgin.he acts scared>>34837132they can tell both. They seek it out.
>>34837486>they can tell both. They seek it out.Thank you, that's what I'm trying to tell these other guys in the thread. Women absolutely know when they are dealing with a dick.
>>34836292contrary to plebbit popular belief, virgins who are not comfortable with themselves are visibly insecure.>women can always tellwomen assume you're either into them or gay lol the concept of uninterested heterosexual men does too much damage to their egos. they just never act on or communicate false positives (which, can we admit, is either a projection of their own attraction or borne from strict meanness), so you only ever hear when they're right.
they can detect autism and 99% of the time male autists are virgins
>>34837491uh huh so then why do they act surprised when the dick abuses them? if they know he's a dick, they should expect to be verbally and physically abused. are you saying they like getting the shit beat out of them?
>>34837240Canine variant also work for this?
>>34836292first off:if you want to fuck a woman, do some magick.second:women are crazy shits. you need a library of high duty psychology stuff on the topic in order to recognize their schemes.you can not learn by talking to women about how to get women. consider women a black box. and anything they say does not matter the real output. they say "i hate this", then they do it. so they love it. same goes for AI. ohhh... i hate AI. usues AI. sure. hate it. use it. pay. goes for anything. numbers talk.
>>34841641i mean this:you do not want to see it but keep watching? you thus like to see it.
Nigga if they really want to know they’ll just ask. They aren’t shy about that shit. You should always lie btw. Tell them you’ve been with a couple of girls before
>>34836292if you dont treat them like a child then they pretty much know you have no experience
>>34836292This fact doesn't bother me because I'm not retardedI know how obvious it is that I am nervous around them and that I've gone years at a time without regularly interacting with womenWhat is upsetting is thinking what I can even do at this pointI have not personally seen a shred of empathy from a woman in my entire life
>>34841936Yeah I kind of feel the same way. It would be naive of me to think that attractive woman can’t tell that I am nervous around them. I’ve sort of just come to accept it instead of beating myself up about. It is what it is and nowadays I just try to focus on other things that make me happy. I’m 33 and have only had sex once (with an an escort) so I feel like it’s too late for me to change at this point. Even if I was able to become better with women now, I don’t think I would ever fully be able to get over all the missed opportunities and cringy moments with girls I had in my younger years.
>>34837132>can't tellThey can tell anon, and they seek them out because it's what they're attracted to.
>>34837139I'm a virgin and don't do this though? I don't even feel desire anymore because I have no hope of it going anywhere. I am the dog that chose to just lay down and be shocked by the electric floor of life as a sub8 male.
>>34842116>I don’t think I would ever fully be able to get over all the missed opportunities and cringy moments with girls I had in my younger years.Sunk cost fallacy. Hope its worth cucking yourself