1) rape her
2) wank
3) prostitutes
choose

>>34837703
have you tried communication?

>>34837703
Fuck sluts on the side

>>34837715
i can't afford prostitutes or another woman, i already thought about that
>>34837717
what communication? tell her i'm horny? she'll be more repulsed by this

>>34837813
you didn't even tell her you want sum fuk? lmaooooo

>>34837817
she often says no, the few times she agrees, she does it out of necessity, not because she wants it. one time, we had to be away from each other for 2 weeks, when we met again i asked her did you not even once become horny she says not in the slightest.

every morning you have to t-pose nakes with a hardon in front of the bed and shout I WANNA FUCK for three times

>>34837813
>what communication?
"hey, remember how we are married because we love each other and are into each other? well, i know it's hard for you but i would really like you to look more attractive and be more healthy"
can probs phrase it much better, i'm not a psychologist. but ffs, she is your wife for a reason. And if the reason is really completely gone, just divorce. not having sex anymore is literally a very good reason for the court

>>34837813
Consider why youre still with her, coercion also exists, just be direct, dont accept no for an awnser, comfort her after you cum

sex dolls and such exist aswell, /jp/ has a ton of info on them

dayum that venus mound, smexy
>botched belly button job
>tattoes every fucken where
>birthmarks shotgunned everywhere
you just know her destiny and fate are ugly because of them
ew.
still rather respectable gains and abs. and she managed to keep her tits big.

i dont know OP, how much do you love her? do you want to keep investing in your marriage, her and you? children? unfortunately i dont know the hormonal dynamics of fat people and sex drives aka i dont know if you should fix her sex drive first and then naturally she will get slimmer or if she should lose weight and then her sex drive will return, naturally.
you could spike her food with aphrodesiacs to make her horny for example. surely theres somethign too to make her want to move more
i would just tell her that i love her and that being fat is bad for her health and she might die sooner and thats something i dont like. also sex would be way more fun if you both were in shape. you could just lift her up and fuck her against the wall for example if she wasnt such a kiloton nuke.
and to make it easier for her, you can both do sports together to bond even more. if she wants it.
that way you both get in shape and you can fuck her longer via more stamina.
or are you guys too old already, fat people grow complacent with their situation too? lots of it is mindset too.
>>34837828
sounds like your marriage is fucking dead.

>>34837813
The communication is a sit-down conversation about how you're not happy being in sexless relationship and need to hear if she's going to work with you to fix things or not. If she will, and actually puts in genuine effort to help make the relationship better, then good, go to counseling, figure out ways to make sex appealing and exciting for her, talk to her about her physical health. If not, if she's decided that she's happy being frigid and depriving you of what would make the relationship work, then fucking leave dude. Divorce sucks and you'll probably find a lot of reasons why staying in a shitty relationship is easier, but you can either go through that pain now or spread it over the next decade or two with interest and kill your soul. No point in being with someone who values your relationship so little anyway, if she can't even hear you out and try to help make things work for you then she doesn't want to be with you either, she just likes the benefits of you without the work.

>>34837703
Don’t even bother. You should pick your battles and this is a worthless fight. She’s an adult who knows what she’s doing. She either knows that sex is important to you and is not doing it anyway or she doesn’t know because she obviously doesn’t care that this point.
>get her to lose weight
>sit her down and be logical with her
I don’t think those things will work, though they’re suggestions with noble intentions. Anything you say about weight/workout/sex is going to put her on such a defensive that the conversation is basically over when you state the topic.
Giving somebody the chance to fix something is one thing. Looking clearly at your situation is another entirely. Actions speak louder than words.
So basically fuck other women is the way to go if you want to stay with wife even though she obviously doesn’t give a fuck
Or you could leave her and pursue the unknown
Or you can just accept no sex, as most married men do, despite what they say online about it.
At the end of the day, though, trying to argue logically with fat wife who already doesn’t fuck you is going absolutely nowhere. Take care of yourself because if you don’t, nobody is. Because she’s not.

The best sexual activity you’re going to have as a married man in 2026 is jerking off to the fantasy of having a wife that actually wants to fuck you.
Believe me or find out yourself. It’s the truth.

You ever notice how even married women somehow don’t have husbands anymore? They call husbands “partners” like they’re fags or something.
That’s because the entire social contract for marriage is disintegrated. Being married means doing all of the guy stuff without complaint but also being endlessly understanding of the fact that she feels no obligation to do any of the girl parts.
And it’s not that they don’t know this. In their opinion, this is proper marriage. This is fair to them. They are entitled to you doing the man parts and they are also entitled not to do the woman parts. It is explicit to them and I cannot express enough that they think this is a fair arrangement. There is no and will never be any self awareness.

>>34837828
I'm sick and tired of retards marrying the next best person before the honeymoon phase and then complaining after.
Doubly so if you watch your wife balloon without even saying a word before its too late

>>34837703
>she's also fat, which adds to sex not being fun anymore
Are you jacked, shredded to the gills, and/or a beast in the gym?
If not, please explain why she would be interested except out of obligation?

>>34837703
>fat wife
Dump the whale. Fatfuck women will be a sow by 50. Leave now!

>>34837703
That is humiliating that she looks stronger than me. I didn't need to see that

>>34839390
low t, I find it arousing instead
imagine wrestling with your wife as a game, I'm sure it would be one hell of a motivation to keep yourself fit

Flirt with other women in front of her. She thinks you cant get anyone else so you gotta make her think you can

>>34839248
So you think that women are only interested in sex with jacked gymbros, and anything else is just mercy or coercion? That's not how it works.

>>34839398
I've never been into muscles on myself.

>>34837703
>sexless relationship

>>34837813
>what communication

why are normies like this?

>>34837703
whats the point of being married if you dont get sex