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Do stereotypical gamer gf girls with the cat ear headphones, liking games but being bad at them, cuddling while gaming with you etc. actually exist and are they good wife material?
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>>34840304
No, they can't exist in any society. if they do, you aint going to find them. Any woman that truly prefers you and doesn't have that one quality that you dislike is wife material
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>>34840304
>actually exist
Yes.
> and are they good wife material?
No.
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>>34840304
No because they’re not the fetishized cuties you imagine, these girls usually live in a messy room are the real kind of introvert and eat garbage
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>>34840304
very infantile view of women and personal dynamics

Gauge women by how they treat you, not by how they look, dress, hobbies etc.
Of course, have your green flags regarding that, but within it STILL YOU HAVE TO FILTER, by "how she treats you" yardstick.

Imagine your perfect girl. Cat ears. Lives alone. Loves to cuddle. Speaks funny. Is gentle.
BUT, she thinks you suck and ignores you.

Is she wife material? Is she ideal for you?

Proabbly for sure not lol. Guys tend to fixate on "but she is peeerfeeectttt!!!!" and forget the supposed perfect girl doesnt want them.

Remember that she wanting you is the beginning of good marriage.

Perfect girls text you back. Perfect girls show interest. Perfect girls carry the convo with you. Perfect girls show up.
What Im saying is - perfect girl is not something outside of you under glass bell.

Perfect girl is how she treats you + green flags you might have or "Must haves" regarding looks etc.

Remember this and you will never be a simp and never waste time.
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>>34843527
>one sentence
>DOUBLE SPACE
>type another sentence
>DOUBLE SPACE
do you have extreme dyslexia or something?
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>>34843527
always gauge women's fitness for you within the context of you two's dynamic.

Do not observe women like some creature in ZOO

Take into account how she relates to you.

If she is amazing towards you (she will put effort if she likes you) - then feel free to indulge.

Woman's "idealness" depends not on her traits in vacuum, but her traits + her attitude towards you.

She can never be ideal for you if shes tangled or unavailable for you.
No matter how good the ad, no matter how nice the jingle.

You have to show initiative, its a mans world after all.
Show you care, show your intentions in a teasing way, be humane, be a man, lead.
BUT, expect her to dance as well. If she dont follow your lead, let her be. Simple as.

None of that hard to get bullshit. Nobody sane acts hard to get with someone they legit quiver when they see.
Hard to get = hard to love.

>>34843533
shuttup and fuck off back to underworld, goblin cunt. Your kind doesnt belong here.
Tell your crew I slaughter all of you before you were born. You arent even real. Observe your realness fading as you read this.
GG
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>>34840304
Not really. What you want is an autistic male, not a woman. Women tend to prefer men who have social status, and that means you are a leader and you don't spend all your time indoors playing video games. So unless you're a famous Twitch streamer with a lot of friends, it won't happen.
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>>34840304
No this is just a character some female streamer came up with and realized it attracted a ton of male viewers. It's all marketing, just like "goth" girls have become nowadays.
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>>34840304
what the fuck am i even reading anymore? is ao3 down?
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>>34847713
I have a high paying job with "manager" in the title and I spend all my free time playing games. Also over 6ft tall and white. What are my odds?
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i think i'm good wife material but i'm actually pretty good in many games, and my room looks neutral (so like a guy's room basically) so no cat earphones either. my taste in men is metalhead(true metalhead, not fake).
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>>34847980
Your best shot is to go to the city and find a quirk chungus.
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>>34840304
Probably not good cuz gaming is kinda waste of time and resources. If they moderate or minimal with it then sure
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>>34840304
>>34843527
women like this might not exist on their own but you can morph a women into being like this. Only works if they're 18-21
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>>34840304
What are you waiting for OP?
>>34848018
Here's one, just be man enough
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>>34848018
what's a true metalhead?
I like megadeth, agalloch, counterparts and crowbar
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>>34843527
>Perfect girls text you back. Perfect girls show interest. Perfect girls carry the convo with you. Perfect girls show up.
100% true.

Except for the part where that is 100 times harder to find than a girl who is pretty and likes video games, lol. I hope we all find a woman like that one day.
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>>34852712
Listen to riffobia dude, i like "god of hate" but it is to hard for my sensitive bones. :(
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>>34843533
It's a consequence of phoneposting. It helps with sorting better through thoughts and writing a more cohesive message. Le oldfags never had this thought cross their minds
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>>34847720
This.
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>>34848018
This is what I'm looking for in a woman. Games, metal, tidy room. Been playing guitar since I was a teen but took me a long time to actually record music and put it out there, release my own games, own a house etc. You might need somebody older than you think (I'm almost 40). Men don't really grow out of stuff like metal music. I think a lot of women prioritize men that are young and attractive but don't really have much development yet, then find themselves unhappy when he is directionless.

When I was 25, I could pull easily, but I had accomplished nothing.
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>>34852733
I just listened to this, it reminded me a lot of slayer which is pretty cool. thanks for the recommendation fren :^)
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>>34853023
it's redditspacing.



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